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Thursday, June 10, 2010 9:43am PDT

Emergency rescue effort is launched for teen sailor Abby Sunderland

By: Pete Thomas, GrindTV.com

A rescue effort has been launched in hope of finding Abby Sunderland, 16, who set off her emergency beacon locating devices from the southern Indian Ocean early this morning.

Sunderland, who had been attempting to sail around the world alone, endured multiple knockdowns in 60-knot winds Thursday before conditions briefly abated.

However, her parents lost satellite phone contact early this morning and an hour later were notified by the Australian Coast Guard that both of Sunderland's EPIRB satellite devices had been activated.

One is apparently is attached to a survival suit or a life raft and meant to be used when a person is in the water or aboard a life raft.

Abby's father struggled with emotions and said he didn't know if his daughter was in a life raft or aboard the boat, or whether the boat was upside down.

"Everything seemed to be under control," Laurence Sunderland said. "But then our call dropped and a hour later the Coast Guard called."

Abby is hundreds of miles from land. The nearest ship was about 400 miles away. The rescue effort is being coordinated by the French-controlled Reunion Islands and Australia. Sunderland had been sailing in 50- to 60-foot seas and it was dark when the EPIRB devices were activated.

The Sunderlands are asking people to pray for their daughter, a high-school junior from Thousand Oaks, Calif.

Charlie Nobles, executive director of the American Sailing Assn., said, "We're all praying for her and our thoughts are with her. If she's got the survival suit, and she's got the EPIRB and she's in pretty good shape, she's just got to try to hang on. And when they get there, these guys... they're going to hopefully send the best that they've got to try to do a rescue and it's definitely possible. They're amazing people who do those rescues. They know exactly what they're heading into."

Nobles said a scenario whereby a sailor has to abandon ship might go like this: Water flooding the vessel automatically inflates the life raft, which is tethered to the sailboat. The sailor, if the sailboat is sinking, would grab the boat's EPIRB device and stuff it into a ditch kit, take the ditch kit and deploy and climb aboard the life raft. The sailor would only cut the tether if the sailboat is sinking, pulling down the lifeboat.

Abby was for several months one of two 16-year-olds attempting to sail around the world alone. Australia's Jessica Watson completed her journey last month, just days before turning 17.

Abby's brother Zac, who graduated from high school, completed a solo-circumnavigation last summer at 17.

The timing of Abby's trip was criticized by some because it was going to place her in the middle of the Indian Ocean when the stormy Southern Hemisphere winter was at hand.

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kimmel

Posted by kimmel June 10, 2010 10:05am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Wow... this is not good. I wish the best for Abby and her family.

laura clark

Reply by laura clark June 10, 2010 10:48am PDTReport Abuse

It is a very sad and alarming to think that parents would allow such a young girl to circumnavigate the earth alone!!!!! I watch my 21 year old daughter walk to the car at night!!! God Bless Abby.

michael mays

Reply by michael mays June 10, 2010 10:55am PDTReport Abuse

Laura - Exactly. I hope everything turns out okay, but these parents were, in a word, stupid.

brian depaul

Reply by brian depaul June 10, 2010 10:58am PDTReport Abuse

omg i hope they find her

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 10:59am PDTReport Abuse

This girl was well trained in her sport.. Which just so happens to be sailing.
I have no ill feelings towards her parent. Uncaled for and unwarranted.

ronin

Reply by ronin June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

The parents are idiots. He is correct. Parents just don't want to hear how dumb they can be.

jmse

Reply by jmse June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

We will all be praying for her safe return. Alot of us will also be praying for the parents who allowed this young girl even try to cross the Indian ocean. Common sense tells us not to leave our toddlers in a hot car...it should also tell us not to allow our 16 year old daughter try to sail the ocean, in storm season, alone. Dumb dumb parenting!

guest

Reply by guest June 10, 2010 11:06am PDTReport Abuse

What morons these parents must be. The things people do for fame and fortune. They will never find her.

hope2010

Reply by hope2010 June 10, 2010 11:06am PDTReport Abuse

Isn't Abby a minor child. If I remember what is she or any child under 18 yrs of age traveling the world with out a custodian or guardian. Was the Child Protective Service of the united state written for the underprivileged children only. Because I am sure that if this was my kid trying to travel the would on a raft the department of child protective service would be on my ass. O and the news and the world would picture me the worst mother of all times.....I don't get it ......if social class not exist in some peoples vocabulary think again......being poor is being underprivileged and punished .....I hope that God is protecting Abby in the ocean.....but daddy don't cry because you gave her the green light for this adventure.....and truly that is consider neglect.

angel alright

Reply by angel alright June 10, 2010 11:09am PDTReport Abuse

Compassion seems to be in short supply huh?

candas campbell

Reply by candas campbell June 10, 2010 11:10am PDTReport Abuse

I think that the only thing we should be doing is praying that this poor girl is found and safe. It is not for ANY of us to place blame on her parents. Have we not learned yet how to be compassionate and caring for our fellow man?

sheena eastman

Reply by sheena eastman June 10, 2010 11:11am PDTReport Abuse

they let her brother do it, so they had to let her. obviously they believed she could handle it...and you have to let your kids grow up sometime. you can't protect them from everything, and frankly she was probably safer sailing solo than walking across a parking lot by herself these days....

halo101st

Reply by halo101st June 10, 2010 11:11am PDTReport Abuse

Can you also say 'over-protective?' I agree that no 16 year-old girl belongs in 50 - 60 foot seas alone regardless of how competent they may be on a sailboat. However, using common sense and teaching your kids how to use their heads when going out at night with friends steers them away from becoming an age group of grossly incompetent youngsters.
There are boys today who have never fired a rifle, been in a common fistfight, or played a contact sport, and think it is o.k. to break into tears whenever they get upset. What's next, boys wearing dresses and girls thinking they are all airborne rangers?

really916

Reply by really916 June 10, 2010 11:12am PDTReport Abuse

50 foot seas, 60 MPH winds, 400 miles from help, in the middle of the indian ocean in a life raft at best, most likely just floating in the water in a survival suit. Stick a fork in her - she is done.

Hopefully, her stupid parents will blame themselves. You dont allow a child to attempt something so incredibly stupid - you step up as a responsible parent and say, "wait until you are 18, and pay for it yourself!" Essentially, they paid lots of cash to get their daughter drowned at sea...

matt haupt

Reply by matt haupt June 10, 2010 11:12am PDTReport Abuse

No they are not. In a word, you are stupid. Heaven forbid any parents let their child follow a real dream. Not this 'go to college-get a good job-make lots of money-be happy' false logic that most of us have been ground up in. There are real consequences to their actions, but there are always real consequences when you stay true to who you are. It is obvious that this is a sailing family with a way of life, and the fact that they may end up paying the ultimate price does NOT make them stupid. Do you think those types of comments are constructive at all? Get a grip

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 11:12am PDTReport Abuse

As someone has already stated. This girl was following her dream. Do you think she just all of a sudden 1 day decided to hop in a sail boat and travel around the world?
I am guessing many days of many long hours of training went into this and far smarter people than any of us know whether or not she was capable and trained enough to do so.
This could have happened to anyone of any age of any gender.
I applaud her and her parents bravery.
Journeys like these are what great people are made of.
Hope none of you have kids involved in any x games.

no_agenda

Reply by no_agenda June 10, 2010 11:12am PDTReport Abuse

if abby were 18, no one would blame her parents or scorn her attempt. her ability and courage to conceive such a grand attempt demonstrates she is more mature than many adults. get home safe, abby!

sue2010

Reply by sue2010 June 10, 2010 11:12am PDTReport Abuse

To stinger_splash2017: GET SOME HELP DUDE!!! You are sick, disgusting individual that you would wish that upon a child. Hope you get the mental help you so desperately need.

susan flanary

Reply by susan flanary June 10, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

This isn't the time to judge the parents ability. She is not your daughter and you were not there when it was decided that she wanted to do this alone. Did you ever here of Amelia Earhart?

ripgnar

Reply by ripgnar June 10, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

Laura and Michael you are both soo right. I prefer to bubble wrap my children and then leash them in the back yard where they can play with their safety scissors and ball point pens, fine point are far too dangerous... Their are some people in the world that actually seek to accomplish something in their life, I think parents who support their children in endeavors that go beyond doing the best they can at the local team sport of choice ought to be commended. They probably wrestled with the idea of letting their children do this, but at least they saw the full potential in their child. Get kids out to do more than just the mundane, they'll thank you later when they actually have some character. Good Luck to Abby.

jessygarro

Reply by jessygarro June 10, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

I AM VERY SORRY BUT I HAVE FOLLOWED THIS STORY SINCE IT STARTED, FIRST I WISH NOTHING BAD HAPPENS TO HER BUT...NOW WE HAVE TO SEND RESCUE SQUADS, PROBABLY HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE ARE WORKING HARD TO FIND HER, JUST TO FULFILL A RUBBISH WISH...THIS IS NOT FAIR FOR HARD WORKING RESCUERS TO WORK SO HARD AND RICK THEIR LIVES, THIS IS NOT AN ACCIDENT....
ALL THIS COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED!!!

jraider66

Reply by jraider66 June 10, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

Repeated. She is a professional. She has spent her life preparing for this. She is not just some 17 year old that decided to do this one day. She has grown up sailing and she is far from being the only young person to attempt this. Sure, it is safer for everyone to sit on their butt, work from 9-5 and watch each other like hawks so noone gets hurt... but people like her are the ones that accomplish great things. She willingly accepted this risk when she started out.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

Yeah, great idea, guys. Let's blast the parents when this young woman is a talented sailor who knows what she's doing. This is a sailor's dream to circumnavigate the globe, so let's honor that and not be TEENAGERS in our responses.

booger_bill

Reply by booger_bill June 10, 2010 11:15am PDTReport Abuse

Thank you Matt! well said! Don't ya just love armchair parents?

syed abdul khader

Reply by syed abdul khader June 10, 2010 11:17am PDTReport Abuse

we all pray for you abby,,,,,home we get you soon

conjostudios

Reply by conjostudios June 10, 2010 11:18am PDTReport Abuse

Kids these days are growing up soft and over-protected! When schools won't allow them to play games like tag, kickball, and jump rope they will grow up to be fat, lazy and scared of everything. Unfortunately, many parents have bought into this politically-correct BS.
Look at all you arm-chair quarterbacks who think you know better than a kid's family. YOU DON'T!! Good for Abby's parents to allow her to take an adventure! Abby, our prayers are with you! God-speed to the rescue teams!

scott keith

Reply by scott keith June 10, 2010 11:18am PDTReport Abuse

Why wouldn't she have had an escort? For safety and also for documentation.

jenniewest

Reply by jenniewest June 10, 2010 11:19am PDTReport Abuse

I hope they find her. However, this was a stupid thing to do. I am a ship captain and certainly negatively biased with regards to the general competence of most sail boaters. But only an idiot would defend the parents allowing her to navigate in that area during this season in the Indian Ocean just so that she can beat a record while she is still 16. That is poor and risky seamanship on top of her being still a child. It should have never been allowed for any minor. If you are an adult and want to risk your life that is your business. But a child should never have been allowed. I hope she was wearing her immersion suit at all times. There would be no time to don it if it flipped and impossible to do while in the water. Depending on the mounting of liferaft, whether a valise throw overboard or a rail mount automatic deployment, she may also have trouble just getting to her raft if she did not chose to evacuate and launch the raft before there was trouble.

warick99

Reply by warick99 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

This always amazes me, we have developed a culture of people who are so risk averse it is pathetic. Raising a whole generation of kids who will grow up to let fear run their lives. I applaud these parents for raising a child with courage, who is willing to excel and reach for something great. At 16 she is capable of doing something none of you could ever hope to accomplish. Maybe some of you people need to take a look at your own parenting skills, who will probably raise kids whose only claim to doing something great with their lives is how wasted they got at a party once. I hope you are ok Abby and my heart goes out to you Mr and Mrs Sunderland.

sabrina streit

Reply by sabrina streit June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

Parent are not idiots, but one parent should at had an back up emergecy sail boat right behind her sail boat. Because of an high risk for something like this happening. But then again parents do want their children to make dreams and help their children make them come true in whatever support they can give to get that started and no matter what it is there will always be some chance of risk in good or bad happening. I pray for her safe return to the parents soon!!

really916

Reply by really916 June 10, 2010 11:23am PDTReport Abuse

If she is such a professional, why was there such a uproar about this before she set sail?

I can answer that... she was not experienced enough! She was trying to break a record for the glory rather than waiting until she had the skills to get the job done. Now she has paid the ultimate price, which she gladly accepted.

Dont feel sorry for her - she departed too late in the season to do this safely and knew it when she took off...

boris osipchuk

Reply by boris osipchuk June 10, 2010 11:23am PDTReport Abuse

stinger_splash2017 seems like you are talking from you own painful experience. No need to wish others what have happened to you. Glad morons like you can only shit in the comments on yahoo. I hope this girl is found safe and sound. These are the people the define humanity. Without them we would still be in the caves, without fire and cloth.

chrismotts

Reply by chrismotts June 10, 2010 11:23am PDTReport Abuse

Ok so to the folks saying that she was a professional and trained all her life for this, yada yada, I think Ron White the comedian put it best:

There was a guy, down in Florida, who said that the age of 53 years old he was in good enough physical condition to withstand the wind, rain, and hail of a force-5 hurricane. Now, lemme explain somethin' to ya: It isn't *that* the wind is blowin'. It's *what* the wind is blowin'. If you get hit by a *Volvo*, it don't matter how many sit-ups you did that mornin'.

maybabe49

Reply by maybabe49 June 10, 2010 11:26am PDTReport Abuse

So do you feel that this young girl should be sailing alone well it's quite apparent that's she's in trouble. I'm sick, what's wrong with these parents. This child sailing around the world, where's their mindset. I'm hoping and praying that the search & rescue team find her.

charlotte washington imvu

Reply by charlotte washington imvu June 10, 2010 11:26am PDTReport Abuse

I agree the parents are idiots..

jloyd

Reply by jloyd June 10, 2010 11:28am PDTReport Abuse

My prayers are with Abby and her family.

stinger_splash2017 you disgust me.

chillinindixie

Reply by chillinindixie June 10, 2010 11:28am PDTReport Abuse

she is a year away from being able to enlist in the military, not a little baby. Holding your kids hands their whole lives will do nothing but cripple them when it comes to making life altering decisions. The parents allowing their daughter to do this simply shows the amount of trust they had in her and her ability to sail. This would have been a well planned endeavour not some fling like bungie jumping. And beside who are you to tell someone they can't live out a dream. Just because you think it is too dangerous or because she is a girl. If you didn't miss it in the article a girl her exact age did this already. So please let your kids grow and make their own decisions.

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 11:31am PDTReport Abuse

Jenniewest, just a shot in the dark here. Bit I am guessing that her parents and her trainers know just as much about the ocean as you do. Her brother already accomplished this feat. I am pretty sure they are well aware of the logistics and dangers involved.
I am sure she knows how to use every piece of equipment on that ship as well or better than just about anyone.
I hope she is found safe. Either way this young girl is a hero and I could only hope that my niece has half the character, the motivation, and bravery that this girl has shown.
And I hope my brother and his wife are more like these parents then not.

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 11:33am PDTReport Abuse

Uhmmmmm
Poor analogy.

sherri kowalski

Reply by sherri kowalski June 10, 2010 11:35am PDTReport Abuse

ripgnar.....Even though this is no laughing matter, I had to laugh at your post. "Good luck to you, Abby..." Kidding, right? This child is no longer with us. I say that on here because I very highly doubt the parents are hanging out on the computer, reading posting about their daughter while rescuers are out at sea looking for her. And then this...."there are people in this world who seek to accomplish something in their life...." Very good. Wonderful. I applaud them. But, the operative words in your posting there is.....'IN THEIR LIFE." The girl's a 16 year old MINOR. She's got her entire adult life to try and accomplish anything she sets out to do. As much as ANYONE on this board would like to applaud the parents in this case and say they did nothing wrong, what they allowed this kid to do is essentially child neglect. Sorry. Just straightforward, nothing pretty about it.

amyharvick29

Reply by amyharvick29 June 10, 2010 11:38am PDTReport Abuse

Where is the compassion people? Who are we to judge??? Praying for Abby and her family :)

brianknowstruth

Reply by brianknowstruth June 10, 2010 11:39am PDTReport Abuse

I am NOT IMPRESSED with these sort of records, i.e., "the youngest ever to do X."
This feat says more about her parents and the situation they have created than it says about her and her character. My parents didn't have the money to let me do this, and they would not have let me do this. But that doesn't make her any better than I am. Not at all. She was born into a different situation than I.
Sad she might have lost her life pursuing something so pointless.

akillerofkings

Reply by akillerofkings June 10, 2010 11:40am PDTReport Abuse

THE PARENTS ARE SICK HORRIBLE PEOPLE IM GLAD THE WORLD NOW SEES THAT ITS NOT CUTE TO LET A 16 YEAR OLD RISK HER LIFE I POOP ON HER AND HER PARENTS

zarcasm

Reply by zarcasm June 10, 2010 11:40am PDTReport Abuse

you people who want to wrap your kids in pillows and bubble wrap to protect them from the world are just afraid of the unknown. this young woman is a modern-day explorer who is blazing new trails and just might inspire some other young person to do something incredible one day - certainly more incredible than sitting in front of a TV playing Xbox. great achievements are accomplished by people who take risks in hopes of doing great things, not by meek worrywarts who cower at the thought of adverse conditions. she and her parents should be applauded. I pray for her safe return.

mrsanders02

Reply by mrsanders02 June 10, 2010 11:42am PDTReport Abuse

Don't feed the troll people.
Abby is twelve times the man this stinker baby is. He has never done anything worthwhile.
God have mercy and save her.
Peace

starzinmyeyes

Reply by starzinmyeyes June 10, 2010 11:42am PDTReport Abuse

I sure hope they find her safe....everyone has dreams and goals in their lives and most of us just chase them and never do them. No matter what age you are ..... Abby had this dream and whether she is alive or gone at least she tried to live her dream...

chick

Reply by chick June 10, 2010 11:42am PDTReport Abuse

what will you have the parents do? tie her hands? i pray she gets back in one piece!

theresa sachiel rising

Reply by theresa sachiel rising June 10, 2010 11:43am PDTReport Abuse

Wow, another headlining article on Yahoo today was 'what to name the next generation'. Lazy and unmotivated come to mind, but here you have a strong, brave young lady that is striving to accomplish something and some twats on here have to drag her down ...cause she isnt at home talking on the phone, or texting someone, or spending mom n dads money at the mall, or is causing drama among her peers, or setting on the couch watching American Idol and Dancing w/ the Stars, or at a friends party smoking and drinking, or scoring some drugs, or getting pregnant...
Like the world needs yet another teen narcissist.

mickohl

Reply by mickohl June 10, 2010 11:43am PDTReport Abuse

Stinger-you are truly vile individual, and ignorant. This girl is highly trained and competent. She has every right to pursue her dream and if that results in an emergency situation then so be it-that is why we have emergency services. Your view that she should suffer for going about her life, following her dreams is deplorable. Would she be a better human if she was like you? Sitting anonymously at her computer saying nasty things about good people? You are a cowardly bastard and I pray you do not or never do, have children. Bitter loser!

eva june

Reply by eva june June 10, 2010 11:44am PDTReport Abuse

Well I only think the parents let Abby do this because her big brother did it and came home. I also think they should of let her do it when the weather was a little better.

amyharvick29

Reply by amyharvick29 June 10, 2010 11:45am PDTReport Abuse

AMEN, zarcasm!!!!

ledge68

Reply by ledge68 June 10, 2010 11:45am PDTReport Abuse

They were not "stupid" in any sense of the word! This young girl has probably some of the best, caring, understanding and thoughtful parents any child could hope for!

Most kids are held back from living life until they are out on their own and then it's such a shock to them on what "real" life is like it becomes overwhelming to the point were most of them fail at simple things that they should have learned how to manage on their own at a much much younger age.

These "kids" of there's have lived more then most of our kids will do in a lifetime!

Good luck to you Abby!

starzinmyeyes

Reply by starzinmyeyes June 10, 2010 11:48am PDTReport Abuse

I hope Abby is safe....some people have dreams or goals in their lives and most of us are just chasing them and not trying to achieve them....no matter her age....Abby had a dream and if she is found safe or is goine at least to tried to live her dream like most of us wish we would....

teeleigh38

Reply by teeleigh38 June 10, 2010 11:50am PDTReport Abuse

I don't think the fact she is a teenager has anything to do with a horrible storm at sea. Many adults have been in the same predicament and have needed help. Come on people!

And those of you with the nasty comments - are you really that unhappy with your own life you have to be that rude and disgusting. People like you are just not happy people or they wouldn't make such disgusting comments.

cruzctrl

Reply by cruzctrl June 10, 2010 11:52am PDTReport Abuse

To any of you who blame these parents, you are the fools. Less then 100 years ago many kids worked to help there parents at a much younger age. Many cultures still believe you are an adult at 13 to 14 yrs. old. It is us in America who have the highest obesity rates and adult alcoholics because we allow the Government to tell us what is right instead of our own moral compass. if you have no moral compass then that works great for you, but as for me and my house I will decide what is best for my kids. If you feel CPS should be called then you also feel that the Government should control your every step. I hope that works out for you.

When Abby is found I hope she hugs her parents and tells them thanks for believing in me, and then says I want to try that again.

Abby and her family are an inspiration, and what has made this country great. Pioneers not afraid of anything..

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 11:55am PDTReport Abuse

From what I just read on the matter where she was currenty at wasnt supposed to be bad seas fr the time she was there. She wasnt supposed to hit what some thought were "dangerous seas" until the fall.
June does not = fall

amy garrison

Reply by amy garrison June 10, 2010 11:56am PDTReport Abuse

i think that everyone that is saying the parents are bad parents need to look at what you would do in there place. Think about it if your child look at you and said i want to do this because you know i can do it and have though me to be independent. I want you to be proud of me and i want to be proud of myself. Just remember that no one should judge anyone. we will all get judged in the end and i bet that god is watching over her right now and holding her in his heart. I don't think that i could of told my daughter no if she asked to do something like this. If she took the time and had the passion for something i would stand behind her 100% of the way and i think her parents are doing the same thing. Praying that she does come home safe and figures out what caused this to happen.

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 11:58am PDTReport Abuse

The post was so god I had to post it again.

To any of you who blame these parents, you are the fools. Less then 100 years ago many kids worked to help there parents at a much younger age. Many cultures still believe you are an adult at 13 to 14 yrs. old. It is us in America who have the highest obesity rates and adult alcoholics because we allow the Government to tell us what is right instead of our own moral compass. if you have no moral compass then that works great for you, but as for me and my house I will decide what is best for my kids. If you feel CPS should be called then you also feel that the Government should control your every step. I hope that works out for you.

When Abby is found I hope she hugs her parents and tells them thanks for believing in me, and then says I want to try that again.

Abby and her family are an inspiration, and what has made this country great. Pioneers not afraid of anything..

jenniewest

Reply by jenniewest June 10, 2010 12:04pm PDTReport Abuse

Joel Amaro...seriously doubt it. It doesn't take my 25 years of experience of being a ship captain on tankers to make this call. I went to sea at about her age. And you are wrong, it is not all about being able to handle the vessel and use the equipment, I am sure she proved herself worthy or her parents would not let her go. It is judgement that is in question. Serious lack of judgement that comes with experience and understanding the dangers unforeseen and obvious. She was not the only one to sign off on this schedule. This has been scrutinized from the beginning as putting her in peril.

davidwatts

Reply by davidwatts June 10, 2010 12:08pm PDTReport Abuse

Joel, in the southern hemisphere June = Fall

Stinger_splash. With any luck you will be booted for posting such a tragic line. To suggest that she meet a horrible demise is not only disgusting but truly immature and quite frankly, psychotic.

As far as CPS. They cannot and do not intervene in sport or skill events. If they did youth baseball and football would have been banned years ago.

fdolansky

Reply by fdolansky June 10, 2010 12:08pm PDTReport Abuse

For those of you crucifying the parents or even Abby, why not throw your knives at any of our teenage olympic gymnasts or figure skaters (many of them younger than Abby), who with a mis-step, mis-jump, mis-dismount, etc., could land on their heads and become paralyzed or worse.

I don't think the parents are stupid or idiots. They put a LOT of thought and consideration into this. Their 17 year old son solo-circumnavigated the globe in a sailboat. Both children are excellent sailors and they weighed all the possibilities. Allowing their child to do something as wonderful and brave as this shows they have tremendous faith and trust in this fine young woman. They need our prayers at this time, not our criticism.

Every single one of us is going leave this earth. That will never be avoided (by the way, I'm NOT implying this is what has happened to Abby. She is an incredible yound sailor and God will see her through this). God is in control of absolutely every situation every human being is in. He will call each one of us to Him in account. If you are ready, then it wouldn't matter if you lived to 5 or 105. God does not want us to live in fear in this world, but with love, discipline, and a sound mind. The parents have shown an abundance of all three of those qualities.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 12:11pm PDTReport Abuse

fdolansky - Thank you, well said!

dragond

Reply by dragond June 10, 2010 12:13pm PDTReport Abuse

I wish Abby the best of luck. Come home safe! Her parents are great for allowing her to fulfill a dream. After all with out dreams where would we be! Think of all the things we have with out a "rubish dream" where would we be?

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 12:15pm PDTReport Abuse

Again, jennie. I am guessing her father has a fair amount of experience. And her brother just got done doing the same thing. They were all well aware of the logistics and dangers inherent in trying this feat. The father knows better than you or I if she was experienced enough or capable enough to complete this.

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 12:16pm PDTReport Abuse

Again, jennie. I am guessing her father has a fair amount of experience. And her brother just got done doing the same thing. They were all well aware of the logistics and dangers inherent in trying this feat. The father knows better than you or I if she was experienced enough or capable enough to complete this.

quincie privat

Reply by quincie privat June 10, 2010 12:17pm PDTReport Abuse

I agree that any SANE parent would not allow this! This is not to attack her parents it's just the facts. This is not normal..

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 12:17pm PDTReport Abuse

Again, jennie. I am guessing her father has a fair amount of experience. And her brother just got done doing the same thing. They were all well aware of the logistics and dangers inherent in trying this feat. The father knows better than you or I if she was experienced enough or capable enough to complete this.

richard bluth

Reply by richard bluth June 10, 2010 12:17pm PDTReport Abuse

Prayer... the only way a person can feel good about doing nothing.

I wish the best for Abby, and I have high hopes that they'll find her alive if she is with either of the EPIRBs. Certainly no expense will be spared in the search, and the people involved in the search are absolutely professionals.
But nevertheless, it is completely justifiable to question the parents in allowing their 16 year old to try and circumnavigate the globe, especially when they KNEW that she would be dealing with 60 foot seas all alone. Those are difficult seas for people with much more experience and much more maturity than Abby could possibly have at 16, and if something happens to her then the parents are absolutely responsible for it. I hope she is found because that's a burden no parent should live with, but it doesn't change the fact that they let their minor out into these conditions with full knowledge of what could happen.

acooper

Reply by acooper June 10, 2010 12:18pm PDTReport Abuse

@jessygarro.............Who is Rick??? And I agree with half of these people on here. She was following a dream and was trained. It is unfortunate and I pray she will be ok but nobody has the right to judge her parents. They should be commended for supporting their daughter in her passion. You people who are talking trash about her parents also are the same parents that dont give your kids a choice in their own lives you control every aspect of their life. Good luck when your kid has no motivation because you decide to force him into things that the have no desire for. At least Abby has motivation to do something great in her life.

acooper

Reply by acooper June 10, 2010 12:20pm PDTReport Abuse

@jessygarro.............Who is Rick??? And I agree with half of these people on here. She was following a dream and was trained. It is unfortunate and I pray she will be ok but nobody has the right to judge her parents. They should be commended for supporting their daughter in her passion. You people who are talking trash about her parents also are the same parents that dont give your kids a choice in their own lives you control every aspect of their life. Good luck when your kid has no motivation because you decide to force him into things that the have no desire for. At least Abby has motivation to do something great in her life.

jmse

Reply by jmse June 10, 2010 12:21pm PDTReport Abuse

I'm thinking that her dream turned into a night mare!

not sure what school yalls kids attend but at our school the kids play kickball, soccer, football, tag...etc. they are not overprotected but they are protected. there is a difference and that girls parents never learned that lesson. Now they may never be able to make up for the stupid decision that they made by allowing this. They were lucky their son made it and is still alive.

guest12ab

Reply by guest12ab June 10, 2010 12:29pm PDTReport Abuse

I originally posted requested someone logged in just click the 'report abuse' button on stinger_splash, but I've now 'joined' grinder just so I could do that - I think it's a weird system that you have to join a group or a site just to report abuse, but whatever, it's okay with me because I'd hate to be a parent and read that shite he's wrote.

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 12:30pm PDTReport Abuse

Sorry for duplicate posts.

jenniewest

Reply by jenniewest June 10, 2010 12:30pm PDTReport Abuse

Joel, her brother didn't go through the Indian Ocean in the fall. It is Fall in the Indian Ocean as it is in the Southern Hemisphere, the worst time to be there. That is why there has been so much scrutiny on the schedule. This was a foreseen peril that they weighed to allow her to break the age record. I was for letting her go but not during this time, she could have delayed but she would not break the age record. I have been there in a huge ship during this time and there is no way I would let my daughter go in a sailboat. They obviously chose poorly since her EPIRB is going off. There are compromises you make with children's dreams and they chose the glory of a record over the personal accomplishment of having her finish safely.

tracy brown

Reply by tracy brown June 10, 2010 12:31pm PDTReport Abuse

I have been keeping track of your daughter Abby sense she headed out to the sea's, I think that it is a wonderful thing that you have done to let her go. You knew in your hearts that she was ready to do this trip. I commend you on letting her go. I to am a mother of three beutiaful children and if one or all three wished to make such a trip as she did, I would most differlantly let them do it. You can't hold them back from they dreams in life you need to let them grow. For those people who are so quick to to blame these parents can out right go to HELL!!! It is not our place to blame any one. Abby and her parents knew the chance's that could happen, and that is a part of life. My prays go out to Abby first and formost and then to her mom,dad, and her brother and the rest of her family. May the lord be with you all and remember always to have faith in the lord. for he is with every one and right now he is with your Abby. She will come home thats how much faith I have. Chins up and prays with you all.

meleiseya

Reply by meleiseya June 10, 2010 12:40pm PDTReport Abuse

First of all soccer/football can be dangerous too. 16 isn't that young, alot of 16 year olds are living on their own. I think its wrong when parents shelter their children so that when they get into the real world they aren't ready for anything and that is far more dangerous then letting them experience things. Everyone is trying to act like she is a toddler or something. She is 16 and experienced! Accidents happen and can happen anywhere you are no safer driving in your car. Don't bash the parents you should be giving them support in finding her. I hope she is ok and found quickly

jmmanders

Reply by jmmanders June 10, 2010 12:54pm PDTReport Abuse

This is a sad event and may Abby be found.

Stinger, if you are reading this, you just made a complete arse out of yourself. Your comment shows your childishness, ignorance, lack of compassion, and arrogance. You never wish the comment you made on a person, no matter who they are. It is disrespectful and crude. One would have thought your parents would have taught you better. Imagine a loved one of yours missing like that, would you wish something on them like what you said on Abby and her family? Probably not. Take a compassion pill and imagine what Abby's parents and relatives are going through right now.

natalie offiah

Reply by natalie offiah June 10, 2010 12:58pm PDTReport Abuse

what everyone seems to be forgetting is that this girl i s a highly trained sailor with a lot of experience not to mention her older brother did the same thing when he was only a year older than she is now...people let their 16 and 17 year old kids drive long distances by themselves I dont see how this is the parents fault...but i wish her the best!!!

crazypatsy

Reply by crazypatsy June 10, 2010 12:59pm PDTReport Abuse

I am thinking that it is a good thing that I can't see any of this STINGER person's posts...they definitely must be horrible....

crazypatsy

Reply by crazypatsy June 10, 2010 01:02pm PDTReport Abuse

I think I have to say that I am glad that I can't see any of what Stinger is saying..... I don't tolerate people like that very well..... and from what I see you complaining about him, I know I don't want to see what he is saying...

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 10, 2010 01:04pm PDTReport Abuse

Other "sports" are supervised with immediate medical attention available. If you think CPS will not intervene you are mistaken. I pray that she is found and all is well, but I pray even more that God is with these parents through what is surely to come.

bj stroup

Reply by bj stroup June 10, 2010 01:11pm PDTReport Abuse

So...I'm reading the replys to this news article, and most of what I see is people calling the parents stupid or negligent. It seems that people forget that at the age of sixteen the only thing that really separates kid from adult is legally two years. I have cousins and friends that left for college at 16, and I myself was working full time and helping support my family at the age of 14 while going to school full time as well. Basically what I'm saying is that her parents are not being neglectful, but understanding her want to do something as an adult. Now if she was 13, then I would agree, but at the age of 16 she is able to make decisions and think very much like an adult, and therefore, and from the sounds of the article, has made quick split second decisions that will most likely save her life by having the survival suit as well as the raft ready in case of just such an emergency. I pray that they find her quickly and bring her safely to shore.

tfish

Reply by tfish June 10, 2010 01:12pm PDTReport Abuse

Well said meleiseya

Honestly how can people blame the parents for this, that's like blaming the parents of a 16 year old girl because she got in a car accident "Well I guess those stupid parents of hers should have known better than to let her drive on a freeway." The girl comes from a family of sailors and even has an older brother who has also sailed around the world, this was her decision and you can't blame anyone when bad weather hits. Next we'll see a news article about some kid getting his neck broke in a high school football game and everyone will be up in arms about how this 17 year old just wasn't experienced enough to play a sport designed by adults.

jennifer mattly

Reply by jennifer mattly June 10, 2010 01:12pm PDTReport Abuse

There are truly exceptional children in this world. I think you have to foster their interests/talents. Having said that, you need to take into consideration elements you cannot control. Weather being the key factor in this case. The expert said the timing of her trip would put her in dangerous waters. You can have the most experienced fisherman but 50-60 foot seas and 60 knot winds can kill anyone. She is only 16. I would let my daughter out all night at that age, never mind on the ocean in a sailboat, expert sailor or not. Even if she had been sailing "all her life" how long could that realistically be at 16? 10 years? Here you can't begin sailing lessons until you are 8 and can swim adequately. It is pointless for anyone to berate her parents now. They are living a real nightmare knowing she is in a danger they might have prevented. But other parents should take heed! I hope against hope she is found alive and well!!!

tumor33

Reply by tumor33 June 10, 2010 01:22pm PDTReport Abuse

I hope she is ok. How do you say it is not the parents fault. When my 17 yr old went somewhere in long distance she was with a group of ppl and someone who was trained in emergency response like police fire and hospitals that were close enough to her she could get the help she needs. Not someone that was 400 miles away from her. I pray for her safe return and her parents learned there lesson without losing one of there kids. No 16 yr old is trained enough to get out of tight spots. No 18 yr old is either but hopefully they find her an she is still alive

lorena jack

Reply by lorena jack June 10, 2010 01:22pm PDTReport Abuse

Just PRAY for this young lady, and keep all negative comments to yourself.

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 10, 2010 01:38pm PDTReport Abuse

This wasn't just something trying to be accomplished, because she could have accomplished this at anytime in her life. They just wanted her to beat a meaningless record that no one really cares about. It even states in the story that they were criticized for the timing of the trip because of the storm season (I am sure by people who know what they are talking about seeing as how she is now in danger) But they all decided to put her life in danger for a meaningless record. Which is very stupid on her part and the part of her parents (because it is their job to make these kind of very IMPORTANT decisions for her). I will be praying for this girl and hope that she is found safe. But even though she may be a trained sailor (which still doesn't mean she knew what she was doing because a "trained sailor" looks at the conditions of the water and takes that into account) this wasn't to accomplish sailing across the world it was for a dumb record. And now all these resources are having to be used for her not because she is just some young girl but because she didn't head warning about the sailing conditions to set a record (i.e. for her (or her parents) need for attention (glory)). And this is the real reason that her parents are "DUMB" because if she wasn't in danger and the news story was about how she was the youngest girl to do it, hardly no one would be commenting on her parents at all.

seleste braddock

Reply by seleste braddock June 10, 2010 01:38pm PDTReport Abuse

i hope she's ok :(

i admire her for doing this and all but she really SHOULD have waited for better weather.

also to all of you saying sheshould never have been allowed to do this what are you going to do when your child says they want to be a pilot or a marine are you going to say no? yeah i thought so.

emily ellis dixon

Reply by emily ellis dixon June 10, 2010 01:49pm PDTReport Abuse

She had already lost her chances at breaking the record when she stopped in cape town. They should have pulled the plug then.

freedm767

Reply by freedm767 June 10, 2010 02:07pm PDTReport Abuse

Wow, I'm a little disgusted with some of the comments here. I normally don't take the time to read other people's opinions, especially when it's riddled with illiteracy, ignorance, and a blatant disregard for common decency. I applaud all those who wrote a kind word or retorted to some idiot who thinks their opinion matters. By the way, if you think what you have to say is important and want to be taken seriously, LEARN HOW TO SPELL CORRECTLY! Seriously, most of you are probably over 30 and don't know basic spelling and grammar, yet you criticize a 16 year old for doing something with her life. YOU CAN'T EVEN WRITE! No wonder you criticize her and her family because it actually takes a smart, passionate, and determined person to do something like this. If it were easy, any idiot (such as many of you here) could do it. But you can't can you? Right, because you lack what normal people have: a heart. Grow the hell up and go back to school, she's obviously a bigger person than you.

janene hampton

Reply by janene hampton June 10, 2010 02:18pm PDTReport Abuse

Aren't the parents going through enough does everybody have to bring them down more...

I wish the best for all involved... They need support more than ever in these moments like the unconditional support they were giving their daughter...

tah006

Reply by tah006 June 10, 2010 02:31pm PDTReport Abuse

What if she DID make it all the way around the world unassisted, I bet you wouldnt be scorning her then.

jmse

Reply by jmse June 10, 2010 02:37pm PDTReport Abuse

Seleste....my oldest son is serving in the air force. I was all for it, was and am very proud of him. I assure you he was not 16 when he joined!

dancingashley

Reply by dancingashley June 10, 2010 02:49pm PDTReport Abuse

Instead of sending all this ill will to her parents, shouldn't we be sending our prayers to Abby?
If a 16 year old is out driving and wrecks their car, is it the parent's fault because they let them go? No.
Abby was trained to do this, but like with anything else in the world, accidents happen.
We should be focusing on the important issue right now: Finding her and getting her home safely.

letsbereal

Reply by letsbereal June 10, 2010 02:53pm PDTReport Abuse

"When you climb the highest Mountains you do it with a team of experts. When you go 200 miles around a track there is again are experts at your side. When ever the greatest world breaking events took place,
you always hear of all the team effort it took!

I pray for Abby's safety and her return, as for her parents i pray for the peace of God to help them deal with the next few days.

And i pray that any parent that thinks this was cool is in need of a reality check. Because the team of experts that were at Abby's side said that she missed her window and if she left this year it would put her in the path of disaster. Abby was 16 when she left, CHILDREN are fit and strong at 16 but they are still only thinking with a 16 yr old mind! that is why we Parents must intervene at times when we see the harm they are about to put themselves in. So please let this be a reality check to all Parents. Abby was excited to leave and was not listening to the team of experts at her side. This is where we as parents must protect our children from harm!

Let us all Pray for this young girls return home and the horror that her parents are going through right now."

old_school_parent

Reply by old_school_parent June 10, 2010 02:59pm PDTReport Abuse

What if? This is a sad sad tale that I hope ends well for her and her family, but let's not kid ourselves this was highly irresponsible. let's not play the what if game because that's living in denial and not in reality. In reality she is a 16 year old child. A minor whose actions are held accountable by her parents. She is not an adult and had her whole life ahead of her, but had to have everything NOW! So sad that her parents didn't have the courage to tell her NO! The ocean isn't going anywhere and you will be an adult in 2 years and just learn to slow down and love life. But what if she was 10 or 30 or not doing it alone? Who cares? Those questions are COMPLETELY irrelevant.

goodsamartino

Reply by goodsamartino June 10, 2010 03:11pm PDTReport Abuse

hahahahaha! stupid parents!

charmaine mangalino kane

Reply by charmaine mangalino kane June 10, 2010 03:20pm PDTReport Abuse

My gosh, people, don't any of you have kids?? I'm pretty sure the parents are already feeling horrible about this, but come on- can we possibly keep the super negative comments at bay?? This isn't about judging the parents right now, but about Abby getting home safe! Put yourself in their situation, maybe not necessarily the same exact position where you had let your child sail around the world alone, but maybe you let your kid walk home from school or to a friend's house, and something happened to them. Wouldn't you already feel bad enough that you weren't there to prevent that?? Sure, this is a bit more serious than "letting your kid cross the street" but the guilt is already on the parents. I hope Abby is safe, and for all of you who have nothing nice to say at all, I hope nothing ever happens to your kids either that complete strangers will criticize you for.

buffetboy

Reply by buffetboy June 10, 2010 03:20pm PDTReport Abuse

Read her latest blog she is ok and she is going to make it

How can anyone blame the parents anyway? What for letting her do what she is passionate about. This may be one of the most daring, thrilling memorable experiences of her lifetime. She grew up sailing, would it have made a difference if she was 18.

Most parents are too controlling and force their kids to live sheltered lives. I bet your kids would be jealous of Abby and of the freedoms she has. I can only imagine what dangerous environments some of your kids are getting into that you don't know about. At least Abby's parents know what their daughter is up to.

buffetboy

Reply by buffetboy June 10, 2010 03:25pm PDTReport Abuse

read latest blog update

http://soloround.blogspot.com/

cammy10

Reply by cammy10 June 10, 2010 03:25pm PDTReport Abuse

OK, I am a parent and I would not let my son do this because he isn't ready to do anything like this--he wouldn't want to anyway BUT.....Our society had gotten so out of hand. Parents raise their children, THE PARENTS, not our government & not JQ Public! We must take back the responsibility for our own homes and families. I pray to God that they find Abby. IF they don't, we should not point fingers and say how awful those parents where. They knew their child; they knew what she was capable of and what she could handle. I know a number or teenagers that are 13 going on 6 and others that are 13 going on 30. Every child is different. Parents need to teach responsibility to our children not that someone else will 'take care of me'. I think what Abby is doing is very brave and her parents are just as brave. Now before I get all the flaming replies, let me let tell you I am a mother of a teenager. My heart breaks for those parents not knowing what is happening to their child.

frederic111

Reply by frederic111 June 10, 2010 03:30pm PDTReport Abuse

You people ripping her parent's for letting her do this need to loosen up; she's got successfull, supportive parents who love her. Look in the mirror before you judge.

wow really people

Reply by wow really people June 10, 2010 03:38pm PDTReport Abuse

Really people you should never call anyone in the entire world stupid of idiotic or anything mean and uncalled for. never ever wuld someone think that is exceptible or humane like

ABBY I HOPE YOU MAKE IT HOPE SAFELY AND WITH DIGNETY!!!!!!

cammy10

Reply by cammy10 June 10, 2010 03:40pm PDTReport Abuse

I can't beleive some of you. You need to get off our high horse. Society had gotten so out of hand. Parents raise their children, THE PARENTS, not our government & not JQ Public! We must take back the responsibility for our own homes and families. I pray to God that they find Abby. IF they don't, we should not point fingers and say how awful those parents where. They knew their child; they knew what she was capable of and what she could handle. I know a number or teenagers that are a 'teen' going on 6 and others going on 30. Every child is different. Parents need to teach responsibility to our children not that someone else will 'take care of me'. I think what Abby is doing is very brave and her parents are just as brave. Now before I get all the flaming replies, let me let tell you I am a mother of a teenager, I know what my child is able to do and not do. My heart breaks for those parents not knowing what is happening to their child.

wow really people

Reply by wow really people June 10, 2010 03:42pm PDTReport Abuse

Nobody is perfect and you have to respect that peoples choices are wat they want it to be may abby be home safly and know nothing about you people and your discuting comments!!!!1

eva crawford

Reply by eva crawford June 10, 2010 03:43pm PDTReport Abuse

Reply too really916

I do not know what you are thinking but seriously pull your head out of your ass. The parents made a stupid mistake but the last thing anyone needs right now if you selfish criticism. These parents need prayers and well wishes not a jerk with too much time on his hands writing a comment meant to gain attention to himself. I know the odds are stacked against the young abbey girl, but faith does exist. I home that you are treated with more compassion then you offer others.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 10, 2010 03:46pm PDTReport Abuse

Frderic111, There is a difference between support and neglect........I do not deny they love her and should support her but there are correct ways of doing so. And this is not the time to "rip" at her parents but to pray for her safe return. I seriously hope they are ready for what they will have to face law-wise because of their decision.

jmse

Reply by jmse June 10, 2010 03:46pm PDTReport Abuse

From reading some of the replies i see why the death rate of children is so high. Too many have parents that will willingly put them in harms way. Shame on you

jmse

Reply by jmse June 10, 2010 03:48pm PDTReport Abuse

@freedm767...shouldn't there be a comma between can't and can? You went to school?

jennifer mattly

Reply by jennifer mattly June 10, 2010 04:05pm PDTReport Abuse

I'm just guessing here...but I'm fairly sure her parents won't be bothering to read these posts. And why would they? I'm a little embarrassed to be reading them and posting. It's not really helping anyone and certainly not Abby.

And to anyone who didn't manage to learn spelling and grammar; there are computer programs to correct your mistakes.

swog

Reply by swog June 10, 2010 10:42pm PDTReport Abuse

I want to 1st say to stinker, oops I mean, stinger, "God have mercy on your sad, lonely, pitiful soul, only someone, who's crying out for attention would make such a statement. You got the attention you wanted, now go pray and ask God for forgiveness, cause God forbid that something happens to you or your children (if you have any and if not, keep it that way) and you wish you never said such". To Abby and her family, may God bring your daughter home safely, He's in control, stay prayed up and we will keep you and join you in prayer. I hope this brings some comfort, I know your baby is out there and hopefully with what you guys have taught her and what she knows, there will be a happy ending. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

paden cast

Reply by paden cast June 10, 2010 11:24pm PDTReport Abuse

Most of you should take a look in the mirror. You are the generation that has dropped the ball on pretty much everything. Why should any of us believe that your point of view on parenting is ethically correct? You are the same people who start wars. You are the same generation that destroyed our banking system. You are the generation that expects everything to be given to you without working for it (i.e. guaranteed pensions. ridiculous benefit packages, free health care....as if all this stuff is a right)

Your generation thinks the millennial are lazy. That we feel entitled. Hah. You would feel entitled too if you worked as hard as we have for peanuts. You say you went to college....well back in the 60's and 70's you didn't need a 3.5 unweighted GPA to get into college. I would know. I wouldn't get into my own college and I graduated a year ago and had an unweighted 3.6 entering college.

Do you think we don't notice that this PC thing is a whole crock of crap? That some people are more "special" than others (like this girl)? That working hard wont get us a rosy future (we have you greedy bastards to thank for that). That our generation will drown in the debt you caused? So why should your opinion be the one we listen to again?

Honestly speaking, if her parents do the OPPOSITE of what you say to do, then they are probably doing the best thing for her. Good on her parents for letting her dare greatly. Because God knows that she would be molly coddled and forever weaker if her parents prevented her from her dream because she's "too young". As if she would ever stop being "daddy's little girl" even when she's 25.

Oh and it's not some spur of the moment thing to her. This is the Legend of Abby Sunderland. A tale of a girl an her attempt to cross the wild blue seas.

And she obviously is a mature girl. She is calling for help before she needs it. Obviously she has thought it better to live to see another day than to foolishly attempt to conquer the ocean.

lulu1313

Reply by lulu1313 June 10, 2010 11:58pm PDTReport Abuse

They made contact with her and she is ok... read her blog: http://soloround.blogspot.com/
VERY happy she is ok.

b_hndz

Reply by b_hndz June 11, 2010 06:19am PDTReport Abuse

When I used to work at the doctors office they wouldn't even let a sixteen year old go back there alone they needed to be accompanied by a guardian! So yes she is a minor. but you know what I would give my tax dollars to save this girl, becasue at least she is not 16 getting pregnant and our tax dollars would have to go to raise the child till they are 18. I understand what she was trying to do accomplish her goal I applaud he for that but, I wouldn't think it was smart to let her go alone, with a crew yeah. I'm glad she is home safe now... All your prayers counted!!!

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 12, 2010 07:54am PDTReport Abuse

Thank goodness she was found. Isnt it interesting that this girl did EVERYTHING right? I applaud Abbey and her parents for everything they have done. They are heroes in my eyes. And to the dope that said it was all about " a record". You obviously cant read or you just glossed over it. When Abbey decided to continue her journey she already knew it was impossible to break the record. She did it because unlike so many other young ADULTS these days she isnt a quitter. She didnt turn tail and hide under the bed when things got tough. We need far more girls (and boys) not less. Who are brave enough, confident enough, focused enough, to follow their dreams even if the road is some times tough, they stick it out. This world would be a far better place with more girls like Abbey and less of the little primadonas who are more concerned about talking about Twilight and texting their little friends at the mall. This young woman has accomplished more, shown more heart, then most if not all in this thread and certainly more than your dear little sheltered tykes will EVER do. And she is only 16...... How sad for them and how glorious for Abbey and her family.... The Sunderlands can be assured that their daughter is going to be the best she can be..... Can you say the same about your sons and daughters?

txmike

Posted by txmike June 10, 2010 10:40am PDTReply | Report Abuse

What kind of idiot parents let their 16 year old daughter sail around the world by herself just for fun? More money than sense.

ana aranda

Reply by ana aranda June 10, 2010 10:44am PDTReport Abuse

YOU KNOW WHAT NOBODY IS PERFECT WHEN YOU BECOME A PERFECT PARENT THAN SAY YOUR LITTLE DUMB COMMENTS BUT SINCE YOU'RE NEVER BECOMING PERFECT KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. PLAIN AND SIMPLE.

imaqtru23

Reply by imaqtru23 June 10, 2010 10:49am PDTReport Abuse

What a terrrible thing to say txmike. My prayers go out to Abby and her parents.

sara adams

Reply by sara adams June 10, 2010 10:49am PDTReport Abuse

no, nobody is a perfect parent but even a good parent could see that allowing a little girl to go off on her on around the world is just idiotic.I don't care what kind of parent u r. Unless u just don't care what your child does or what happens to them then I could see allowing my daughter to go off on her on like that. If she wanted to travel the world then wait until u r responsible enough to do so. This girl is just a little girl. Is she old enough to buy alcohol, or cigarettes? She is not even old enough to legally enter a club. Why would any parent good, perfect, great, or even a dumb one allow someone this immature to go off on her on? That is what is stupid here. Not somebody's comment on the truth..

lemons_for_the_sun

Reply by lemons_for_the_sun June 10, 2010 10:49am PDTReport Abuse

The parents don't need a lecture right now, they must be regretting their choice right now and you acting superior to them is just sick!

* I'll be praying for Abby

countmyblessings

Reply by countmyblessings June 10, 2010 10:55am PDTReport Abuse

Really, txmike? Your going to attack her parents at a time like this??? REALLY!!! The horrifying point is that a 16 year old young lady is MISSING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE OCEAN! The whose, whys, whats, when and hows are up to GOD to judge.

Geez. . . If you can't be more compassionate than that, maybe you'd consider stepping away from your computer.

Ditto for the rest of the haters/judgers.

joshualanier

Reply by joshualanier June 10, 2010 10:56am PDTReport Abuse

I agree with txmike!! Who in the world would let their 16 year old youngan even go out of town.. much less state.. or COUNTRY?? That shows stupidity on all of their parts!!! However, I do pray for Abby and her family, but GEEZ!!! WTH WERE YOU ALL THINKING???

geoffrey50

Reply by geoffrey50 June 10, 2010 10:56am PDTReport Abuse

I agree, What kind of parents allow a KID to do something this stupid at her age, All are idiots

billwillcox

Reply by billwillcox June 10, 2010 10:57am PDTReport Abuse

No..this needs to be discussed. This is why these very young sailors should not be attempting something like this.

ana aranda

Reply by ana aranda June 10, 2010 10:57am PDTReport Abuse

SARA LIKE I SAID NOBODY IS PERFECT AND JUST LIKE LEMONS SAID PARENTS DONT NEED A LECTURE RIGHT NOW THEY NEED PRAYER. AND I GUARANTEE THAT YOU AS A PARENT DO THINGS OTHERS MAY NOT AGREE WITH. SO LIKE I SAID AGAIN. NOBODY IS PERFECT. SO INSTEAD OF TALKING CRAP ABOUT THE PARENTS WHY DONT YOU PRAY FOR THEM AND THEY DAUGHTER SO SHE MAY RETURN SAFELY

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 10:57am PDTReport Abuse

Oh goodness, guys -- you have no idea about this story, do you?? This quest isn't "just for fun," this is something that this talented sailor is hoping to accomplish. "More money than sense, huh?" Ugh.

babbalah

Reply by babbalah June 10, 2010 10:59am PDTReport Abuse

Leave txmike alone, he's right. Wording may be a little harsh, but it's true. Good for her independent spirit, but I can't see any way to justify a parental decision like this. Now they get to experience the weight of their indulgence.

geoffrey50

Reply by geoffrey50 June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

Lock her parents up is she is dead.!!!!! , Wake up this kid had no chance of making it.

john mathews

Reply by john mathews June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

Really? you don't think that she's trained for this? Her whole family has grown up on the water and let me tell you people were doing this at her age long ago with out all of these safety nets. I am sorry but even if the worst case happened.... she did what she loved and she did it to her fullest extent humanly possible... that's more then most humans will ever be able to say.

I hope she's safe, and btw she can't buy alcohol legally but she can drink it....

photorose

Reply by photorose June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

I don't believe txmike was speaking to the parents, he was posting to a blog. Hello!?
Of course no one would say that to the parents, they probably don't have to, the parents are probably saying it to themselves.

username1234

Reply by username1234 June 10, 2010 11:03am PDTReport Abuse

The risk of death is just as great if anyone were to walk down a sidewalk in a heavily populated city. The only one responsible for her death would be poseidon...or some carnivorous sea creature.

geoffrey50

Reply by geoffrey50 June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

Lock her parents up is she is dead, I hope she is found alive. Wake up people a 16 year old allowed to do this STUPID DUMB ASS PARENTS

joshualanier

Reply by joshualanier June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

If she wants to be some kind of famous sailor... go sail the dang pond in the back yard at 16.. NOT THE WORLD!!!! That's just rediculous for anyone to do much less a 16 year old girl!!!

puchilu

Reply by puchilu June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

I truly wish no ill regards for Abby, but I hope this serves as a wake up call for parents who think it is okay to let their teenager sail around the world solo. No one is a perfect parent, but it's common sense and even maternal instinct to keep your child out of the path of danger.

jonathan hamrick

Reply by jonathan hamrick June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

These parents let a 16 year old girl sail around the world when she would be hitting the WORST seas possible. I deployed around that area and we were going through that stuff at this time of year in a 507 foot long Destroyer and WE WERE HAVING PROBLEMS. The parents made an entirely selfish decision to let their daughter go because t...hey wanted their children in record books. This may well have been the girl's dream but letting her go knowing the risk as opposed to holding her back a few months accomplished this.

This is what happens when parents treat their children like prized race horses as opposed to treating them like CHILDREN.

kelley smith velleux

Reply by kelley smith velleux June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

Wow. None of us are perfect. Definitely. What no one seems to be mentioning, though, is that none of us are the parents of this brave young girl who worked so hard to be able to do this in the first place. I am sure her parents agreed to and supported what their daughters heart was set on, what seemed to be in their her best interest, what seemed to be the most beneficial for her in the long run of the plans she has for her life.
Abby may not be old enough to drink or enter a club in the US but in many parts of the world she is. In many parts of the world she is of the average age of a mother. This family and this young lady deserve our respect and sincerest thoughts in this time, not this judgment and condescension.

annie perry

Reply by annie perry June 10, 2010 11:06am PDTReport Abuse

Wow. I wouldn't say it takes a perfect parent to not let your 16-year-old child sail around the world alone. That is pretty dumb to me. As a mother of 5, I would never let any of my children do that, at least until they were legal adults. Then I can't really say anything. I still watch my 20-year-old daughter like a hawk. Just think about all those people (Coast Guard, volunteers, etc) going out of their way to find some dumb kid who is just trying to prove something, when they could be spending their time and effort helping someone who is truly in need by no fault of their own. If you're going to circumnavigate the world solo, more power to you, but you have to be able to accept that something tragic might happen and people may not be able to save you. I just don't think she, as an adolescent, was thinking about how her reckless act could possibly affect a lot of other people, including family and loved ones. She is putting them in a very bad position. What if she is never found? As a parent, I can't stand the thought of losing one of my children.

nelsonpt22

Reply by nelsonpt22 June 10, 2010 11:07am PDTReport Abuse

Sooooo Ana Aranda......now you're the expert and can tell other people what to do? Why don't YOU shut your f*ckin' mouth you dumb b*tch.....

sue2010

Reply by sue2010 June 10, 2010 11:08am PDTReport Abuse

I don't think that people are trying to "act superior", they are only stating the truth. Plus, I don't think that her parents are reading this stuff anyways and even if they were, I think they would expect to see people questioning their decisions (I know I would if I were them).

I pray to God that she is found safe and sound, but I agree that it is the parent's job to keep her safe and that they kinda dropped the ball on this one.

leolani4

Reply by leolani4 June 10, 2010 11:09am PDTReport Abuse

I agree that most of us have that same first reaction. However, as a parent, there's a line that is extremely difficult to find regarding when to support your kids' dreams and treat them like adults.

I was an exchange student in Germany when I was 15, the youngest ever accepted to the Rotary Exchange Program. I spent the following summer at 16, with my 17 y.o. sister, backpacking through Europe unsupervised. I look at many 15 year-olds and think how impossible it was that my parents would have let me go. Yet I was mature enough, independent enough, resourceful enough and confident enough to handle it, and I realize that letting me go was the hardest thing my parents ever did. I got to live my dream that year, and I hope my own kids will be strong enough to follow their dreams when they are that age.

In other words, while I agree that a 16 y.o. is to young to be circumnavigating the globe in boat alone, I also know that the decision to let her do it could not possibly have been taken lightly, I'm sure there were many arguments we are not privy to before her parents finally consented. And regardless, she is a 16 y.o. girl, lost at sea. I will pray for her, as well as her undoubtedly terrified family. Come home safely, Abby.

leolani4

Reply by leolani4 June 10, 2010 11:09am PDTReport Abuse

I agree that most of us have that same first reaction. However, as a parent, there's a line that is extremely difficult to find regarding when to support your kids' dreams and treat them like adults.

I was an exchange student in Germany when I was 15, the youngest ever accepted to the Rotary Exchange Program. I spent the following summer at 16, with my 17 y.o. sister, backpacking through Europe unsupervised. I look at many 15 year-olds and think how impossible it was that my parents would have let me go. Yet I was mature enough, independent enough, resourceful enough and confident enough to handle it, and I realize that letting me go was the hardest thing my parents ever did. I got to live my dream that year, and I hope my own kids will be strong enough to follow their dreams when they are that age.

In other words, while I agree that a 16 y.o. is to young to be circumnavigating the globe in boat alone, I also know that the decision to let her do it could not possibly have been taken lightly, I'm sure there were many arguments we are not privy to before her parents finally consented. And regardless, she is a 16 y.o. girl, lost at sea. I will pray for her, as well as her undoubtedly terrified family. Come home safely, Abby.

annie perry

Reply by annie perry June 10, 2010 11:09am PDTReport Abuse

You know, it's really obnoxious when you constantly write in caps. It means you're shouting, in case you didn't realize, and it's just rude.

thomas geiger

Reply by thomas geiger June 10, 2010 11:10am PDTReport Abuse

go play with yourself nelsonpt22. I can see how much class you have.

yolandbird

Reply by yolandbird June 10, 2010 11:11am PDTReport Abuse

I agree with you and sara adams. And ana aranda, you're the one who should shut up. Txmike was just stating the truth. These girls are way to young to be out sailing alone, and everyone with common sense knows that. When Abby's parents allowed her to go off and do this, they should have known what type of risks they were taking, and what type of dangers there are out there in the ocean alone. They should have expected something like this would happen. And this incident should make other little girl fame seekers aware of the dangers of doing this.

calm head

Reply by calm head June 10, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

This war of words can never have a winner. It is simply a choice and some people jump into things they may not fully understand or care about the risks. Judgmental emails or aggressive responses do not help. No matter what your opinion is we must support the rescue effort to find and rescue this girl. The discussion AFTER the rescue is whether there should be consequences, financial or others, that the family should be responsible for, and how personal freedom should society impose on individuals.

tecem202

Reply by tecem202 June 10, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

You say she should not be alone but she is 16 she can drive a car that Kills more people in one day than die on boats in a year. And if it was a mission trip for a church it would be ok....come on people im sure they will find her alive and until then her parents and her need prayer.

tgrrl

Reply by tgrrl June 10, 2010 11:14am PDTReport Abuse

Why is no one complaining that the parent of the 16 year old girl allowed her brother to make the trip last summer at the age of 17. I guess because she is "just a girl" she is not capable of completing this journey. Kudos to her and her brave parents for letting this strong young lady live out her dream. At least this teenager has an interest in obtaining a goal instead of just sitting around in her cocoon of a home texting her friends and doing her finger nails. If her brother can do it, so can she. I am praying for you and your family Abby. I know you will come home safe.

sue2010

Reply by sue2010 June 10, 2010 11:17am PDTReport Abuse

To Ana Aranda: FYI:The caps lock key is to your left, please use it. Using all caps does not help you get your point across.

leolani4

Reply by leolani4 June 10, 2010 11:17am PDTReport Abuse

How do I delete a double-posted entry?

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 10, 2010 11:18am PDTReport Abuse

This is soo NOT about being perfect parents! It is irresponsible and stupid. And if you are one of these people posting here that says "nobodys perfect" - I sure hope to God that you have no kids. This is about plain common sense. It doesnt matter WHY she was doing it - whether it was for fun, records or just whatever - it is stupid at its' very inception.

My kid may tell me he wants to run across the street to set a record as to how many times he can make it without getting hit because he is sooo fast... blah blah blah - doesnt mean I am going to EVER say ok to that!

We all wish for her safe return - but her parents should have to foot the bill for the rescue effort and then should be brought up on charges for child endangerment!

geoffrey50

Reply by geoffrey50 June 10, 2010 11:18am PDTReport Abuse

So this kid was a salior !!!!!!!!!!! right, wake up this kid has never seen 50-60ft seas on her own, the parents should be asking themselfs why did we let her go. God I hope they find her alive.

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 10, 2010 11:18am PDTReport Abuse

This is soo NOT about being perfect parents! It is irresponsible and stupid. And if you are one of these people posting here that says "nobodys perfect" - I sure hope to God that you have no kids. This is about plain common sense. It doesnt matter WHY she was doing it - whether it was for fun, records or just whatever - it is stupid at its' very inception.

My kid may tell me he wants to run across the street to set a record as to how many times he can make it without getting hit because he is sooo fast... blah blah blah - doesnt mean I am going to EVER say ok to that!

We all wish for her safe return - but her parents should have to foot the bill for the rescue effort and then should be brought up on charges for child endangerment!

ac55

Reply by ac55 June 10, 2010 11:19am PDTReport Abuse

Ok stinger WTF..ur seriously fucked up in the head if u hope that happed. Seriously u need a mental examination

ddpp

Reply by ddpp June 10, 2010 11:20am PDTReport Abuse

xx

ddpp

Reply by ddpp June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

xx

nelsonpt22

Reply by nelsonpt22 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

Feel free to get on your knees and fill up with these nuts Thomas Gieger.....

sherri kowalski

Reply by sherri kowalski June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

If you're going to galavant the oceans in a boat, I don't care HOW old or experienced you are; You should not do it alone. She (or if it were a he) should have had another person with her. Even my place of employment requires that one person cannot be in the building (warehouse) by themselves at any time. There always has to be two people in there as a safety precaution. This isn't a warehouse we're talking about. It's the ocean...big waves, pirates, sharks, nasty storms. Really, really just ignorant.

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

This is soo NOT about being perfect parents! It is irresponsible and stupid. And if you are one of these people posting here that says "nobodys perfect" - I sure hope to God that you have no kids. This is about plain common sense. It doesnt matter WHY she was doing it - whether it was for fun, records or just whatever - it is stupid at its' very inception.

My kid may tell me he wants to run across the street to set a record as to how many times he can make it without getting hit because he is sooo fast... blah blah blah - doesnt mean I am going to EVER say ok to that!

We all wish for her safe return - but her parents should have to foot the bill for the rescue effort and then should be brought up on charges for child endangerment!

b_hndz

Reply by b_hndz June 10, 2010 11:27am PDTReport Abuse

The parents arent being lectured her its the fact that a CHILD went out to sea alone with permission. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I just hope a good lesson is learned here before other parents let their children put their DREAM in to action. I pray that Abby Sunderland gets home safely.

ddpp

Reply by ddpp June 10, 2010 11:34am PDTReport Abuse

I will try to make this post again. I am not a big fan of these Thrill seekers, ie: mountain climbers, explorers for their own gain, etc.etc. Most of these people are rich people that are bored and looking for something to do. Most of us are just trying to make it, one day to the next, with all the problems in this country. WHAT I DO have a problem with is the way they put other people in harms way. Like the people that have to go out and try to rescue them when they get into trouble. The machines, boats, aircraft ,material, etc, and resources that are used to try and rescue these thrill seekers, not to mention the other lives that are risked. ESPECIALLY since these people (this family) knew that this was a bad time of the year and the weather problems. People just don't give Mother Nature enough respect to the power and awesome destruction she can generate. Why don't these thrill seekers try something that would benefit many people instead of trying something that would only benefit themselves and then trigger other people to try and go out and top them.
My last point, ok, let's say this girl did make it through her voyage, what would she actually have done? Where would it benefit anyone except herself. ? I do hope she will be saved and everyone that goes out after her will be ok. But a question I have, will she learn anything from this? I doubt it. She probably will try some other stunt in the future.

ddpp

Reply by ddpp June 10, 2010 11:35am PDTReport Abuse

I will try to make this post again. I am not a big fan of these Thrill seekers, ie: mountain climbers, explorers for their own gain, etc.etc. Most of these people are rich people that are bored and looking for something to do. Most of us are just trying to make it, one day to the next, with all the problems in this country. WHAT I DO have a problem with is the way they put other people in harms way. Like the people that have to go out and try to rescue them when they get into trouble. The machines, boats, aircraft ,material, etc, and resources that are used to try and rescue these thrill seekers, not to mention the other lives that are risked. ESPECIALLY since these people (this family) knew that this was a bad time of the year and the weather problems. People just don't give Mother Nature enough respect to the power and awesome destruction she can generate. Why don't these thrill seekers try something that would benefit many people instead of trying something that would only benefit themselves and then trigger other people to try and go out and top them.
My last point, ok, let's say this girl did make it through her voyage, what would she actually have done? Where would it benefit anyone except herself. ? I do hope she will be saved and everyone that goes out after her will be ok. But a question I have, will she learn anything from this? I doubt it. She probably will try some other stunt in the future.

mary baker

Reply by mary baker June 10, 2010 11:37am PDTReport Abuse

In some families, sixteen is not considered a "CHILD" but a young adult.

sunflower

Reply by sunflower June 10, 2010 11:37am PDTReport Abuse

Stinger is a loser. A-Hole! How cruel of you to even post something like that!!!! Idiot! Go to Hell! ----------- Prayers for Abbey and her family. Please find her and let her be okay.

lawgirl7777

Reply by lawgirl7777 June 10, 2010 11:38am PDTReport Abuse

Countmyblessings - We aren't hating or judging - just stating the truth. This girl would not be in the middle of the Indian Ocean if her parents hadn't allowed it. This was avoidable. There are tragedies in which no one is to blame and then there are tragedies in which someone is definitely to blame - and that is the case here. We as parents need to think before we let our children do whatever they want.... Seriously.

bgdam4751

Reply by bgdam4751 June 10, 2010 11:38am PDTReport Abuse

No lecture... in fact, no mention of parents should be involved what so ever.... If she's capable of going around the world by herself then she should be treated as such. That means the same type of search and rescue any other bloke would get if they were doing the same. If she makes it, great, if not, oh well. It's quite risky being in those waters this time of the year. The probability was high that she was going to encounter problems and I'm sure she thought about that before doing it. So I'm going to approach it with the attitude that she knew what she was doing. When she gets back (and I'm sure she will - as I have some faith) I hope she stands up and admits her mistake ("I underestimated the risk - I'll pay for my decisions", etc.) if that's the case. Don't want to see the parents. You can't be a parent one minute and not one the next. Once she left she was on her own... enough said.

bgdam4751

Reply by bgdam4751 June 10, 2010 11:39am PDTReport Abuse

No lecture... in fact, no mention of parents should be involved what so ever.... If she's capable of going around the world by herself then she should be treated as such. That means the same type of search and rescue any other bloke would get if they were doing the same. If she makes it, great, if not, oh well. It's quite risky being in those waters this time of the year. The probability was high that she was going to encounter problems and I'm sure she thought about that before doing it. So I'm going to approach it with the attitude that she knew what she was doing. When she gets back (and I'm sure she will - as I have some faith) I hope she stands up and admits her mistake ("I underestimated the risk - I'll pay for my decisions", etc.) if that's the case. Don't want to see the parents. You can't be a parent one minute and not one the next. Once she left she was on her own... enough said.

b_hndz

Reply by b_hndz June 10, 2010 11:57am PDTReport Abuse

you give a good point bgdam4751!!! I agree. I guess her being a YOUNG ADULT shouldn't even matter they should treat it the same as anyother case. But everyone wants to feel bad for the girl becasue she is so young. It's just me being a mother and I know how intelligent my son is he would probably want to do something like that ( with way more supervision and company) going out with a team or crew but alone, sorry I wouldn't allow it. I think Abby or her parents should have looked at all the details before going out as any other sailor would do

judy27

Reply by judy27 June 10, 2010 11:59am PDTReport Abuse

Of course, we pray for Abby, she is innocent. However, her parents made a poor choice in guiding their daughter. She is not a young adult, she is a child who barely just got a driver's license. Why can't people handle the fact that these parents need to acknowledge they f-ked up?! Hopefully, Abby will return home safely and EVERYONE will have learned a lesson. We live to learn, this is a perfect example of parents needing a lesson!

lori kraus picone

Reply by lori kraus picone June 10, 2010 12:05pm PDTReport Abuse

Being a parent of three children, I can't imagine allowing this. I don't think a boy of that age should be allowed either. If the parents are not sensible enough to forbid this, then the government should step in and disallow it. No one should swim alone much less travel the seas alone. There's piracy out there besides high waves. I do agree that because the family allowed this, they should be monetarily responsible for the search effort. I hope the girl is found safe but that this sets a precedent that it should not happen again.

lawgirl7777

Reply by lawgirl7777 June 10, 2010 12:05pm PDTReport Abuse

bgdam4751 - yes the parents should be mentioned because we are discussing a minor. A child. Children have parents for a reason and shouldn't make adult decisions by themselves. So, of course the parents should be mentioned.

6six6

Reply by 6six6 June 10, 2010 12:25pm PDTReport Abuse

you really think a 16 year old is too young to sail around the world? How nieve can you be. Just because your 16 year old has yet to experience the real world because they are sheltered doesn't mean everyone is. She's been training for this all her life, and obviously enjoys the thrill of sailing. Being out on the open ocean is quite an exhilarating experience feeling so helpless in the miles of water yet you need to find the energy within to keep a stable mindset. It's second to none. Stop sheltering your kids and blaming these parents.

kiera

Reply by kiera June 10, 2010 12:41pm PDTReport Abuse

Abby is a friend of mine. Please understand that not all 15 year olds are created equal. She has extraordinary ability, ambition, intelligence, and instinct. Her sailing skills are far beyond those of anyone who has attended the traditional sailing schools that most of us are familiar with. Age did not make Abby a sailor. Extraordinary skill did. She was more prepared to sail around the world than a 50 year old typical sailor could ever possibly be, so her age is - in this case - not a factor. If you are not an accomplished sailor, I can understand why this would be difficult to comprehend. Instead of using your energy to place blame or to think or, God help you, to wish any horrid consequences upon her, please use that energy to care for those whom you love who are lucky enough not to be missing, lucky enough not be in danger, lucky enough not be in the line of fire of someone less compassionate. This is not about you. This is about Abby and her journey. Step outside of yourselves, leave your judgment behind, embrace your humanity, and try to be better for it. Abby's energy has been spent on bettering herself, not on judging others or finding places to put blame. Everything she has accomplished she has accomplished because she tries harder than the person that doesn't succeed. Her ability to push beyond the normal limits is what she chooses for herself. Mr. and Mrs. Sunderland are not blaming you or the weather or the fates or the outcome of any rescue or anything else for Abby's circumstance. They are compassionate parents. They are not fools. The Sunderlands are an extraordinary family. Their children are accomplished, intelligent, and loving. All of their children, including Abby, volunteer over 500 hours each year to benefit those less fortunate. Abby and her brother were not allowed to chase their own dreams until they had first helped others realize theirs. Those of us who know Abby are better for it. Sail on, Abby, sail on. Your journey is not over.

schoolgirl92

Reply by schoolgirl92 June 10, 2010 12:41pm PDTReport Abuse

He's not really attacking the girl....it was a dumb decision...the poor girl was ambitious, but I know my mom would never let me do anything like that...and I'm older than she is....and probably more responsible. It's not fair to judge someone elses opinion..that's why it's an opinion.

Wouldn't you feel ashamed and horrified if you let your child go around the world...and she got lost at sea?

and she IS too young....heck nobody should travel around the world by themselves (inlcuding adults). So stop saying she's ok even if she has a lack of experience....because she does! There is a difference between sheltering your kids...and basically letting them kill themselves with adventure. I'm only 18..and I think that this is totally ridiculous. I know i've done crazy stuff...but traveling the world entails pirates, unpredictable tides, and weather. Nothing is simple.

schoolgirl92

Reply by schoolgirl92 June 10, 2010 12:45pm PDTReport Abuse

He's (txmike) not really attacking the girl....it was a dumb decision...the poor girl was ambitious, but I know my mom would never let me do anything like that...and I'm older than she is....and probably more responsible. It's not fair to judge someone elses opinion..that's why it's an opinion.

Wouldn't you feel ashamed and horrified if you let your child go around the world...and she got lost at sea?

and she IS too young....heck nobody should travel around the world by themselves (inlcuding adults). So stop saying she's ok even if she has a lack of experience....because she does! There is a difference between sheltering your kids...and basically letting them kill themselves with adventure. I'm only 18..and I think that this is totally ridiculous. I know i've done crazy stuff...but traveling the world entails pirates, unpredictable tides, and weather. Nothing is simple.

paranotnormal1968

Reply by paranotnormal1968 June 10, 2010 12:47pm PDTReport Abuse

kiera you are a true friend. God bless you!!!

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 12:59pm PDTReport Abuse

Kiera, great post.

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 12:59pm PDTReport Abuse

Kiera, great post.

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 10, 2010 12:59pm PDTReport Abuse

Kiera, great post.

lawgirl7777

Reply by lawgirl7777 June 10, 2010 01:16pm PDTReport Abuse

Kiera - I think that is awesome that she is accomplished and can do something like this - but what about the fact of the other dangers of her being alone - like pirates and unpredictable things that could come along? These days its dangerous to let our kids play outside without worrying that someone might come abduct them... how is it wise to let a 16 year old girl go out on her own to sail the world? How is that a good judgment decision?

dfmr

Reply by dfmr June 10, 2010 01:16pm PDTReport Abuse

I will pray for Abby--------BUT I was one of the people who said I thought it was irresponsible parenting to let this girl at her age have her way and go on this trip------- I saw nothing but tragegy come from it and I am afraid I am correct------- This girls life was far more important than letting her do what she wanted at her age----------- I also said at the time that child protective services should have been involved to the point where they should have stopped this girl from this sailing venture---------It was unfit parenting to place your child in harms way in a potential life or death situation------ She is probably not alive at this point and how tragic is that?--------- These parents may be grieving now and I am sorry that they probably have lost their little girl, but they have no one to blame but themselves... This girl deserved to have a lifetime of experiences at the proper ages..........
I hope she is alive....And are the parents going to pay for the rescue that is currently in place? Cold sounding, but I am so tired of these people who climb mountains, go on sailing ventures when they should not and then expect the taxpayers money to go find them at no charge to them......

lawgirl7777

Reply by lawgirl7777 June 10, 2010 01:21pm PDTReport Abuse

Kiera - that is great that she is so accomplished and is able to do something like this. But she is still a 16 year old girl... what happens if a pirate gets her or other unforseeable things. These days parents can't even let their kids out of their sight when they are playing outside for fear of their children being abducted or something crazy. This world is not easy - and for a 16 year old girl, its definitely dangerous. So, how is it good judgment to let a 16 year old girl go out to sea by herself to sail the world? Please tell me that.

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 10, 2010 01:39pm PDTReport Abuse

This wasn't just something trying to be accomplished, because she could have accomplished this at anytime in her life. They just wanted her to beat a meaningless record that no one really cares about. It even states in the story that they were criticized for the timing of the trip because of the storm season (I am sure by people who know what they are talking about seeing as how she is now in danger) But they all decided to put her life in danger for a meaningless record. Which is very stupid on her part and the part of her parents (because it is their job to make these kind of very IMPORTANT decisions for her). I will be praying for this girl and hope that she is found safe. But even though she may be a trained sailor (which still doesn't mean she knew what she was doing because a "trained sailor" looks at the conditions of the water and takes that into account) this wasn't to accomplish sailing across the world it was for a dumb record. And now all these resources are having to be used for her not because she is just some young girl but because she didn't head warning about the sailing conditions to set a record (i.e. for her (or her parents) need for attention (glory)). And this is the real reason that her parents are "DUMB" because if she wasn't in danger and the news story was about how she was the youngest girl to do it, hardly no one would be commenting on her parents at all.

tharres

Reply by tharres June 10, 2010 01:46pm PDTReport Abuse

16 can be a adult somewhere else.... also then it must unbelievably wrong to let you "kids" join the military because I most certain its more dangerous being shot at then sailing around the world.

rachelf

Reply by rachelf June 10, 2010 01:55pm PDTReport Abuse

They are amazing people for allowing their daughter to be more than average.

rachelf

Reply by rachelf June 10, 2010 01:55pm PDTReport Abuse

They are amazing people for allowing their daughter to be more than average.

freedm767

Reply by freedm767 June 10, 2010 02:16pm PDTReport Abuse

Wow, I'm a little disgusted with some of the comments here. I normally don't take the time to read other people's opinions, especially when it's riddled with illiteracy, ignorance, and a blatant disregard for common decency. I applaud all those who wrote a kind word or retorted to some idiot who thinks their opinion matters. By the way, if you think what you have to say is important and want to be taken seriously, LEARN HOW TO SPELL CORRECTLY! Seriously, most of you are probably over 30 and don't know basic spelling and grammar, yet you criticize a 16 year old for doing something with her life. YOU CAN'T EVEN WRITE! No wonder you criticize her and her family because it actually takes a smart, passionate, and determined person to do something like this. If it were easy, any idiot (such as many of you here) could do it. But you can't can you? Right, because you lack what normal people have: a heart. Grow the hell up and go back to school, she's obviously a bigger person than you.

kiera

Reply by kiera June 10, 2010 02:17pm PDTReport Abuse

I do understand the role of parents and the need to guide children, to help them navigate what they themselves may not recognize as danger. We (meaning those of us who are younger than most, and that includes me, at my age of 17) are often perceived as thinking ourselves to be "immortal", that danger and death happens to "other people". This is not the case with the Sunderlands. Abby is highly trained in survival skills. You cannot become an accomplished survival specialist if you don't understand risk and consequence, cause and effect. Her parents know the risks. Abby knows the risks. We, her friends, know the risks. Some parents don't let their children walk down the street because that feels like too big of a risk to them. Some parents don't let their children go to college in another state because that feels like too big of a risk to them. Is the Sunderland's world of decision making larger in scope than that? Certainly it is. Decisions may take years to make but lives can change in the blink of any eye. Ask any parent who turned ever so briefly away from their child and turned back to find that their child had disappeared from sight. Disappeared from sight for a fleeting moment, or for a lifetime. A consequence either way. Which consequence is greater? That is never to be known unless something happens - or doesn't happen - as a result. Child protective services and other legal entities are not in place to ensure that we and our children never take risks. Your risk and my risk are not the same. What Abby defines as a risk is not the same as you, as me, or even the same as her parents' definition. Abby is not a victim. No one is saying that Abby wasn't stepping out onto a much larger level of risk. But unless you are personally acquainted with the Sunderlands you cannot possibly understand that this journey is not about glory, about recordbreaking - it is about a personal goal. Abby's goal. As as i said before, not all 15 year olds are created equal.

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 10, 2010 02:51pm PDTReport Abuse

freedom767 - Since you are so blazing smart- you obviously must know that in the English language, when using numbers in a sentence they are to be spelled out (i.e. thirty, sixteen) unless the number is over three digits - go back to school yourself you moron!

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 10, 2010 03:06pm PDTReport Abuse

Kiera - Speaking to you as a parent who has successfully raised two children of my own, it is clear that you have great love, respect and admireation for this family and your friend in particular. I think most people here would agree that we all want this to turn out with your friend returning safely.

Her ambitions and desires notwithstanding however, she is still a child. As parents we are charged with the responsiblitly to weigh a childs ambitions with their overall good. Her parents failed to do this. Had they done so - they would not be experiencing the pain and anguish they no doubt are feeling and we would not be having this discussion.

It is true that not all 15 year olds are created equal - it is also true that no matter how old you are and how much experience you have, traveling around the world in a boat by yourself is dangerous and yes I must say stupid. I would not expect a child of her age to make such a decision rationally. That is why she has parents which in this case failed her.

They failed to act for her overall good. They looked at her ambitions and desires and didnt want to 'stunt' her dreams. Hopefully she comes back safely or it will be a moot point for she will have been stunted forever.

nelsonpt22

Reply by nelsonpt22 June 10, 2010 03:21pm PDTReport Abuse

Freedom767, you are an absolute idiot. How was that for a complete sentence?

kiera

Reply by kiera June 10, 2010 03:23pm PDTReport Abuse

jondm63, thank you for your thoughts. I not only appreciate your kind insights but also your acknowledgement of what is certainly an emotional situation for all of us who know and love Abby. In fact, thank you to paranotnormal1968, joel, and all of you who have so eloquently balanced thought and reason with compassion. My parents and I have been talking quite a lot about goals and risks, and what my mom loves to call a "smart risk". We know the Sunderlands have endured quite a bit of flak for being "indulgent" with their children. To those of us who know them we don't have that perspective at all. Abby has worked tirelessly for this while also maintaining a 4.2 GPA and volunteering. But I do see your point - and my mom's point - that we can't always peel apart what is an indulgence, what is a smart risk, and what is done out of love ,even if it means you don't do it at all. We know that Abby shares her family's passion for adventure, and that her family is in anguish right now waiting word on Abby's condition. Any parent would certainly be feeling this way, whether their child didn't return from a school dance or from a circumnavigation. I have a classmate whose sister graduated from highschool three years early, from college one year early, and from medical school one year early. She was following her dreams. Her parent's did not want her to "peak" so early because they understood the risks. She has paid a dear price for her accomplishments in what she missed as a young person. We continue to pray that Abby has a long life to live, with nothing to miss. Hang in there, Abby-gale. Your winds have always taken you further than most. May they also bring you safely home. Love you, K.

paden cast

Reply by paden cast June 10, 2010 11:56pm PDTReport Abuse

Kiera - Abby is obviously of a special breed. As you are no doubt already aware. I happen to think that this is perhaps the greatest and most worthy challenge that few feel fit to bear. I am sure that she will be rescued soon, and that she will try again. Her parents prepared her for the task ahead as any good parent does. Its highly likely that this is more of a precautionary measure than anything else. You will see her again soon =)

And to all you nay sayers about age. Most of you are parents. You can not be impartial. I'm not a parent. Therefore I am more fit to judge who is and isn't ready in terms of maturity than you are because you dont see Abby. You see your little son or daughter. And they wouldn't be able to attempt this. And whats more, I highly doubt that her parents could have stopped her if she decided that she was going to sail around the world with or without their permission. Dreams are not caged by silly "safety first" parents. They just cause the dreamer to do it less safely.

paden cast

Reply by paden cast June 11, 2010 12:08am PDTReport Abuse

And Kierra, congratulations. Abby is alive and kicking (so to speak). I hope that she is unharmed and that she will be able to continue her trek soon (if they let her).


but its good to know that daring greatly doesn't always lead to unhappy endings =)

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 12, 2010 07:43am PDTReport Abuse

Thank goodness she was found. Isnt it interesting that this girl did EVERYTHING right? I applaud Abbey and her parents for everything they have done. They are heroes in my eyes. And to the dope that said it was all about " a record". You obviously cant read or you just glossed over it. When Abbey decided to continue her journey she already knew it was impossible to break the record. She did it because unlike so many other young ADULTS these days she isnt a quitter. She didnt turn tail and hide under the bed when things got tough. We need far more girls (and boys) not less. Who are brave enough, confident enough, focused enough, to follow their dreams even if the road is some times tough, they stick it out. This world would be a far better place with more girls like Abbey and less of the little primadonas who are more concerned about talking about Twilight and texting their little friends at the mall. This young woman has accomplished more, shown more heart, then most if not all in this thread and certainly more than your dear little sheltered tykes will EVER do. And she is only 16...... How sad for them and how glorious for Abbey and her family.... The Sunderlands can be assured that their daughter is going to be the best she can be..... Can you say the same about your sons and daughters?

joel amaro

Reply by joel amaro June 12, 2010 07:43am PDTReport Abuse

Thank goodness she was found. Isnt it interesting that this girl did EVERYTHING right? I applaud Abbey and her parents for everything they have done. They are heroes in my eyes. And to the dope that said it was all about " a record". You obviously cant read or you just glossed over it. When Abbey decided to continue her journey she already knew it was impossible to break the record. She did it because unlike so many other young ADULTS these days she isnt a quitter. She didnt turn tail and hide under the bed when things got tough. We need far more girls (and boys) not less. Who are brave enough, confident enough, focused enough, to follow their dreams even if the road is some times tough, they stick it out. This world would be a far better place with more girls like Abbey and less of the little primadonas who are more concerned about talking about Twilight and texting their little friends at the mall. This young woman has accomplished more, shown more heart, then most if not all in this thread and certainly more than your dear little sheltered tykes will EVER do. And she is only 16...... How sad for them and how glorious for Abbey and her family.... The Sunderlands can be assured that their daughter is going to be the best she can be..... Can you say the same about your sons and daughters?

ana aranda

Posted by ana aranda June 10, 2010 10:43am PDTReply | Report Abuse

WE WILL BE PRAYING THAT SHE FINDS HER WAY HOME.

johnny rock

Reply by johnny rock June 10, 2010 11:05am PDTReport Abuse

STOP SHOUTING.

annie perry

Reply by annie perry June 10, 2010 11:08am PDTReport Abuse

You know, it's really obnoxious when you constantly write in caps. It means you're shouting, in case you didn't realize, and it's just rude.

teach

Reply by teach June 10, 2010 11:17am PDTReport Abuse

Shame on you for hoping that anyone gets raped and killed. It's a tragedy that you would think such a thought about a human being. My guess is that you have done some absolutely ridiculous and stupid things in your life as well. Lord, be with this young girl till she is found!

goldwing

Reply by goldwing June 10, 2010 11:28am PDTReport Abuse

stinger - go to church. You really need it. Try to get attention in a positive way instead of wishing death on a 16 year old.

jimmyd789

Reply by jimmyd789 June 10, 2010 11:29am PDTReport Abuse

I'm sure the parents hope she is just raped, at least she would be alive. Man, if the pirates got her they sure would have hit the jackpot! That would be the gift that keeps on giving, and a booty worth pillaging.
There was some European teen girl who I wanted to sink, but I think this isn't the girl so I hope she ends up relatively okay. But I'm really annoyed when these idiot teens risk try to sail around the world and this could be a valuable lesson learned.

lwittmann

Reply by lwittmann June 10, 2010 11:40am PDTReport Abuse

Stinger, I couldn't figure out what would make you post such a comment until I clicked on you info. 13 years old says it all. GROW UP!!

msteve

Reply by msteve June 10, 2010 11:49am PDTReport Abuse

Seriously Jimmy D? Maybe we should all wish that pirates kidnap you and your douche bag friend Stinger and RAPE the two of you over and over since you both seem to like that stuff. How much fun does THAT sound??? I bet not so much now....... I'm sure you'll both wind up doing something stupid when you grow up and you'll end up in prison to receive your gift from the other prisoners.

kristi

Reply by kristi June 10, 2010 11:58am PDTReport Abuse

Stinger:
I don't know who you are but you need some serious help. How could you say something like that? This young girl is trying to set goals for herself. If half the kids in America would do the same this would be a better world. I agree she should not have been completely alone but she is now in danger and needs help, not criticism from freaks like you.

reva28

Reply by reva28 June 10, 2010 12:02pm PDTReport Abuse

Stinger doesn't just need to grow uo, he needs his head examined if he's wishing a girl to get raped. DISGUSTING!

reva28

Reply by reva28 June 10, 2010 12:02pm PDTReport Abuse

Stinger doesn't just need to grow up, he needs his head examined if he's wishing a girl to get raped. DISGUSTING!

mymymy

Reply by mymymy June 10, 2010 01:22pm PDTReport Abuse

The only idiot here is stringer~maybe you are a 13 year as someone earlier posted~ don't know and damn sure don't care the fact that you could even utter such BS at any age shows how completely stupid you are. As a mother of boys age 21 and 19 I'm sure it's safe to say this journey has been talked about and prepared for, for many many months. I agree that I would have never let either of my children sail around the world at the age of 16 or now even however; these people are in a much different situation, this is the life they know and the life they have taught their children to be a part of. I am sure that all parents on this site can agree if a child or young adult really has their mind set on doing something they are gonna do it at any age with or without your permission. I am thankful that I have hard working children that grew up with values that I've never had to face that one of them wants to sail around the world alone mind you in a boat~ for that I am thankful but I also know that throughout the course of my boys life they have done dangerous things~ maybe not on such a large scale but none the less still dangerous. Riding motorcycles, four wheelers taking the boat to the lake (with friends) at the age of 16 and 17 because it is legal are all dangerous things that could end their life ( walking out of the house now a days can end anyone's life) it doesn't lessen any responsibilities as a parent because it's happening 5-10 miles from home. Whether any one agrees or not the real tragedy here is that there is a young lady (if alive) in serious trouble and to the best of my knowledge at any age no one here can control the weather or foresee the future, so please quit all this blaming just the parents and hope that this girl is able to come home and nothing any of you say will do more damage to these parents than they are doing to themselves right now. Don't criticize what you don't know.

adw_oc

Reply by adw_oc June 10, 2010 01:56pm PDTReport Abuse

Mymymy-- I completely agree! I could not have said it better myself! People really need to mind their own business!!

The only parents that should be blamed are those of stinger for not teaching him any manners! I don't give a **** how old you are stinger, you need help! Just remember, KARMA'S A BITCH!! You'll get yours one day and you deserve whatever comes your way.

I hope and pray that Abby makes it home unscathed. My prayers are with her and her family. God bless!

thommy1

Reply by thommy1 June 10, 2010 02:16pm PDTReport Abuse

Yes, let's all pray for her, LOL. Prayer is a kind way of saying you are doing absolutely nothing.

nomi

Reply by nomi June 10, 2010 04:57pm PDTReport Abuse

the power of prayer is a great thing and mostly only CHRISTIANS realise this.and thommy
what would you like us to do sail into the ocean and help rescue her
its not a way of doing absolutly nothing its doing what we can from afar for someone we dont know.
,

sara adams

Posted by sara adams June 10, 2010 10:45am PDTReply | Report Abuse

why is a 16 year old girl allowed to go sail around the world alone anyway? I pray for her safe return and hate that she is missing. But common people. what kind of parents allow their 16 year old daughter to go away for that long alone?

jeremy scheetz

Reply by jeremy scheetz June 10, 2010 10:55am PDTReport Abuse

She's not just some 16 year old girl. She has crap loads of experience and she knows what she's doing. It's not like she just said one day "I'm gunna sail around the world" She knew what she was getting into and she prepared for it. I just hope she's ok. I had a really bad feeling something like this was going to happen =x

michael mays

Reply by michael mays June 10, 2010 10:57am PDTReport Abuse

What kind of parents, Sara? Stupid parents. Sorry, but it has to be said. I hope she turns up okay, but her parents are indeed stupid for letting this happen in the firstplace.

joshualanier

Reply by joshualanier June 10, 2010 10:57am PDTReport Abuse

Obviously she doesn't quite know what she's doing! She's MISSING!!! No 16 year old knows what their thinking! It's up to the parents to do their thinking for them until they get old enough to think wisely for themselves and obviously the parents have no more sense than a 16 year old does!!!!!!

cllb_

Reply by cllb_ June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

You are right! She is a minor and should be treated like one. She should not be left alone for that amount of time. If a parent left their child at home for that amount of time, they would have charges filed against them. Someone should be help accountable!!

valerie j thelander

Reply by valerie j thelander June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

Ok no offense, but the parents were supporting their daughters dream. They allowed their son to do it as well (which is funny I noticed all of you criticizing allowing their daughter to go, but not one said a thing about the fact that the son was allowed is well)
And she was an experienced Sailor and knew what she was doing. Even the most experienced of sailors end up in trouble.

I say instead of criticizing , why dont you offer support and keep your criticisms to yourself.

I pray that this amazing young woman is found. And I also pray that none of you have children who have dreams and ambitions because you wont know how to handle it.

globetrotter

Reply by globetrotter June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

She's an experienced sailor from a family of experienced sailors, all of whom understood there were risks involved. This is the price we must pay for adventure and to do something that few would imagine or attempt. My best thoughts and wishes for her safe return.

thomas geiger

Reply by thomas geiger June 10, 2010 11:07am PDTReport Abuse

No parent would have charges filed against them for leaving a 16 year old home by themselves.

porineeta sarma

Reply by porineeta sarma June 10, 2010 11:08am PDTReport Abuse

parents who r hungry for name n fame jus like d kid of course.. b it at d cost of her life...do u think thers any othr reasn for this misfit advnture?

clarissa fuselier

Reply by clarissa fuselier June 10, 2010 11:10am PDTReport Abuse

You know, there was a time, far back in history where 16 year olds were kings and queens and defending countries. How did we regress from that? Treating teenagers like babies and soo surprised when they refuse to grow up and become decent promising members of society. Our society coddles children entirely TOO much. It's why they have false senses of entitlement and whine about working hard and owning up to growing responsibility. We have made countless generations WEAK and looking for easy ways out, hiding under Mama's skirt . I applaud the parents for respecting their daughter's desire to perform this on her own. She was fully aware of the consequences and the parents were too. I think it takes an even braver and WISER parent to know their child and respect them wanting to carry on with their life and accomplish what they want in life. My prayers go out to them and wish her gods speed for a safe and amazing journey.

margaret wise

Reply by margaret wise June 10, 2010 11:25am PDTReport Abuse

I have to agree with you Jeremy, in that this girl more then likely does have a lot of experience and must be a very mature "16 year old young lady!!" I don't believe for one second that if she was not mature and didn't have a clue as to what she was doing her parents would have let her go!

I don't believe it is for glory or money!!! I also don't believe that she said "I'm going whether you want me to or not!!" My first thought was like many, how could her parents let her go? However thinking about this, the only answer I had was like you, experience and extremely mature.

So....before anyone else continues to put blame on the parents being wrong, etc., why not learn all the facts about this case instead of pointing fingers where they don't deserve to be pointed and wish this young lady to come home safe!!

I think everyone who is blaming the "parents" need to stop judging them until all the facts are know.

Our prayers are with you Abby!!!!!

sammy1976

Reply by sammy1976 June 10, 2010 11:29am PDTReport Abuse

i soo agree with you..she does have heart and will,for her to go out into life and do something.even if she could not do it this time she will do it and complete her dream,,i will keep her in my prayers..

kacey lowers rice

Reply by kacey lowers rice June 10, 2010 11:50am PDTReport Abuse

She would have just gone to the courts if her parents told her she couldn't. As a matter of fact after proving her sailing record the courts would have allowed her to over ride her parents and go on this mission. Those of you critizing the parents should shut your mouths. You do NOT know anything about the girl or her parents. She is obviously way more mature than any of your children and far more experienced than most adults at sailing. Do not lay judgement when you do not know the people involved or the situation at hand. Just because your kids are drinking and partying at 16 does not mean that everyone's 16 year olds are doing this. So shut your mouths til you have ALL information and facts. You are you to judge????

have some sense already

Reply by have some sense already June 10, 2010 12:07pm PDTReport Abuse

The courts in the us would not have "allowed" her to overide her parents decision about this anymore than they would have allowed her to marry without conscent. Ultimatley it was the parents decision and for thier greed of fame they have lost their daughter....

kmd0826

Reply by kmd0826 June 10, 2010 12:26pm PDTReport Abuse

The parents were wrong. Fact is THEY let her go she did not go through the courts. how much sailing has she done solo. how much experience could you have at he ripe old age of 16. What harm could have come with her waiting until she was an adult. Only gaining more experience. Rules and laws don't apply when you have the money to buy your teenager a sail boat. Her parents should be charged with neglect and abuse. honestly I wouldnt allow my child to drive a car 400 miles alone, much less brave high rugh seas, risk drowning, shark attacks, being lost.

@Kacey I bet her parents would give anything to have her at her best friends house right now drunk and partying and being a teenager. her "dream" may have just cost her her life.

I am praying for her safe return and that this is a wake up call for other CHILDREN that may thing this is a good idea.

zadies

Reply by zadies June 10, 2010 01:15pm PDTReport Abuse

Ah--Please don't say such an unkind thing...oh dear...Show some love, perhaps what they did was brave, perhaps silly, have you not done brave or silly things in your life my dear stinger? Please don't wish such ill luck on the poor kid. Just wish the positive that she will be returned home safely. Her parents are all upset for they love her to bits, please, this is not the time to wish such things...Have another go and say something kind...Remember it is better to be KIND than to be right. Blessings

zadies

Reply by zadies June 10, 2010 01:15pm PDTReport Abuse

Ah--Please don't say such an unkind thing...oh dear...Show some love, perhaps what they did was brave, perhaps silly, have you not done brave or silly things in your life my dear stinger? Please don't wish such ill luck on the poor kid. Just wish the positive that she will be returned home safely. Her parents are all upset for they love her to bits, please, this is not the time to wish such things...Have another go and say something kind...Remember it is better to be KIND than to be right. Blessings

dfmr

Reply by dfmr June 10, 2010 01:22pm PDTReport Abuse

I will pray for Abby--------BUT I was one of the people who said I thought it was irresponsible parenting to let this girl at her age have her way and go on this trip------- I saw nothing but tragegy come from it and I am afraid I am correct------- This girls life was far more important than letting her do what she wanted at her age----------- I also said at the time that child protective services should have been involved to the point where they should have stopped this girl from this sailing venture---------It was unfit parenting to place your child in harms way in a potential life or death situation------ She is probably not alive at this point and how tragic is that?--------- These parents may be grieving now and I am sorry that they probably have lost their little girl, but they have no one to blame but themselves... This girl deserved to have a lifetime of experiences at the proper ages..........
I hope she is alive....And are the parents going to pay for the rescue that is currently in place? Cold sounding, but I am so tired of these people who climb mountains, go on sailing ventures when they should not and then expect the taxpayers money to go find them at no charge to them......

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 10, 2010 01:37pm PDTReport Abuse

This wasn't just something trying to be accomplished, because she could have accomplished this at anytime in her life. They just wanted her to beat a meaningless record that no one really cares about. It even states in the story that they were criticized for the timing of the trip because of the storm season (I am sure by people who know what they are talking about seeing as how she is now in danger) But they all decided to put her life in danger for a meaningless record. Which is very stupid on her part and the part of her parents (because it is their job to make these kind of very IMPORTANT decisions for her). I will be praying for this girl and hope that she is found safe. But even though she may be a trained sailor (which still doesn't mean she knew what she was doing because a "trained sailor" looks at the conditions of the water and takes that into account) this wasn't to accomplish sailing across the world it was for a dumb record. And now all these resources are having to be used for her not because she is just some young girl but because she didn't head warning about the sailing conditions to set a record (i.e. for her (or her parents) need for attention (glory)). And this is the real reason that her parents are "DUMB" because if she wasn't in danger and the news story was about how she was the youngest girl to do it, hardly no one would be commenting on her parents at all.

kacey lowers rice

Reply by kacey lowers rice June 11, 2010 05:46am PDTReport Abuse

First of all most of you have NO idea about the facts of what really has gone on. Yes, the judge would have allowed it. It was already discussed. You would know this if you had followed this girls journey from the beginning. Stop blaming her parents and saying they wanted the record. Abby herself is the one who wanted this and I commend her for it. When her sailboat first had mechanical problems and she had to go get them repaired she lost the rights to the record. She still wanted to continue her journey around the world even though the record was no longer in her reach. You people should really get your facts straight before you start running off at the mouth.

okqpunt

Posted by okqpunt June 10, 2010 10:46am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Parents should be held liable ! What were they thinking? . . .or were they. How sad

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

This quest isn't "just for fun," this is something that this talented sailor is hoping to accomplish. Give some respect and don't blast the parents. At least the kid isn't doing drugs, and she has an ambition that you or I don't have the guts to do.

jonathan hamrick

Reply by jonathan hamrick June 10, 2010 11:10am PDTReport Abuse

sierratahoe, you're a complete moron. She could have accomplished this just a few months LATER and the likelyhood of bad weather would have been reduced significantly. This wasn't just about "accomplishing" a dream. This was about being the "youngest 16 year old" to accomplish this. Most of this pressure is from the parents - whether they'll admit it or not.

rayeman

Reply by rayeman June 10, 2010 11:12am PDTReport Abuse

Agree sierratahoe. This family respects and encourages their children to achieve. We have a problem in modern society calling everything "too dangerous" and encouraging mediocrity in place of achievement. My prayers go out to Abby and her family. May she come home safe.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:24am PDTReport Abuse

Jonathan -- thanks for the kind words. My personal opinion, but go ahead and feel better by calling me a moron. Nice.

bs2010_ _ _

Reply by bs2010_ _ _ June 10, 2010 11:43am PDTReport Abuse

I hope for a safe return. But I do have to agree with some people on here when saying "What were the parent's thinking?" I mean she's a 16 year old girl. Sailing around the world BY HER SELF! Talented or not, she's 16, and by her self.

I seriously hope that she does come back safe and sound. I am praying for her and her family.

goodsamartino

Reply by goodsamartino June 10, 2010 03:24pm PDTReport Abuse

geesh those idiot parents should be locked up!

amit adhikari

Posted by amit adhikari June 10, 2010 10:47am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Hang in there kid.... They will find you.... People who know you and who dont know you are praying for you....

booger_bill

Reply by booger_bill June 10, 2010 11:11am PDTReport Abuse

yeah real easy to sit there and criticize people while their child is out there at sea fighting for their life and scared to death. I have a hunch that this girl knew what she was doing and the family had confidence in her. Best wishes Abby and these people out there criticizing are inconsequential nobodies.

roy vincent

Reply by roy vincent June 10, 2010 01:55pm PDTReport Abuse

i agree when you doubt your children and don't trust in their abilities they will never grow into strong capable adults

david shore

Posted by david shore June 10, 2010 10:48am PDTReply | Report Abuse

good luck abby our prayers for your safe return are with you and your parents now lets get search and rescue quickly please

lancelot85

Reply by lancelot85 June 10, 2010 12:00pm PDTReport Abuse

ha

forever_r0se

Posted by forever_r0se June 10, 2010 10:48am PDTReply | Report Abuse

I wish the best also for this little girl. Myself, having lost a child knows full well there fears. But ever since both these girls made this decision to embark on such an overwhelming endeavor. I always said there parents needed there heads examined....I do pray though she will be found and alright..

lavonnamom

Reply by lavonnamom June 10, 2010 11:58am PDTReport Abuse

IT TAKES A LITTLE MAN TO HIT A WOMAN JUST BECAUSE SHE WON'T LISTEN

lavonnamom

Reply by lavonnamom June 10, 2010 11:58am PDTReport Abuse

IT TAKES A LITTLE MAN TO HIT A WOMAN JUST BECAUSE SHE WON'T LISTEN

generalparabola

Reply by generalparabola June 10, 2010 01:04pm PDTReport Abuse

So, instead of knocking some sense into them, you would just let them die without meaning? Don't be naive.

apricott

Reply by apricott June 10, 2010 01:25pm PDTReport Abuse

I hope the best for this family, & may god be with you on this long journey ahead!

coolmom9

Reply by coolmom9 June 10, 2010 05:06pm PDTReport Abuse

Kidsta and Johanne--maybe that is why the world was conquered by White Europeans.

animeboy413

Posted by animeboy413 June 10, 2010 10:49am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Someone needs to tell these teenage girls no. if they don't listen hit them

babbalah

Reply by babbalah June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

I hope you are kidding

babbalah

Reply by babbalah June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

I hope you are kidding

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

This quest isn't "just for fun," this is something that this talented sailor is hoping to accomplish. Give some respect and don't blast the parents. At least the kid isn't doing drugs, and she has an ambition that you or I don't have the guts to do.

shadowhawk66

Reply by shadowhawk66 June 10, 2010 11:03am PDTReport Abuse

Youre a dumbass....probably hit your own girlfriend, because you're not big enough to hit a man

abcya

Reply by abcya June 10, 2010 11:54am PDTReport Abuse

FUCKING STUPID AMERICANS STOP YOUR BITCHING AND LET HER DO HER THING WHO THE FUCK ARE TO JUDGE HER PARENTS THAT WAS HER DREAM TO SAIL AND IF GOD FORBIDS I HOPE THAT S NOT WHEAR HE DREM WILL END ITS CALLED SOPORT FOR OTHERS

abcya

Reply by abcya June 10, 2010 11:54am PDTReport Abuse

FUCKING STUPID AMERICANS STOP YOUR BITCHING AND LET HER DO HER THING WHO THE FUCK ARE TO JUDGE HER PARENTS THAT WAS HER DREAM TO SAIL AND IF GOD FORBIDS I HOPE THAT S NOT WHEAR HE DREM WILL END ITS CALLED SOPORT FOR OTHERS

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 12:02pm PDTReport Abuse

ABCYA, first, no caps, please. This group will rip you apart. Second, please don't call us Stupid Americans. I'm sure there's many a non-American who has done something that you would consider stupid, but would you label that entire country and call them stupid? Please don't come to America, enjoy all the benefits of it, and then call Americans stupid.

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 12:20pm PDTReport Abuse

Sorry but a hispanic parent would not allow this to happen....STUPID WHITE PEOPLE!!! I'm not racist, but everytime you hear of some STUPID, DANGEROUS, CARELESS STUNT involving children...the PEOPLE RESPONSIBLE are WHITE AMERICANS...And dont give me that shit, that "she's 16" and grown up...thats crap! ...The parents should get arrested...or tried..just like "Baloon Boy"..IDIOTS!!

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 12:23pm PDTReport Abuse

The kidsta -- really? You're not racist? I would NEVER have guessed that about you.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 10, 2010 12:33pm PDTReport Abuse

It is time to pray for this family and not attack the parents, but.....

Is everyone aware of the position her parents have put themselves in? Department of Children and Families and Child Protective Services are in place for a reason. They may not have gotten involved at the beginning, the pressure will be upon them now. It usually takes a bad outcome to bring a bad choice to light. This should have been avoided. Neglect is the fact of the matter in this case.

Letting your child follow their dreams is great but there needs to be guidelines/protocols/supervision in case of emergencies. That is the difference between support and neglect.

There are those of you saying she is a professional. A professional does not disregard the safety of their life and go out to sail during unsafe months of sea travel.

These parents will nodoubtedly face JAIL TIME if anything happens to this girl. The law will see this as neglect as it should have when the trip was even brought to light.

johanne laurore

Reply by johanne laurore June 10, 2010 12:35pm PDTReport Abuse

HAHAHa...i agree.. i didn't want to post that.Glad someone else did. White people are crazy!!! A black parent let alone my Haitian parents, would never even allow that to happen.

doc_muscle

Reply by doc_muscle June 10, 2010 12:40pm PDTReport Abuse

Kidsta: Get real. The reason a hispanic parent woulnt allow this to happen is because they would rather encourage their kids to have babies young and go on gov't assistance. Or maybe smoke a blunt with them. But never encourage their children to control of their own lives.

Lets pray for this girl and her family instead of playing the 'peanut gallery' part.

ps: Did that sound as racist as your comment?

doc_muscle

Reply by doc_muscle June 10, 2010 12:40pm PDTReport Abuse

Kidsta: Get real. The reason a hispanic parent woulnt allow this to happen is because they would rather encourage their kids to have babies young and go on gov't assistance. Or maybe smoke a blunt with them. But never encourage their children to control of their own lives.

Lets pray for this girl and her family instead of playing the 'peanut gallery' part.

ps: Did that sound as racist as your comment?

doc_muscle

Reply by doc_muscle June 10, 2010 12:45pm PDTReport Abuse

thats because blacks and hispanics would rather let their kids have babies at 16. That way they could collect an extra income from the gov't. You people need to get real. Its sad.

billsurf101

Reply by billsurf101 June 10, 2010 12:53pm PDTReport Abuse

Kidsta, here you go, GET THE FUCK OUT OF OUR COUNTRY IF YOU DONT LIKE IT!! Oh, and yes, how about all the STUPID MEXICANS, who risk their childrens lives trying to get into the States. Why dont you go back to mexico and try and fix your worthless country so we dont have to support all of y ou STUPID MEXICANS!!! there hows that!!!! you moron.

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 01:03pm PDTReport Abuse

Hey doc..I think your late for the cross burning, and the "Hail Hitler" bonfire party with the rest of the "klan"... ASSWIPE!!

coolmomof3

Reply by coolmomof3 June 10, 2010 01:05pm PDTReport Abuse

abcya - you need to learn proper grammar before you decide to sound off in public and make yourself look and sound more stupid than those you are yelling at, you idiot.
kidsta - you are a retard... racist too. The psycho who took a bullet right between the horns when he refused to stop stomping and kicking a two-year-old baby was hispanic. Does that mean we should be saying STUPID CRAZY HISPANIC PEOPLE, just because one crazy son of a bitch beat and kicked his own two-year-old son to death?? You need to grow up and get an education you dumbass.

laura clark

Reply by laura clark June 10, 2010 01:09pm PDTReport Abuse

If you don't like white people and they're crazy and idiots, go back to Haiti...and where ever kidsta is from, you can go back too...No worries..."Freedom of Speech" Right??? God Bless America

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 01:15pm PDTReport Abuse

Coolmom..You are comparing oranges to apples..Every race has violent tendacies, and kicking a 2 year old is a CRIME...letting your 16 year old DAUGHTER is just plain ignorant to me...the point is that you never hear of a hispanic, italian, black,,,person letting this happen...so PISS OFF...

Billsurf,,I was born in AMERICA IDIOT, And i am not Mexican..you sound like a Hillbilly, cousing fucking white boy with dirty teeth and stank breath..Go fuck your sister...oh yeah One more thing...Yeeee Haw!

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 01:21pm PDTReport Abuse

Laura you sound hot...Talk dirty to me baby!!..

coolmomof3

Reply by coolmomof3 June 10, 2010 01:28pm PDTReport Abuse

Kidsta - this is something you don't hear often period, underaged people sailing solo but bringing race into it is plain ignorant on your part so you PISS OFF. By the way the word you meant to use is tendencies not TENDACIES and Italian is not a race.... how does that make you feel?? :)~~ Just like I said - get an education!

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 01:39pm PDTReport Abuse

Coolmom I was talking about ethnicity groups..not race, I'm sorry if I confused your tiny..tiny brain. The misspelled word was a typo...Now, Go buy some "blue Ribbon" beer sit your fat ass on your porch, take out your banjo, and sing to all 20 kids..Village Idiot!

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 01:42pm PDTReport Abuse

Gotta go now Coolmom, so i wont be able to reply to your meaningless insult that you will fire back,,so in my absence, i reply...."FUCK OFF"

coolmomof3

Reply by coolmomof3 June 10, 2010 01:52pm PDTReport Abuse

Wow Kidsta now I know why you seem so familiar to me. You see you have this whole thing all wrong. I am not fat, at all. I weigh 105lbs, am 5ft4in tall, I have three beautiful small boys and I am not only cool I am also hot. I was born in Europe, have been educated in two different countries and will challenge you to a game of wits with my 'tiny tiny brain' against your huge male ego anytime and I promise I will put you to shame you brainless stupid asshole.
I would believe that your TENDACIES is a typo if the word wasn't so completely mangled, you obviously didn't know how to spell it, besides when you were reaming 'doc' up there you said - YOUR late for... I think you know where I'm going with this and just in case you don't here it is, this is basic BASIC grammar, your and you are or you're... need I say more?
I was a human biology major in college and worked in a lab and one day one of our experiments escaped and we never found it... Kidsta, I think that's you!

guest

Reply by guest June 10, 2010 02:21pm PDTReport Abuse

BTW isn't it the hispanic race that has the freakin 20 kids, that us "fat ass white amercians" are paying for with Title 19- you don't like it Please feel free to go back to your own country. I am sick of working hard for you and your kind!

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 10, 2010 02:57pm PDTReport Abuse

This wasn't just something trying to be accomplished, because she could have accomplished this at anytime in her life. They just wanted her to beat a meaningless record that no one really cares about. It even states in the story that they were criticized for the timing of the trip because of the storm season (I am sure by people who know what they are talking about seeing as how she is now in danger) But they all decided to put her life in danger for a meaningless record. Which is very stupid on her part and the part of her parents (because it is their job to make these kind of very IMPORTANT decisions for her). I will be praying for this girl and hope that she is found safe. But even though she may be a trained sailor (which still doesn't mean she knew what she was doing because a "trained sailor" looks at the conditions of the water and takes that into account) this wasn't to accomplish sailing across the world it was for a dumb record. And now all these resources are having to be used for her not because she is just some young girl but because she didn't head warning about the sailing conditions to set a record (i.e. for her (or her parents) need for attention (glory)). And this is the real reason that her parents are "DUMB" because if she wasn't in danger and the news story was about how she was the youngest girl to do it, hardly no one would be commenting on her parents at all.

moephor

Reply by moephor June 10, 2010 03:17pm PDTReport Abuse

wow can you say... hijacked blog?

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 10, 2010 03:33pm PDTReport Abuse

coolmom, freedom767, abcya, kidsta, doc_muscle, billsurf101 Do you realize what you are doing? You have turned this tradgedy into a racial battle. No race is better than another. We Americans are not made up of just one race. Where did "Americans" actually derive from? We are a mixture of white and black. Oh and I hate to remind you, Indians were the first people here followed by settlers who are what we Americans are made up of.

If you take the time to put your emotions aside and use just you intellect, you will see that you can find families with twenty children in every race, with the exception of certain Asian providences which are prohibited from having more than a certain number of children.

Another thing, education has nothing to do with this, I have degrees as a paralegal and medical assistant. I am finishing school to become a RN and I do not have perfect spelling. Different ethnic groups have outstanding people that make unimaginable differences in this world. It is very sad to see the way you are all attacking eachother. Mexicans risking their children to come to the US...why do you think they do this? They want better for their children. Haitians the same. Cubans, Argentinians, Columbians, all South Americans, Asians, Europeans, etcetera they come here and most, get their papers and work hard to get their families the best they can. It is very unfair to compare these people to the matter at hand.

nomi

Reply by nomi June 10, 2010 03:59pm PDTReport Abuse

sorry coolmomof3 but if you think being Italian is not a race try telling all those who born Italian that thier country ITALY doent exist,

phil e buster

Reply by phil e buster June 10, 2010 10:41pm PDTReport Abuse

kidsta, you're right, no Hispanic parent would allow their 16 year old kid to go sailing around the world. They just allow their 16 year old kids to engage in the sport of boxing...a much much safer sport than sailing. You're right, man: positively, absolutely and unequivocally right.

hfurll

Posted by hfurll June 10, 2010 10:50am PDTReply | Report Abuse

And this is a surprise... the parents should be responsible for the rescue to detour other UNDER AGE fame seekers. Don't get me wrong, I hope she is OK

There is a reason there was so much controversy over this STUNT.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:02am PDTReport Abuse

This quest isn't "just for fun," this is something that this talented sailor is hoping to accomplish. Give some respect and don't blast the parents. At least the kid isn't doing drugs, and she has an ambition that you or I don't have the guts to do.

robin cockerell

Reply by robin cockerell June 10, 2010 11:17am PDTReport Abuse

has any one heard of the words,child endangerment?what kind of dream world does this little girls parents live in that would send a child into the most dangerous environment on the planet?

rhettbulter2

Reply by rhettbulter2 June 10, 2010 11:20am PDTReport Abuse

Sierra, its not really necessary to copy and paste your little message on every post. Makes you look like a dumbass. Just an FYI.

lovergirl06

Reply by lovergirl06 June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

Stop copying and pasting part of your posts. How annoying to keep reading a similar post when I'm sure people have read them ALREADY!!

lovergirl06

Reply by lovergirl06 June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

Stop copying and pasting part of your posts. How annoying to keep reading a similar post when I'm sure people have read them ALREADY!!

lovergirl06

Reply by lovergirl06 June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

Stop copying and pasting part of your posts. How annoying to keep reading a similar post when I'm sure people have read them ALREADY!!

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:28am PDTReport Abuse

SORRY...!! I'm certainly not trying to annoy anyone -- it was one point that I felt was applicable to several posts.... Sorry I looked like a dumbass -- RHETT! Nice mouth.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:33am PDTReport Abuse

Got it, guys. Loud and clear. Thought my point was relevant to several posts, but I see you guys got it. Thanks again, RHETT. Again, nice mouth. Lovergirl, you posted yours twice...

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 10, 2010 12:57pm PDTReport Abuse

Sierra, She actually posted it 3 times and i think it was to make a point...... As for your post, as someone stated to your earlier this wasn't just something trying to be accomplished, because she could have accomplished this at anytime in her life. They just wanted her to beat a meaningless record that no one really cares about. It even states in the story that they were criticized for the timing of the trip because of the storm season (I am sure by people who know what they are talking about seeing as how she is now in danger) But they all decided to put her life in danger for a meaningless record. Which is very stupid on her part and the part of her parents. This is in no way a put down to you just facts. i will be praying for this girl and hope that she is found safe but your post is irrelevant because even though she may be a trained sailor (which still doesn't mean she knew what she was doing because a "trained sailor" looks at the conditions of the water and takes that into account) this wasn't to accomplish sailing across the world it was for a dumb record. And now all these resources are having to be used for her not because she is just some young girl but because she didn't head warning about the sailing conditions to set a record (i.e. for her (or her parents) need for attention.

sandilu

Reply by sandilu June 10, 2010 01:35pm PDTReport Abuse

I agree 100% with tararichelle! As horrible as this situation is for the girl and with everyone hoping and praying she makes it home okay, where are the prayers and thoughts for the rescue workers. They are also going into the storms for the sole purpose of saving a CHILD who should not be out there right now. This was not about a dream of sailing the world, it was about a competition to have the FAME of being the youngest! Now other people are in danger of losing their lives for her competition. I hope the parents are held responsible cost of the rescue effort, then they might make better parenting decisions.

thommy1

Reply by thommy1 June 10, 2010 02:51pm PDTReport Abuse

Thankfully there are women, possibly mothers, like tara richelle who have a functioning brain in their heads. You may not be famous but at least your children will be safe and alive.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 03:33pm PDTReport Abuse

Still not sure why MY post was the most horrid, and stupidest one out there? In scrolling through, I see several that say racist, rude comments, but MY post is the one that is beaten up. I GOT IT. I will not post multiple times. I GOT IT.

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 10, 2010 04:19pm PDTReport Abuse

@ Sierra because you posted it 20 + times and as i pointed out made no sense. Can you please actually reply to the contents of my post instead of taking it personal, I would really like to hear your response to what i said instead of you taking it personally and making it about you. You stated that the reason you posted so many times is because you felt it was important, so now that i have shot that down....... what do you have to say?

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 04:41pm PDTReport Abuse

@ TaraRichelle -- to be honest, my apologies that I missed your post. Please don't gloat -- I didn't see it since I was bombarded with mistakenly posting the same comment multiple times and was thoroughly ripped to shreds. And which I've apologized for multiple times...

Anyway, in response to your thoughts -- in my opinion, Abby wanted to achieve the record, as her brother did last year at 17 years old, but I don't recall there being any controversy with that. I wonder if it was because he was a boy? I don't know, but I wonder. Parents understand the concerns and dangers, but as their son did it, and their daughter was as experienced, if not more, than it appears that she had a legitimate reason to attempt this amazing feat. The risks are there, and there is no questioning that. However, I truly feel that children encounter risks every day in so many activities, that with this girl's ambitions, she was directing her efforts and hopes and dreams into something much more productive than what several kids do nowadays. That is my opinion. Everyone can try to call me an idiot, but I think it's a dead horse at this point with the "multiple times I've posted issue." I could certainly go back and delete them so they don't annoy more people that newly come onto here. What do you think?

grumpyman

Posted by grumpyman June 10, 2010 10:50am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Sorry to say this to everyone, but don't count on her being alive when they find her or if they even do. And I do have to agree with txmike, her parents went way out of the line on this. More money than sense is correct.

joshualanier

Reply by joshualanier June 10, 2010 10:59am PDTReport Abuse

ABSOLUTELY!!!

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:02am PDTReport Abuse

This quest isn't "just for fun," this is something that this talented sailor is hoping to accomplish. Give some respect and don't blast the parents. At least the kid isn't doing drugs, and she has an ambition that you or I don't have the guts to do.

sue2010

Reply by sue2010 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

Sierratahoe: Is that all you can say? It appears that you are merely re-posting the same thing over & over...we get your point already.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:26am PDTReport Abuse

Um, ok. Sorry Sue -- BUT, it's a point that I felt relevant to several of the other posts! But, I'll change it up so we all feel that it's unique.

gulfcoastgull

Reply by gulfcoastgull June 10, 2010 11:32am PDTReport Abuse

Sierratahoe, I've sailed since I was a kid, with my p-a-r-e-n-t-s... It's not rocket science. Respect has nothing to do with it. It's a hobby, a past time.... doesn't help or hurt anyone. Ambition? you're kidding right? Kids, do something useful, like helping to clean up the coastline after an oil well explodes.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:35am PDTReport Abuse

Gulfcoastgull -- glad that you are so experienced that you can rip me apart. And that you think that it's just a hobby. Know a lot of folks that would differ with you. My point is that she is an experienced sailor and that it is not an easy thing to do on your own, but she was moving towards a goal, which is a lot better than doing drugs, but whatever. Pick ME as the bad guy!

eveadam

Reply by eveadam June 10, 2010 11:59am PDTReport Abuse

i have five words for the parents - COMMON SENSE IS NOT COMMON !

kjc

Reply by kjc June 10, 2010 12:54pm PDTReport Abuse

Hey Sierra -

If we just say we all agree with you will you SHUT THE FUCK UP? We get it: you know EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING and the rest of us are stupid. Thanks for clearing that up! Find something better to do with your time rather than re-post the same stupid message over and over and then bitch at everyone who disagrees. Your opinion is just that, honey: YOUR opinion!

kjc

Reply by kjc June 10, 2010 12:55pm PDTReport Abuse

Hey Sierra -

If we just say we all agree with you will you SHUT THE FUCK UP? We get it: you know EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING and the rest of us are stupid. Thanks for clearing that up! Find something better to do with your time rather than re-post the same stupid message over and over and then bitch at everyone who disagrees. Your opinion is just that, honey: YOUR opinion!

sandilu

Reply by sandilu June 10, 2010 01:15pm PDTReport Abuse

Definitely praying for a safe return. However, I completely agree that the parents are 100% responsible. I understand having to encourage your children to fulfill their dreams, but we are given the gift of children for a reason. That reason is to raise them, protect them and teach them to make INTELLIGENT choices while pursuing their dreams. If your child's dream is to skydive out of a plane in a lightening storm do you say "of course honey" so you don't squash their dreams? No, you tell them you can complete this dream when you are more prepared and the conditions are safer! It does not matter how trained she is, she is still a young girl with not near enough physical strength to maintain her boat in the worst storms she could possibly sail into and it was up to her parents to be PARENTS and hold her back until the timing was better. This was not about just sailing around the world...it was about beating a record...a competition. Was that competition worth risking her life?

jenniewest

Reply by jenniewest June 10, 2010 01:31pm PDTReport Abuse

A good sailor mitigates risk. They chose the riskiest time to be in the most dangerous ocean in order for her to break a record. Her brother did not do that, he finished in July back in the US, putting him in the Indian Ocean just before fall started in the Southern Hemisphere. She was over 2 months behind and during the worst time to be there. She could have delayed. This is about the glory of a record rather than the safe accomplishment of a dream. Experience allows you to make those decisions not skill. She may have been a skillful sailor but lacked the experience to make that judgement call. That is where the parents should have stepped in.

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 01:47pm PDTReport Abuse

KJC - Good gracious, I've been ripped apart a million times in the past few hours for the multiple postings, find someone new -- part of it was me reposting, part of it was the duplicate posting situation that I see you have fell prey too as well (you posted twice, should I say I got your point?). And for the record, I do not know everything about everything, I don't think the rest of you all are stupid, and I am not trying to bitch at everyone who disagrees. Thanks for calling me, honey (sexist), and just know that if you scroll through the comments, you WILL find many more individuals you can jump on and shred as well.

Happy hunting, KJC. Thanks SO MUCH!!!!

kellye

Reply by kellye June 10, 2010 02:03pm PDTReport Abuse

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/outposts/2010/06/rescue-effort-underway-for-teenage-sailor-abby-sunderland-.html

I just watched this video of Abby and her family talking about how they decided to let her go and her preperations.....

kudzaidotnet

Posted by kudzaidotnet June 10, 2010 10:51am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Praying for you Abby. We want you home safely.

@txmike / @animeboy413 ... Please don't be so cruel. This isn't a joke

generalparabola

Reply by generalparabola June 10, 2010 01:07pm PDTReport Abuse

It is her fault. So she gets what is coming to her.

micheal marshall

Reply by micheal marshall June 10, 2010 08:54pm PDTReport Abuse

i wonder if you would talk like that if that was your child?at least she has the drive and the gutts to live her dream most of us will probally never get to do that or have the drive to do it from your comment i hope your not a parent if you are i fell sorry for the kids!this is a real person that needs real help shes someones child what if this was you?/oh wait its a lot easier to pass jugdment sitting at that lap top huh?

micheal marshall

Reply by micheal marshall June 10, 2010 08:55pm PDTReport Abuse

i wonder if you would talk like that if that was your child?at least she has the drive and the gutts to live her dream most of us will probally never get to do that or have the drive to do it from your comment i hope your not a parent if you are i fell sorry for the kids!this is a real person that needs real help shes someones child what if this was you?/oh wait its a lot easier to pass jugdment sitting at that lap top huh?

micheal marshall

Reply by micheal marshall June 10, 2010 08:55pm PDTReport Abuse

i wonder if you would talk like that if that was your child?at least she has the drive and the gutts to live her dream most of us will probally never get to do that or have the drive to do it from your comment i hope your not a parent if you are i fell sorry for the kids!this is a real person that needs real help shes someones child what if this was you?/oh wait its a lot easier to pass jugdment sitting at that lap top huh?

micheal marshall

Reply by micheal marshall June 10, 2010 08:55pm PDTReport Abuse

i wonder if you would talk like that if that was your child?at least she has the drive and the gutts to live her dream most of us will probally never get to do that or have the drive to do it from your comment i hope your not a parent if you are i fell sorry for the kids!this is a real person that needs real help shes someones child what if this was you?/oh wait its a lot easier to pass jugdment sitting at that lap top huh?

jo blazer

Posted by jo blazer June 10, 2010 10:52am PDTReply | Report Abuse

I'm sure a lot of us parents would never think of letting our daughter take on such a dangerous adventure. However, now is the time for prayers for this young lady, not criticism of the parents who are in anguish over her safety. God bless and protect Abby!!!

imaqtru23

Reply by imaqtru23 June 10, 2010 11:01am PDTReport Abuse

Amen!

thomas geiger

Reply by thomas geiger June 10, 2010 11:11am PDTReport Abuse

I agree!

sammy1976

Reply by sammy1976 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

ameen

sammy1976

Reply by sammy1976 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

ameen

sammy1976

Reply by sammy1976 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

ameen

sammy1976

Reply by sammy1976 June 10, 2010 11:23am PDTReport Abuse

ameen

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 12:11pm PDTReport Abuse

They wouldn't be in anguish if they hadn't allowed this CRAP to begin with!

g1tt1_we

Reply by g1tt1_we June 10, 2010 12:53pm PDTReport Abuse

AMEN Jo Blazer

masonsmom

Reply by masonsmom June 10, 2010 12:57pm PDTReport Abuse

Lifting this family up in prayers, I'm sure if they could turn back the clock so that this didn't happen they would, but they cant. Now is the time for Prayer, hope and support.
I Think they will find her soon and she will be frightened and need medical attention but will have learned many lessons. Esp, a lesson on how strong our will as humans is to survive. May God's peace be with her and her family until this is over.

pragmatic

Reply by pragmatic June 10, 2010 05:09pm PDTReport Abuse

Agreed. I hope she makes it through this.

guest

Posted by guest June 10, 2010 10:53am PDTReply | Report Abuse

hope they find her safe

eva june

Reply by eva june June 10, 2010 11:50am PDTReport Abuse

I do to

eva june

Reply by eva june June 10, 2010 11:50am PDTReport Abuse

I do to

david bender

Posted by david bender June 10, 2010 10:53am PDTReply | Report Abuse

I know I'm probably going to get reamed for this but, what the hell were her parents thinking allowing her to do this in the first place? Fame and glory? For crying out loud, at 16 she should be worrying about boyfriends and who is going to take her to the prom, not getting abducted or worse by pirates and certainly not drowning alone in the middle of the Indian Ocean.

joshualanier

Reply by joshualanier June 10, 2010 11:00am PDTReport Abuse

AGREED!

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:02am PDTReport Abuse

This quest isn't "just for fun," this is something that this talented sailor is hoping to accomplish. Give some respect and don't blast the parents. At least the kid isn't doing drugs, and she has an ambition that you or I don't have the guts to do.

jenypher

Reply by jenypher June 10, 2010 11:16am PDTReport Abuse

Doing drugs is just as much a risk to her life as sailing around the world alone, in my opinion.

ipissexcellence

Reply by ipissexcellence June 10, 2010 11:32am PDTReport Abuse

sierratahoe, you've posted the SAME comment 15X. We've all read your lame input, so get over yourself and come up with something else!

ipissexcellence

Reply by ipissexcellence June 10, 2010 11:32am PDTReport Abuse

sierratahoe, you've posted the SAME comment 15X. We've all read your lame input, so get over yourself and come up with something else!

blackolive

Reply by blackolive June 10, 2010 11:34am PDTReport Abuse

Sierratahoe the point is accomplishing a goal is fine but if it comes at the price of losing ones life or you know that there is more than a 10% chance that you could lose your life, then kiddo it just might be the time that you want to pick another goal. The kid is not wise enough to see that and she is 16 so she can only have so much experience as a quote un quote sailor...bottom line the trip was too risky and I agree with others-the rescue costs should fall on the parents not taxpayers like us who would have never agreed to this sort of thing from an underage person. With all that said I pray they find her alive to read these posts so she can see how reckless it was to get out there alone and have hundreds of parents and people worried from her selfish act wanting to prove something. As they say- It takes a Village to raise a child & the Village has spoken!

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:38am PDTReport Abuse

ipissexcellence, thanks for posting your comment a couple times for me. That's right, I'm the bad guy because I have a specific point that might just be relevant. I got it. Understood. Loud and clear.

That being said, blackolive, my personal opinion is that it is a lofty and admirable goal. Losing your life at sea is a risk that is taken, and anybody can be killed doing a number of common, every day things.

foscouni

Reply by foscouni June 10, 2010 11:44am PDTReport Abuse

Blackolive...you have spoken well for the village....kudos!..couldn't agree more!

poxaoh

Reply by poxaoh June 10, 2010 12:37pm PDTReport Abuse

@ blackolive, and @ foscouni who thinks you speak for "the village", I couldn't disagree more.

thousands of years from now, man will still not have completely tamed the ocean. Getting cauhgt up on her age is a total misconception.. the ocean doesn't care how old or experienced you are as a sailor! It is dangerous at any age, can be dangerous in any craft, and will continue to take lives as long is there is a life to take. Her age only makes a difference in my mind in that she may not have been aware of just what life could offer and so did not understand the risk. I'd have to think that she did if she loved sailing half as much as it would seem. Most of you need to get over yourselves with all this scolding and calls of bad parenting.

As for waste of taxpayers money: it's hardly a waste! Most of the money involved in coast guard efforts is having that kind of ability and equipment on hand 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. Whatever cost is added on top of all that for is minimal, in my eyes. That's what the world's CGs are for! Even when success is doubtful, it can serve as valuable live training, so it would never be a complete waste, something which would not incur much risk for the brave men & women of the CG. I think you're woefully mistaken to minimize the presence of the CG, especially in the case of an able sailor with a well-kept craft. It is more of a waste spending time policing the drunken pleasure-boaters who have no idea how to keep a craft than is this!

The real tragedy here is that her loved ones will probably never know what happened. It is unlikely she will ever be found, and if she is, it is unlikely that she will be able to say what happened. I hope they find her soon, and I hope her parents & brother never let you people poison their hopes and ambitions. She will serve as an inspiration and reminder to the rest of us who dream even if she wining & dining with Amelia Earhardt. Thank you, Abby!

dfmr

Reply by dfmr June 10, 2010 01:11pm PDTReport Abuse

I will pray for Abby--------BUT I was one of the people who said I thought it was irresponsible parenting to let this girl at her age have her way and go on this trip------- I saw nothing but tragegy come from it and I am afraid I am correct------- This girls life was far more important than letting her do what she wanted at her age----------- I also said at the time that child protective services should have been involved to the point where they should have stopped this girl from this sailing venture---------It was unfit parenting to place your child in harms way in a potential life or death situation------ She is probably not alive at this point and how tragic is that?--------- These parents may be grieving now and I am sorry that they probably have lost their little girl, but they have no one to blame but themselves... This girl deserved to have a lifetime of experiences at the proper ages..........
I hope she is alive....And are the parents going to pay for the rescue that is currently in place? Cold sounding, but I am so tired of these people who climb mountains, go on sailing ventures when they should not and then expect the taxpayers money to go find them at no charge to them......

thommy1

Reply by thommy1 June 10, 2010 02:41pm PDTReport Abuse

Hey sierra-hoe, this girl asked for it, and now she's getting it. If she stuck her finger into an electrical socket, would you be amazed that she received a deadly electrical shock? Her doing drugs doesn't even come close to the risk her parents had her taking.

Half of kids that age are experimenting with drugs.....how many do you know that are in the middle of the freakin' ocean ALONE on a little crappy boat? How many kids survive smoking pot - 100%... How many die from gross child endangerment when they're floating in the ocean 400 miles away from civilization - Just One.

Seriously, defending these parents is akin to defending a child molester if not worse. Both wanted something from the girl and exploited her to get it [the parents wanted the fame], both stole a large piece of her childhood [parents sending her into the middle of the ocean for months if not total years when she should be talking on the phone to her friends], and both cause great bodily harm to the girl herself [her bloated body will be a testament to that].

When you were a kid, if you wanted to fly around the world in a giant balloon, what would your parents have said? 99.99999999% of parents with a functioning brain would have said the logical answer - "ABSOLUTELY NOT!".

Whenever the girls body is found, I truly hope her parents are arrested for endangering the welfare of a child, child neglect, and involuntary manslaughter [as a reasonably prudent person would not have sent a child out into the middle of the ocean without expecting them to die or become injured]. Your children are not your own fun little apprentices, but rather defenseless, still growing human beings whose lives you are responsible for.

Then again, maybe having these parents offspring removed from the gene pool would be a favor to humanity. This girl would have been better off living on the streets instead of being in the hands of these two lunatic parents.

phab007

Reply by phab007 June 10, 2010 02:45pm PDTReport Abuse

Following or wanting to accomplish a dream is surely one thing, but wanting to accomplish something when everyone knows it's suicide is another. Yes, she is a child, so maybe she just can't understand it, but her parents, friends etc... should of stepped in and wieghed the pros and cons of why this couldn't be done right now. I'm sorry, but I am a captain of a ship and 40-50 ft seas w/ 60 knot winds is insane! it doesn't matter how experienced you are etc... Thats just suicide I have been out on some nasty seas in my days and have came close to death on a few occassion. Being a great/solid sailor/captain is knowing what your limits can be, now of course sometimes they can be defied a bit, but come on it was a horrible time of year to do that trip why would someone still due it or let someone close to you do it knowing that??? Bottom line this could of been prevented! At the end of it wether she did this when she was 16 or 50 doesn't really matter. In her mind it may of made of difference, but her life would of been un changed regardless. It is a heck of a an accomplishment no matter what age. I due beleive in following dreams and goals, but you have to be realstic about it or if you still plan on going forward knowing the dangers then what ever happens, happens and her or her parents have no one else to blame..... All and all I do hope she is found, but it is a waste of tax dollars and other peolpes lives etc just to go and save her. Some of u people need to wake the F up and come back to the real world here!

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 02:48pm PDTReport Abuse

Thommy -- wow, you scrolled through all these comments, and thought MY post was the one that was the worst and that you needed to shred me on? MY post? Wow. Thanks for calling me a hoe. I think you meant "ho" and not a garden tool, but you were trying to insult me, so okay.

My point is simply that she is an experienced sailor, and that you shouldn't just blast the parents and not read one article to determine what is the right or wrong answer. But MY post was the one you thought you should pick on.

Nice guy.

thommy1

Reply by thommy1 June 10, 2010 03:11pm PDTReport Abuse

Sierra, remember to correct yourself. You meant POSTS [as in countlessly copying and pasting the same thing over and over again] and not POST.

Got any exciting trips planned for your children......maybe a nice swim up the Amazon River or a B.A.S.E. jump off K2? Or maybe you're realizing now just how foolish of a thought you really had.

blackolive

Reply by blackolive June 10, 2010 03:12pm PDTReport Abuse

@poxaho -you made my point loud and clear..she was too young to understand the risks! Also being so young she has yet to enjoy her future...why go into dangerous waters alone? There is a reason why young people are called minors: they are too young to make Major decisions...Now knowing you, I bet you would let your kids go sailing around the world with a be "home for supper sometime ok." I like to see kids take risks but ones without grave consequences. You and terra ho should hang out together with your devil-may-care attitude about child safety.

diana di

Posted by diana di June 10, 2010 10:54am PDTReply | Report Abuse

So so true...I really hope she returns home safe,but still,parents...a little more care and using your brain will help next time

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:04am PDTReport Abuse

This quest isn't "just for fun," this is something that this talented sailor is hoping to accomplish. Give some respect and don't blast the parents. At least the kid isn't doing drugs, and she has an ambition that you or I don't have the guts to do.

okqpunt

Reply by okqpunt June 10, 2010 11:14am PDTReport Abuse

I think that the young boy who just climbed Mt. Everest had COMPANY ! He wasn't ALONE !!!

ipissexcellence

Reply by ipissexcellence June 10, 2010 11:28am PDTReport Abuse

sierratahoe, you've posted the SAME comment 15X. We've all read your lame input, so get over yourself and come up with something else!

ipissexcellence

Reply by ipissexcellence June 10, 2010 11:28am PDTReport Abuse

sierratahoe, you've posted the SAME comment 15X. We've all read your lame input, so get over yourself and come up with something else!

ipissexcellence

Reply by ipissexcellence June 10, 2010 11:30am PDTReport Abuse

sierratahoe, you've posted the SAME comment 15X. We've all read your lame input, so get over yourself and come up with something else!

ipissexcellence

Reply by ipissexcellence June 10, 2010 11:30am PDTReport Abuse

sierratahoe, you've posted the SAME comment 15X. We've all read your lame input, so get over yourself and come up with something else!

sierratahoe

Reply by sierratahoe June 10, 2010 11:42am PDTReport Abuse

Thanks ipissexcellence. Got your point 4 times here. SORRY.

macboeve

Reply by macboeve June 10, 2010 11:47am PDTReport Abuse

okay well what about Zac Sunderland? He just sailed around the world by himself and you know what he started when he was 16 years old. Are we going to harass his parents for letting him make history at such a young age?

eldridge areal

Reply by eldridge areal June 10, 2010 01:28pm PDTReport Abuse

Very difficult to use a brain when no functioning brain exists. [as in her parent's case clearly]

diana di

Reply by diana di June 11, 2010 07:06am PDTReport Abuse

Then let her follow her dreams and sail the world,but than be able to take some risks,if your kid dissapears I don't think you're that happy after all,letting her do this :))and that Zac boy,was just lucky,plus she is a girl...

diana di

Reply by diana di June 11, 2010 07:07am PDTReport Abuse

Then let her follow her dreams and sail the world,but than be able to take some risks,if your kid dissapears I don't think you're that happy after all,letting her do this :))and that Zac boy,was just lucky,plus she is a girl...

guest

Posted by guest June 10, 2010 10:54am PDTReply | Report Abuse

very sad that people always try to blame the parents she is getting a chance to follow her dreams and heart so let her and hopefully she will be okay and finish her journey

pax rock

Reply by pax rock June 10, 2010 11:11am PDTReport Abuse

You're an idiot.

okqpunt

Reply by okqpunt June 10, 2010 11:16am PDTReport Abuse

DIDO !

booger_bill

Reply by booger_bill June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

right on, guest!

angela moore

Reply by angela moore June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

Yeah...follow her dreams right down to Davey Jones Locker...how awesome is that?!?!?
MORON!!!

picksweet45

Reply by picksweet45 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

Are we to blame the parents if she went missing while jogging in the park? Obviously, she was capable of doing this..and things went wrong. get over yourselves..and hope that this child comes home safe and sound.

picksweet45

Reply by picksweet45 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

Are we to blame the parents if she went missing while jogging in the park? Obviously, she was capable of doing this..and things went wrong. get over yourselves..and hope that this child comes home safe and sound.

picksweet45

Reply by picksweet45 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

Are we to blame the parents if she went missing while jogging in the park? Obviously, she was capable of doing this..and things went wrong. get over yourselves..and hope that this child comes home safe and sound.

picksweet45

Reply by picksweet45 June 10, 2010 11:21am PDTReport Abuse

Are we to blame the parents if she went missing while jogging in the park? Obviously, she was capable of doing this..and things went wrong. get over yourselves..and hope that this child comes home safe and sound.

mag

Reply by mag June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

what a dipstick

amy m

Reply by amy m June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

and you two r asses!!!

amy m

Reply by amy m June 10, 2010 11:22am PDTReport Abuse

and you two r asses!!!

unodeauxdrei

Reply by unodeauxdrei June 10, 2010 11:27am PDTReport Abuse

So by your logic, if my 16 yr. old has aspirations of walking amongst Africa's lions, I should let her because afterall, it's her dreams, right? Efin moron! There's a reason why parents are held responsible for their child upto the age of 18....because they don't know squat and by placing them in harms way or allowing them to pursue something as dangerous as the sea/ocean that we've yet to conquer is the same as pouring vodka down their throat and playing Russina roulette. .I hope you don't have children

mahler2010

Reply by mahler2010 June 10, 2010 11:35am PDTReport Abuse

Your an idiot. If you dream to do something you lack the experience to do or is outright dangerous it is the parents responsibility to protect the child. I remember being 16 and thinking nothing could hurt me. Thank god my parents have the common sense to monitor me. And we did fun things like sailing, motocross and climbing.

mahler2010

Reply by mahler2010 June 10, 2010 11:35am PDTReport Abuse

Your an idiot. If you dream to do something you lack the experience to do or is outright dangerous it is the parents responsibility to protect the child. I remember being 16 and thinking nothing could hurt me. Thank god my parents have the common sense to monitor me. And we did fun things like sailing, motocross and climbing.

foscouni

Reply by foscouni June 10, 2010 11:38am PDTReport Abuse

kudos unodeauxdrei...can't agree more!

joshua lewis

Reply by joshua lewis June 10, 2010 11:47am PDTReport Abuse

Sorry to say this and no pun intended but I disagree, she is 16 and you say "following her dreams, I believe strong on my faith and I truly understand why the world is going to hell. Lets be honest let her follow her dreams but when she matures and comes of age to make those decisions or to think things through. For kudzaidotnet your right this isn't a joke not at all but please please please be understanding, they let their child go, they came to that final decision not the poor girl. For the guest who wrote this comment, if you had had or have a daughter and she had dreams of being a groopy, or stripper per say at the age of 16 or younger what you are saying is that you would allow it right for that is what alot of us are hearing. Please Ill give it this everyone be respectful for yes she is lost and she needs all the prayers she can get for they may not find this poor girl, but for all who act like people are being harsh or passing judgement on this page come to terms with yourself that most of it is just the truth. All I have left to say is that she has my prayers and I do hope she is found and makes it home alive.

littletravelsunshine

Reply by littletravelsunshine June 10, 2010 11:51am PDTReport Abuse

unodeauxdrei - your children will probably be the ones watching all the other kids make these awesome discoveries. I am a 19 year old sailor i started sailing when i was 12 i have gone to many places alone i do wish to travel alone around the world but I lack the money to do it.
this is a new generation and if people like you keep the ambitious children back. then we wont evolve into a better world. some kids will get bored and just never fulfill their dreams. In some cases that parents are over powering their own kids, those kids end up somethings drinking, doing drugs, or just doing things that are not good. I have seen it. Living in a small town you find out who lets their children out and trusts them to do the right thing. Knowing that my mother trusted me, it made me want to show her that I can be trusted and thats what I did. So back off the parents. this blog isnt even about parents!
Get home Safely Abby.
There are still people that care that you get home safe.

macboeve

Reply by macboeve June 10, 2010 12:01pm PDTReport Abuse

She was 16 years old and has been sailing for her whole life. Her parents would not allow her to go on this type of trip unless she had the experience to actually do it. Zac Sunderland just sailed around the world and made history and he was only 17. Why should kids have to settle for being 'normal' teenagers and not strive for greatness until they are old enough and 'mature' enough? Also whats the difference between her and someone like Shaun White? He obviously started doing dangerous tricks at a young age that could just as easily injury/kill him and no one gave his parents shit about it.

macboeve

Reply by macboeve June 10, 2010 12:01pm PDTReport Abuse

She was 16 years old and has been sailing for her whole life. Her parents would not allow her to go on this type of trip unless she had the experience to actually do it. Zac Sunderland just sailed around the world and made history and he was only 17. Why should kids have to settle for being 'normal' teenagers and not strive for greatness until they are old enough and 'mature' enough? Also whats the difference between her and someone like Shaun White? He obviously started doing dangerous tricks at a young age that could just as easily injury/kill him and no one gave his parents shit about it.

s_man73

Reply by s_man73 June 10, 2010 12:14pm PDTReport Abuse

I envy this young lady for following a dream!! I am 36 and been dreaming of selling everything and sailing the seas myself, but I have a family and a 13 year old daughter, but if she had the dedication and drive with the maturity I would allow my kid also. It's not bad parenting its recognizing an experience of a lifetime that will make her grow and appreciate life. Shame on all you selfish parents/people who are simple minded and are always the type of people who only know how to point your fingers at others for trying. You are the spineless sort who have never done nothing for others or yourselves but hide behind those mobs of negativity. To the parents of this young lady I am an Iraqi war veteran, State Police Officer, and a father you have my support of your decision to allow your children to grow and experience life in a positive way. I hope this story ends in a positive adventure so there are many more in her future.

guest

Reply by guest June 10, 2010 12:25pm PDTReport Abuse

l think that trying to do stuff like that alone is so stupid. Why would she risk her life to become famous, proud, or just to have fun? I'm sorry to say, but America doesn't had the tech to withstand 20ft. waves. I'm in disbelief that her parents would let her do that. I know she's ''Following her dreams'' but why let her risk her life? I'm not blaming the parents, but they need more power over her . I know teens are demanding and hard to control, but why?

joshua lewis

Reply by joshua lewis June 10, 2010 12:29pm PDTReport Abuse

May the Lord forgive you all whom do not understand that she is just a child and shouldnt have been by herself but screw the parents at this point no ones putting blame on them they have themselves to do just that, just pray she gets home.

joshua lewis

Reply by joshua lewis June 10, 2010 12:30pm PDTReport Abuse

May the Lord forgive you all whom do not understand that she is just a child and shouldnt have been by herself but screw the parents at this point no ones putting blame on them they have themselves to do just that, just pray she gets home.

lor123

Reply by lor123 June 10, 2010 12:49pm PDTReport Abuse

Her parents are responsible for their daughter. I am all for her following her dreams, but there needs to be some wisdom involved like taking an experienced adult with! I will be praying for a safe return.

tellinitlikeittiz

Reply by tellinitlikeittiz June 10, 2010 12:49pm PDTReport Abuse

May the Goddess forgive you judgmental assholes. 'Nuff said. Don't you hate it when you say something stupid, then post it twice? (You should. I'm embarrassed *for* you.)

lionsbowl

Reply by lionsbowl June 10, 2010 01:05pm PDTReport Abuse

picksweet if anything happens to this kid it the parents fault! You don't let your kid travel the world at 16! And for sure not by alittle boat in the ocean!

lionsbowl

Reply by lionsbowl June 10, 2010 01:05pm PDTReport Abuse

picksweet if anything happens to this kid it the parents fault! You don't let your kid travel the world at 16! And for sure not by alittle boat in the ocean!

guest

Posted by guest June 10, 2010 10:54am PDTReply | Report Abuse

very sad that people always try to blame the parents she is getting a chance to follow her dreams and heart so let her and hopefully she will be okay and finish her journey

angela moore

Reply by angela moore June 10, 2010 11:19am PDTReport Abuse

follow her dreams to Davey Jones Locker!!! How awesome is that...huh? Yeah...let kids do whatever they want...moron

rmo1955

Reply by rmo1955 June 10, 2010 11:27am PDTReport Abuse

this makes me ill. I just watched this past week about these young girls sailing around the world. Why would any parent in their right mind allow this too happen with all the possibilities out there. it really is disgusting. These kids can follow their dream when they are old enought to make the decision that an adult would make. I worry about my adult kids all the time and they are 25 and 35 so what the hell. I dont care how experienced this girl is at sailing the ocean is much more experienced then she or anyone could ever be. They may as well as dropped her off out in the middle of nowhere and said try to survive. the parents ARE at fault until that kid turns 18 period.

jessygarro

Reply by jessygarro June 10, 2010 11:32am PDTReport Abuse

SAILORS PREPARE FOR YEARS FOR A TRIP LIKE THIS, SHE'S 17 HOW MANY YEARS OF EXPERIENCE SHE HAS? 5? NOT ENOUGH TO TRAVEL THE WORLD ALONE!!!!!
SHAME ON PARENTS!!!

johnd451

Reply by johnd451 June 10, 2010 11:38am PDTReport Abuse

I would much rather have my daughter have the goal of sailing around the world than meeting Paris Hilton or some other ridiculous goal that most girls strive for these days. Working hard to achieve something very difficult rather than emulating celebutants, I would support that all day long. Are we going to start banning kids from surfing, skateboarding, waterskiing, etc. because they are dangerous?

chimom

Reply by chimom June 10, 2010 11:40am PDTReport Abuse

I agree with you 100% Well said and well understood! The ocean is no place for a child alone and this also makes me sick!! These parents are twisted and I just don't understand WHY this child was allowed to do this! God help her.

cynthia dutton princi

Reply by cynthia dutton princi June 10, 2010 11:40am PDTReport Abuse

Well put, Angela. The majority here and elsewhere comes to the same conclusion -- the parents are at fault. As a sixteen year old, no matter how prepared and skilled a sailor, Abby isn't in possession of a fully developed frontal lobe and therefore not able to make the best judgement calls. Her parents have to be idiots. There is no other explanation. And as the issue of idiots, poor Abby didn't have a chance in hell of surviving this.

ftpbtp72

Reply by ftpbtp72 June 10, 2010 11:42am PDTReport Abuse

Thats why they made a law that says a child isnt considered an adult till their 18 ! The parents are responsible till then!

The parents should be jailed period ...

paul mazzrillo

Reply by paul mazzrillo June 10, 2010 11:44am PDTReport Abuse

The kid is dead... deal with it.

rosebud1668

Reply by rosebud1668 June 10, 2010 11:48am PDTReport Abuse

I think, just off hand, and sitting here praying for Abby, that she is intellegent, bright, skilled, and knows what she is doing. Except, when being 100% alone -- some dont know, but that does something to you.

I applaud her and her family's bravery; however, in this case, i feel that the parents, being older, and wiser, would have proceeded on the side of caution and made her wait til she was at least a legal adult.

But all that is needless to say right? Things are going to turn out how fate has determined. I hope it is an outcome Abby and her family can live with. hugggggggggggggggggggssssssssssssssss

ta2byrd

Reply by ta2byrd June 10, 2010 11:49am PDTReport Abuse

So let's not let our children go to public school, college, concerts, drive a car, work, or even date for the pure sense that they are not ready by the age and only that......I mean she did not go into this as a stupid ass - it isn't like there was no training. I mean young adults do more and more activities that overwhelm us as adults because - well we never did this stuff. Times have changed - driving a car is more dangerous. Maybe you should worry about your kids contracting STD's, getting pregnant, doing drugs.....that is a bigger issue then a girl sailing the ocean. I understand the point but really.....
Who makes the standard of "when they are old enough" - maybe some people have children that still watch cartoons, play knock em' out crap on Wii, or even still cut classes to smoke pot - this girl isn't in that class of child...think about it - can you fricking sail a boat - I know I can't - so already she has "one uped" most of the population with skills. Give it a damn rest with all this crap - this isn't the time to point fingers - I mean how old are you mentally if that is what you are doing as an adult - age equivlant 12.

paul mazzrillo

Reply by paul mazzrillo June 10, 2010 11:58am PDTReport Abuse

the parents are morons... this kid is either dead or a prostitute in a 3rd world country by now... Pirates .... havent they heard of them? they are in the area where this stupid kid took off from... at least not far from it anyways... these people deserve what they get... its not about what the kid can do but what she can do sensibly .... first off... she is a girl, the number one product to a pirate from a 3rd world country for sale.. 16 year old girl..... they would take her and sell her for big bucks.. youd have to be an idiot to let your 16 year old kid do this kind of crap alone.. did she not even have a gun on board? im guessing NO .. cause shes not old enough to have one ... great idea morons... 2nd, the ocean is a dangerous place.. she is inexperienced sailor... the ocean will not care about her age or how little sailing exp she has... it will take her life like it would a sailor 30 years older... the ocean has no boundries for compassion to children on it.

reor

Reply by reor June 10, 2010 12:05pm PDTReport Abuse

How can you blame the parents, this girl wanted to accomplish something great. This was something that she apparently felt was important to HER life, she fully understood the consequences of her actions and she set out to do it. I feel her parents should be commended for allowing their daughter to live HER life. Look I hope she is ok just as I would hope that any person in the same situation would be ok. It is true our society is way over protective and most people are controlling freaks who think they know what's best. All I have to say is Great things are done by great people who take risks!

You people act like she is an infant, she prepared for this trip her brother completed it. Its not like she just jumped on a raft and set sail. She is probably a better sailor than most (legal) adults. Oh and about her being 17years old, if she was a boy we would give her a gun and tell her to go fight for her county in a year, she is obviously more mature and intelligent than most of you people posting on here.

Again, she is an amazing person in my book and I hope she tries again!

reor

Reply by reor June 10, 2010 12:05pm PDTReport Abuse

How can you blame the parents, this girl wanted to accomplish something great. This was something that she apparently felt was important to HER life, she fully understood the consequences of her actions and she set out to do it. I feel her parents should be commended for allowing their daughter to live HER life. Look I hope she is ok just as I would hope that any person in the same situation would be ok. It is true our society is way over protective and most people are controlling freaks who think they know what's best. All I have to say is Great things are done by great people who take risks!

You people act like she is an infant, she prepared for this trip her brother completed it. Its not like she just jumped on a raft and set sail. She is probably a better sailor than most (legal) adults. Oh and about her being 17years old, if she was a boy we would give her a gun and tell her to go fight for her county in a year, she is obviously more mature and intelligent than most of you people posting on here.

Again, she is an amazing person in my book and I hope she tries again!

mandy 7

Reply by mandy 7 June 10, 2010 12:13pm PDTReport Abuse

Thank you Paul! Can u please repeat your common sense to the rest of these people?.

brevellac

Reply by brevellac June 10, 2010 12:26pm PDTReport Abuse

The comment from reor pretty much sums up my thoughts and feelings as well - I am a mother of 5 wonderful children and my heart goes out to all!

eveadam

Reply by eveadam June 10, 2010 12:28pm PDTReport Abuse

i have feeling that the parents dont really care about their kids..i think they are partying out there somewhere right now oblivious of the situation..i mean they have already proven this by letting the boy go first and then the reaching the height of stupidity by letting the girl go on her own sailing..why do people have kids when they dont want to protect them to their best ability..the girl is the victim here..she would be still be alive if she was born to other parents.

thekidsta

Reply by thekidsta June 10, 2010 12:35pm PDTReport Abuse

I nominate "reor" as this Blogs..VILLAGE IDIOT!!!!!......MORON!!!

jennifer conklin

Reply by jennifer conklin June 10, 2010 12:39pm PDTReport Abuse

I think you are all being unfair. Maybe the parents shouldn't have let her go it alone, but the fact is she is missing. Everyone needs to be praying for her safety not beating the parents up; I'm sure they are doing enough of that on their own.

guest

Reply by guest June 10, 2010 12:39pm PDTReport Abuse

To those who say "she's trying to accomplish something great", etc, I can deal with that. Cool, if you dream it, you can do it. However, its her dream, not everyone else's, so the costs and the risks are hers, and hers alone. It's not unreasonable to expect her or her legal guardians to be expected to cover the costs. Alot of these posts are advocating utter narcissism, but with a safety net. Really? Exactly how brave are you pursuing these great things when you expect, err demand that society bail you out when it goes bad? I hope the kid is ok, but her parents should pay for every single dollar spent to save her.

lindsay shappell

Reply by lindsay shappell June 10, 2010 12:40pm PDTReport Abuse

eveadam... You are the idiot.. Do you think you are of a higher power? So someone gave you the right to judge? Take a look at your own life... Fix that before you tell others to fix theirs. these parents aren't out partying. You jackass.. Who the hell do you think you are??!?!?

WHo the hell do any of you think you are???

lindsay shappell

Reply by lindsay shappell June 10, 2010 12:40pm PDTReport Abuse

eveadam... You are the idiot.. Do you think you are of a higher power? So someone gave you the right to judge? Take a look at your own life... Fix that before you tell others to fix theirs. these parents aren't out partying. You jackass.. Who the hell do you think you are??!?!?

WHo the hell do any of you think you are???

shawn turner001

Reply by shawn turner001 June 10, 2010 12:40pm PDTReport Abuse

White America has gone to such great lengths to gain fame and fortune. There will be a movie deal and a book deal from this mess. Reminds me of the balloon family, but she will probably get a Yellow Corvette when she gets home. Only in America -

vficarrotta

Reply by vficarrotta June 10, 2010 12:43pm PDTReport Abuse

You're the idiot. reor understand this girls actions completely. I don't understand how you've managed to survive this long with such limited intellectual capacity.

vficarrotta

Reply by vficarrotta June 10, 2010 12:43pm PDTReport Abuse

You're the idiot. reor understand this girls actions completely. I don't understand how you've managed to survive this long with such limited intellectual capacity.

tellinitlikeittiz

Reply by tellinitlikeittiz June 10, 2010 12:43pm PDTReport Abuse

..and that's why you will remain a "kidsta", LOL! Now go change your pull-ups and be a big kid now.

tellinitlikeittiz

Reply by tellinitlikeittiz June 10, 2010 12:44pm PDTReport Abuse

..and that's why you will remain a "kidsta", LOL! Now go change your pull-ups and be a big kid now.

tonyf

Reply by tonyf June 10, 2010 12:47pm PDTReport Abuse

your all stupid for sharing your stupid opinions whats the different between sixteen and eighteen better doing something she loves at sixteen then sent to the war at eighteen to die... your bunch of couch potatos and your kids are stupid psp junkie you all keep you idiots safe in the house dont let them drive till there 40 because there the ones causing all the trouble on the roads..hahah... hurray to the parrents who can see beyond the stupid box( tv )...

dojadave

Reply by dojadave June 10, 2010 01:01pm PDTReport Abuse

Arrrrrrrrrrr! She now belongs to Davey's Locker!

dojadave

Reply by dojadave June 10, 2010 01:01pm PDTReport Abuse

Arrrrrrrrrrr! She now belongs to Davey's Locker!

ibcstx

Reply by ibcstx June 10, 2010 01:04pm PDTReport Abuse

I'm sure anyone reading this story is praying for Abby's safe return. As a parent and a sailor, no, I would not let my child undertaketake such a risky adventure, especially alone. My husband and crew of 3 just sailed our 38' sailboat from Galveston, TX to our home in St. Croix, USVI, and had some unpleasant adventures. Leave her poor parents alone. It was the family's joint decision, and they have to live with it. We can't imagine the fear they are enduring at this time. Fair winds and following seas, dear Abby.

saran

Reply by saran June 10, 2010 01:08pm PDTReport Abuse

why on gods green earth would you let your 16 year old daughter sail the world alone. ALONE? really? I hope she is ok...but really. The parents deserve to be punished! Child neglect!

john rutchland

Reply by john rutchland June 10, 2010 01:33pm PDTReport Abuse

Emergency rescue effort is launched for teen sailor Abby Sunderland
"Abby is such a brave and beautiful child. Whether or not this voyage was prudent is not the question to ask at the moment, (Maybe later). The important thing now is hopefully finding her and saving her precious little life. Anyone who writes disparaging comments at this moment should be ashamed of their lack of compassion! God bless and save this child!"

jjss8001

Reply by jjss8001 June 10, 2010 01:49pm PDTReport Abuse

oh please..people post here to discuss the topic at hand...if 16 year olds can sail around the worl, then the world can express their opinion...everyone wants her to be found ok of course!

good4god

Reply by good4god June 10, 2010 02:08pm PDTReport Abuse

Prayers are in order instead of criticism. Bless her safe return and bless her family and friends. Some people just want to be ugly too. Read the responses..... opinions laced in blame and anger versus concern. She's a wonderful example to young people. What a strong and independent lady!

ironman58

Reply by ironman58 June 10, 2010 02:15pm PDTReport Abuse

Lets just hope that she is safe and god is with her.

ljis5472

Reply by ljis5472 June 10, 2010 02:59pm PDTReport Abuse

Pray now - point fingers later.

robert macala

Reply by robert macala June 10, 2010 03:12pm PDTReport Abuse

REminds me of the little girl who was trying to fly the plane across America, a few years back. She died in a condition that was way beyond her control. The parents of the little sailor should have gone into therapy, they are suffering some kind of deep psychological insecurity, trying to overcompensate for something deep wound in their psyche where they push their children into conditions which will some how elevate parent's low self esteem. We must remember that children are molded and formed by the parents behavior and ideas. Kids really don't come up with these ideas alone. If they do, they should be properly advised. It's obvious that these parents were not fully in control of their impulses and hidden psychological needs. There were sure a lot of other alternative challenges that you young sailor could have experienced before this one. What a great idea...sail around the world alone...wonderful....And of course, now, she and her parents are putting a lot of rescuers in danger looking for her...wonderful...And now we sentimentalize the whole affair, missing the entire point...What a plucky, feisty kid...Duh...

stacy grensberg

Reply by stacy grensberg June 10, 2010 03:12pm PDTReport Abuse

It just makes me so sad that people are focusing on blaming her parents parenting decisions, and just writing her off as being "done for". How awful of you all. I am focusing on nothing but praying for her safe return. And for those of you who say that this is what happens, and her parents shouldn't be upset about it because they allowed it, I say to you that I hope you NEVER have to go through what these parents are going through. Perhaps you won't let your children go into the sea alone, but what happens when they go off to a party with friends, or just walk up the street, and then someone takes them and you can't find them? That would be your fault right?! Prayers be with this girl, please let her be found safe and returned to her family!

scott walker

Reply by scott walker June 10, 2010 03:14pm PDTReport Abuse

I think placing blame at this point is useless, Instead hope and pray for Abbey's safety. We are all human and we make mistakes, sometimes bad ones. Instead of putting all of this hate out there, how about some compassion for Abbey's family and for Abbey. I hope none of you naysayers are ever put into some type of situation in which your child is in dire needs, and if so I hope people don't react to you the way your reacting to Abbey and her family. My thoughts and prayers are with you now . GOOD LUCK!

nescel tacky

Reply by nescel tacky June 10, 2010 03:15pm PDTReport Abuse

There's no point praying. If she's found alive, then its all pure luck for her. If she dies, the ones who will suffer most are her parents who allowed her to take that journey when she's below 18. Best of luck to her. Best of luck to parents who let her go. Anyway, regrets and blames happen afterwards.

nescel tacky

Reply by nescel tacky June 10, 2010 03:20pm PDTReport Abuse

Also, what happened to her is "someone elses" business because her dream lead people to initiate a rescue of her. So do not say that we dun have the right to butt in in their familial affairs. This is a matter of life and death situation and many people are desperate to look for her.

charlotte hall

Reply by charlotte hall June 10, 2010 03:33pm PDTReport Abuse

who cares how old she is.......just becuase she is 16 doesnt mean she cant do things without her parents!! she just needs their permission!! if that is how she wants to live her life then shut up!! its not your life or your child!!! we are way too careful with our kids these days anyway. live and learn

seth lande

Reply by seth lande June 10, 2010 03:39pm PDTReport Abuse

Haven't you guys ever had dreams? WTF is wrong with you? No one is to blame for this, it's an accident. She is a HIGHLY competent, and VERY experienced sailor. She knew what she was getting herself into, and so did her family. It was her choice. Should we shun Jordan Romero also? The 13 year old who only recently achieved an AMAZING feat of climbing Everest? He has been climbing almost his whole life and went with his father, who has also been climbing almost his whole life. These are dreams coming true. Without dreams, can we even call ourselves human? You're all pathetic. Have a dream and go after it. Just because you don't understand how a person her age could aspire to something so amazing as to circumnavigate the world, doesn't mean you have any right to criticize it.

seth lande

Reply by seth lande June 10, 2010 03:39pm PDTReport Abuse

Haven't you guys ever had dreams? WTF is wrong with you? No one is to blame for this, it's an accident. She is a HIGHLY competent, and VERY experienced sailor. She knew what she was getting herself into, and so did her family. It was her choice. Should we shun Jordan Romero also? The 13 year old who only recently achieved an AMAZING feat of climbing Everest? He has been climbing almost his whole life and went with his father, who has also been climbing almost his whole life. These are dreams coming true. Without dreams, can we even call ourselves human? You're all pathetic. Have a dream and go after it. Just because you don't understand how a person her age could aspire to something so amazing as to circumnavigate the world, doesn't mean you have any right to criticize it.

bmh

Reply by bmh June 10, 2010 03:40pm PDTReport Abuse

Are you looking for her nescel tacky? Did it have an effect on you personally? It's not our place to judge.

I hate this has happened to this girl, but at what age would it be appropriate? Just because someone turns 18 instead of 16? Or is 17 the magic number? Or maybe 20? I have seen many 16 year old's that are more intelligent and mature than many 40 year old's. It is obvious this girl is not your average 16 year old. There was a time in this Country that 16 year old's were considered adults. There are still many countries that feel 16 year old's are adults. Just because a piece of paper says that you have control over another human being until they are 18 doesn't make it right. If it was her dream and she was experienced, it could have happened to anyone of any age that decided to do this.

lynnm

Reply by lynnm June 10, 2010 03:41pm PDTReport Abuse

I agree...it's her life..people made the comment her parents are to blame....did you ever try to stop a teen from doing something they really wanted to do?and to the person who said she's inexperienced....how do we know that? she could have been sailing since she was 3yr old....or even before she was born......let's pray for her safety and her life please.......she was doing what she wanted to do....was it more acceptable her brother did it because he's male? and the Australian teen also did this feat of courage.......stop blaming the parents......

mommy2809

Reply by mommy2809 June 10, 2010 03:44pm PDTReport Abuse

I don't care how well "trained" she is in sailing or how long she's been doing it. This was ignorant! If I were extremely well trained to swim with sharks and killer whales and had been doing it practically my whole life...I wouldn't go out in the ocean and swim with them just because I know how to! LOL This was stupid and for whoever that has done it before all alone and whatever age...bravo! But it's still stupid! The fact that she attempted the journey and is now lost at sea and we don't know if she's dead or alive has gotten her more attention than she probably would have gotten had she made it all the way! Was it worth it???? Definitely NOT in my opinion! My prayers are with her and her family and I certainly hope they find her and she makes it home safe!

tina marie looman

Reply by tina marie looman June 10, 2010 03:50pm PDTReport Abuse

Liberalism, isn't it a great thing! When God gives you the gift of a child, you are expected to do your best to keep them safe so that they can grow up to be confident, productive adults. This child, and at 16 she is, had a great wish. However, her parents are responsible for her until she is an adult. This trip potentially put her in harms way from the beginning and they still allowed her to do it. She could have waited until she was old enough, as could her brother. Her parents made a bad call here. There are other ways to become well-known or "famous" that don't involve risking someone's life. I pray that God spares her. Also, I would like to comment on one person's opinion earlier. There are boys who wear skirts, and girls who wish to be army rangers because their parents and families have liberalistic views instead of those which conscience and common sense tell you are right and this is how their children have turned out. Society has grown weak in the face of God and someday we will have to pay for our mistakes, myself absolutely included. Now others have to risk their lives to look for this child. It's okay to follow your dreams but there is always an appropriate time and this time was not good for her. And yes if anyone would like to know I have three boys 20,9,and 5. They've all shot guns, been in fist fights, and have played contact sports. It is most definately okay for them to cry if they need to. They're human......

jane simmons marolda

Reply by jane simmons marolda June 10, 2010 03:52pm PDTReport Abuse

Good luck Abby......Congrats to her parents for letting her follow her dream. More people, many more people should follow their dreams, no matter what the cost. She has lived the life she wanted to live. That is all you can ask of anyone - and all you can want for them. Her parents are the heroes for letting her do what is is she wanted, all the while knowing they could lose her. They are her hero, just as she is theirs.
Jane Marolda, mother of a hero

george ireland

Reply by george ireland June 10, 2010 03:53pm PDTReport Abuse

I have been a sailor for 35 years and have been in 85 foot waves and survived .I was also the Captain of the schooner America. i think that her parents should be applauded for letting her go. i would prefer to die doing something that I have a passion for than sitting home and listening to rap music.She was listening to her heart and the waves filled her dreams. She is so lucky to have the parents that she has.I would love to meet them. They are a credit to this country and its foundersLife is an adventure and one must follow her bliss and she did.

instantwhitewash

Reply by instantwhitewash June 10, 2010 04:26pm PDTReport Abuse

George ireland is entirely right. As a sailor myself, I know what its like. People may critisize this girl and her family for what is occurring, but they truly don't understand the call of the ocean. She's doing exactly what she should be. Living her life to the fullest. And as far as her parents, no one has any right to critisize their actions. What they did was right. They gave her the chance to follow her dreams. And if anyone feels the need to make comment about endangering the rescuers, as someone who wishes to eventually join the Coast Guard, I can say I would have no problem putting my life on the line to save hers. God bless, Abby!

instantwhitewash

Reply by instantwhitewash June 10, 2010 04:26pm PDTReport Abuse

George ireland is entirely right. As a sailor myself, I know what its like. People may critisize this girl and her family for what is occurring, but they truly don't understand the call of the ocean. She's doing exactly what she should be. Living her life to the fullest. And as far as her parents, no one has any right to critisize their actions. What they did was right. They gave her the chance to follow her dreams. And if anyone feels the need to make comment about endangering the rescuers, as someone who wishes to eventually join the Coast Guard, I can say I would have no problem putting my life on the line to save hers. God bless, Abby!

instantwhitewash

Reply by instantwhitewash June 10, 2010 04:26pm PDTReport Abuse

George ireland is entirely right. As a sailor myself, I know what its like. People may critisize this girl and her family for what is occurring, but they truly don't understand the call of the ocean. She's doing exactly what she should be. Living her life to the fullest. And as far as her parents, no one has any right to critisize their actions. What they did was right. They gave her the chance to follow her dreams. And if anyone feels the need to make comment about endangering the rescuers, as someone who wishes to eventually join the Coast Guard, I can say I would have no problem putting my life on the line to save hers. God bless, Abby!

allison garda

Reply by allison garda June 10, 2010 04:53pm PDTReport Abuse

It's completely unnecessary to make the assumption that if this 16 year old girl didn't do this dangerous trip in search of glory and fame (you can't deny that, its the whole point of holding world records) that she would be doing drugs, playing xbox, getting pregnant, listening to rap music, etc. When I was 16 years old, I was a great student, working hard to get academic and athletic scholarships to go to college - not getting wasted or playing video games. I religiously ran 15 miles a day but never once had to put my life in danger to "do my sport" as some people are claiming is the reason this girl attempted this trip. I watched movies or baked cookies with my friends, read books, spent time with my family and younger brothers, which are all some of the things teenagers of this generation often do, as only a small percentage of us are addicts, delinquents, or teenage mothers. As a 20 year old college student applying to medical school, I've learned that the decisions I wanted to make as a 16 year old could have changed my life forever and had it not been for my parents imparting their years of wisdom on me I wouldn't be where I am today. Parents should be valued by children for their experience, expertise, wisdom, etc. There's a line between allowing kids to follow their dreams and being a good parent.

And for the people judging the kids that don't pull crazy stunts like this, who are you to say that kids sitting at home doing [whatever activity you're criticizing] isn't their passion, relaxation technique from stress, etc. You have no more right to judge than the posters you are criticizing for judging have. Sheesh, you call yourselves adults...

johnlundgreen

Reply by johnlundgreen June 10, 2010 05:46pm PDTReport Abuse

I would hate to think of where we would be if all we had to do was wake up and blame other people for taking the necessary steps to create a country where we can all be free. The whiners and piss and mourners wouldn't have a world. To be young and free is all is all any of us wanted. I couldn't blame her parents for letting her express herself. It's her life and her parents. We love her and hopefully with all our hearts together we can give her the strength she needs. Now is the time to pray not piss and moan about something that's none of your business.I went into the Marines in 73 it was my buisness at 17 my parents loved me they didnt like people who whined and complained and I don't either.I hope and pray that Abby is safe and free of harm R/S John L

ayellowballoon

Reply by ayellowballoon June 11, 2010 09:35am PDTReport Abuse

Amen to that johnlundgreen! God Bless Abby and her family.

calvin choo

Reply by calvin choo June 14, 2010 07:37pm PDTReport Abuse

Good luck Abby...... pls stop pointing fingers. everybody has the right to do something brave. Let hope she is fine.

guest

Posted by guest June 10, 2010 10:54am PDTReply | Report Abuse

very sad that people always try to blame the parents she is getting a chance to follow her dreams and heart so let her and hopefully she will be okay and finish her journey

guest

Posted by guest June 10, 2010 10:54am PDTReply | Report Abuse

very sad that people always try to blame the parents she is getting a chance to follow her dreams and heart so let her and hopefully she will be okay and finish her journey

okqpunt

Reply by okqpunt June 10, 2010 11:09am PDTReport Abuse

I think that the young boy who just climbed Mt. Everest had COMPANY ! Not alone.

okqpunt

Reply by okqpunt June 10, 2010 11:09am PDTReport Abuse

I think that the young boy who just climbed Mt. Everest had COMPANY ! Not alone.

angelab88

Reply by angelab88 June 10, 2010 12:10pm PDTReport Abuse

Abby, may you come home safely.
Ultimately, there is nothing to forgive, because there is nothing to judge and no one to blame.

yugar62

Reply by yugar62 June 10, 2010 12:51pm PDTReport Abuse

AMEN angelab88!!!!! My thoughts exactly!!! I pray for Abby's safe return home.

bigmak

Reply by bigmak June 10, 2010 01:04pm PDTReport Abuse

This just happens to be an example of what happens when you do something that most other people could only dream about, it takes lots of guts to get the glory of accomplishment.

Freedom = the chance to Go For It!!!

Her parents were not wrong for letting her try a great/difficult task, the scared people need to rethink what life's about, yes you can live like an Ostrich with your head in the ground or you can live like an Eagle soaring to new heights!!!

Hopefully she survives but if not at least she died trying to reach her greatest accomplishment!!! Most people die without accomplishing very much at all...

tumor33

Reply by tumor33 June 10, 2010 01:06pm PDTReport Abuse

What if her dream was to be in a porn should her parents let her sleep with someone and be put on tv cause that is what a 16 yr old wanted to do I don't think so it is her parents fault. I hope she comes home safely but it is the parents fault for putting her somewhere she can't get help. If something does happen to her it will be her parents fault not hers

adewunmi agbato

Reply by adewunmi agbato June 10, 2010 01:07pm PDTReport Abuse

There are more to judge. What is she trying to prove. A genus? No! The parents are the greatest fools on earth. Who know, may be she was adopted. Abby...God will be with you wherever you are.

lionsbowl

Reply by lionsbowl June 10, 2010 01:07pm PDTReport Abuse

Oh no doubt the parents are to blame if anything bad happens to this kid! You don't let your child travel the world alone! I hope she is ok.

jessica mariah gruelle

Reply by jessica mariah gruelle June 10, 2010 01:15pm PDTReport Abuse

Uhm WTF?

aligirl

Reply by aligirl June 10, 2010 01:18pm PDTReport Abuse

Her parents are absolute idiots! To let a child sail across the WORLD alone! Are you kidding me? Even when I seen the news about the other girl that made it back to austrailia fine I was thinking "how could her parents let her do that?" This is 100% their fault if anything has happened to this poor girl. Teenagers make stupid decisions and thats why they have parents to guide them. No matter how you look at it the fact remains she is a minor and they shouldn't have let her go. I pray she is ok but her parents should be charged with neglect.

nancy66

Reply by nancy66 June 10, 2010 01:32pm PDTReport Abuse

My thoughts and prayers are with Abby and her family. At 16, to show such courage to reach such an achievement. I wonder how many parents/posters on this blog have 16 year old children? What do you say when they want to get a driver's permit or license and then let them take a car out on the road with just a minimal amount of experience behind the wheel? I am sure Abby has had many years of sailing and navigating experience. Much more than a 16, 17 or 18 year old who gets behind the wheel of a car and gets into a tragic accident. Would you blame the parents if there was no alcohol or drugs involved, just poor judgement in a car accident? This is an exceptional event and one that no one should be so low as to point fingers at the parents,

musicislife

Reply by musicislife June 10, 2010 01:50pm PDTReport Abuse

I think most of you people are missing the point....everyone is pointing so many fingers at so many people and playing this ridiculous blame game when all of our energies should be focused more on praying that this 16 year old girl is brought home safe! instead of pointing your fingers at parents being "dumb" or this girl being "too young" lets fold our fingers together in prayer that she will be alright and in the future better decisions will be made!

To abbey and her parents, I and my family are all praying for you and will light a candle for abbey's safe return! God Bless you and keep you and bring you the peace you so desperately need!

So everyone please stop the senseless bickering and blaming and just start to pray...or if not pray then just your good thoughts are enough!

For anyone else who is a parent...u ought to be ashamed...would you want people saying these terrible things of you if the same thing happened? or would you want constructive positivity? I'm just saying that when push comes to shove people are more apt to blame than to be encouraging to their fellow man in times of desperate need...

and to Stinger.....i will pray for you as well...God still loves a lost soul....even one so black as yours...

david wizard

Reply by david wizard June 10, 2010 01:59pm PDTReport Abuse

Compassion Exercise
By Harry Palmer
Honesty with one's self leads to compassion for others
OBJECTIVE: To increase the amount of compassion in the world.
EXPECTED RESULTS: A personal sense of peace.

INSTRUCTIONS: This exercise can be done anywhere that people congregate (airports, malls, parks, beaches, etc.). It should be done on strangers, unobtrusively, from some distance. Try to do all five steps on the same person.

Step 1 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person is seeking some happiness for his/her life."

Step 2 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person trying to avoid suffering in his/her life."

Step 3 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person has known sadness, loneliness and despair."

Step 4 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person is seeking to fulfill his/her life."

Step 5 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person is learning about life."

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david wizard

Reply by david wizard June 10, 2010 01:59pm PDTReport Abuse

Compassion Exercise
By Harry Palmer
Honesty with one's self leads to compassion for others
OBJECTIVE: To increase the amount of compassion in the world.
EXPECTED RESULTS: A personal sense of peace.

INSTRUCTIONS: This exercise can be done anywhere that people congregate (airports, malls, parks, beaches, etc.). It should be done on strangers, unobtrusively, from some distance. Try to do all five steps on the same person.

Step 1 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person is seeking some happiness for his/her life."

Step 2 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person trying to avoid suffering in his/her life."

Step 3 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person has known sadness, loneliness and despair."

Step 4 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person is seeking to fulfill his/her life."

Step 5 With attention on the person, repeat to yourself:
"Just like me, this person is learning about life."

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dave lipton

Reply by dave lipton June 10, 2010 02:12pm PDTReport Abuse

I think Stinger's parents failed with him. What a poor excuse for a human being. As for Abby Her parents did use poor judgment but what is important is that Abby is found alive and safe. I send my best wishes to her family for a hopeful speedy recovery and a lesson learned.

tygereyes812

Reply by tygereyes812 June 10, 2010 02:38pm PDTReport Abuse

Funny how people are damning her parents... People were praising the other set of parents whose daughter did the same thing successfully a few months ago.... saying they were wonderful parents to allow their daughter the training needed and for being so supportive.... Whats important that this girl is found alive and safe.... don't you think her folks are suffering enough w/o all the bad-mouthing? Some parents choose to let their children blossom rather then shelter them not only from the evils of the world but from everything else too. Obviously with the SAT phone the were keeping close tabs on her. She outfitted with the ICOE beacons... I say shame on all of you for pretending like you know whats best for other peoples children. My prayers go out for her and her family in hopes she is found safe and brought home to the family that loves her.

tammythach2002

Reply by tammythach2002 June 10, 2010 03:44pm PDTReport Abuse

How can it be funny for those idiots, stupid parents just want to fullfill their kids WANTS not need, and now hundred of people hav eto go out there and the cost would raise up to millions of dollars who is going to pay of cost the TAX PAYER. How STUPID is it for you to write those depensed sentence for her and her parents it's so obvious that this is the case of spoiled kids ever how normal it's just because of 1 family want to be famous and make money on the entertainment industry so hundred of rescurer have to look for ONLY 1 kid how normal is that? American is getting stupider and stupidest everyday all they care now is frame, no moral because in their brain is just sex, drug , and fast food and famous for doing same up normal thing. I don't pretend that I know best for my kid but 1 thing I know is don't but your burden on other shoulder like most people do, American always think that they deserve this & that but do you guy really do. All of you just eat , drink and sex that what you teach your kids no wonder there are so many obesity kids in this country. About bad- mouthing we should because this people deserve it.

zulema allen

Reply by zulema allen October 14, 2010 08:27am PDTReport Abuse

It was a need. They tried to stop her before and she got depressed and started cutting herself. She was very determined and focus. Would u rather see ur child in that state than fulfilling her dreams?

zulema allen

Reply by zulema allen October 14, 2010 08:27am PDTReport Abuse

It was a need. They tried to stop her before and she got depressed and started cutting herself. She was very determined and focus. Would u rather see ur child in that state than fulfilling her dreams?

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