Friday, June 11, 2010 12:02am PDT

Abby Sunderland is alive and apparently safe aboard her damaged sailboat

By: Pete Thomas, GrindTV.com

Abby Sunderland, 16, is alive and apparently well, floundering in rough seas in the Indian Ocean without a mast, but safely aboard her 40-foot boat and awaiting the arrival of rescue ships.

An Australian plane with 11 trained observers found Sunderland, who on Thursday had activated two emergency distress beacons signaling an international rescue attempt, not long after daybreak Friday. Its crew made contact with her on a marine radio channel.

The mariner from Thousand Oaks, Calif., who had been attempting to become the youngest person to have sailed around the world alone, lost her mast and rigging after her vessel apparently rolled in heaving seas. Her position is extremely remote, more than 2,000 miles from Australia and Africa.

"I was envisioning all sorts of nightmare situations," Marianne Sunderland, Abby's mom, said when reached via phone at her family's home in Thousand Oaks, Calif.

Marianne and Laurence Sunderland, and six other children, had remained in their home, refusing to talk to reporters, until they learned the fate of their daughter.

Marianne did not talk to Abby but Abby told the airplane crew she "was fine" and not badly hurt.

A rescue has not been made, however. The nearest ship bound for her position is about 30 hours away, but fierce winds and seas that had been upwards of 40 feet are abating. Australian, American and French search-and-rescue authorities are cooperating in the rescue attempt.

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ronald mckenzie

Posted by ronald mckenzie June 11, 2010 12:24am PDTReply | Report Abuse

What great news for such a fantastic young woman!! She is likely to do many great things in her life.

ronald mckenzie

Reply by ronald mckenzie June 11, 2010 12:28am PDTReport Abuse

take a moment read over her blog for the days leading up to this and you will see what a resourceful and brave person Abby is. She has more grit than I've ever had in my whole long life.
Her blog: soloround.blogspot.com/

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:30am PDTReport Abuse

She's a fool....one of the dumbest things she could have done. It doesn't matter what her blog says....she should never have done this stunt.

melkor

Reply by melkor June 11, 2010 12:33am PDTReport Abuse

since when did sailing become a stunt?
it's not like she was sailing around the world on a floaty or anything...

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:34am PDTReport Abuse

@melkor - hmm.....sailing around the world BY YOURSELF....umm....that sounds like a stunt to me....certainly not smart.

a voice

Reply by a voice June 11, 2010 12:37am PDTReport Abuse

Ok what were YOU doing at 16?

myownmortality

Reply by myownmortality June 11, 2010 12:42am PDTReport Abuse

Some of you have no sense of adventure. My goodness, live a little while you are around to do so. It's really that simple.

melkor

Reply by melkor June 11, 2010 12:42am PDTReport Abuse

ok so if there was a sail crew of let's say 30, and something major was damaged on the ship, that would matter how?
what would they do? give moral support?
although i guess if radios failed then there would always be food...

ces5210

Reply by ces5210 June 11, 2010 12:44am PDTReport Abuse

It's ignorant to judge the decisions of someone you've never met. What's important to her may not be to you, but that's the way it is. Don't be a judger, @JohnnyVegas. Nobody likes an ass hole. I'm sure your drinking, smoking, and alleged fucking chicks got you really far in life as opposed to a 16 year old who has the guts to take a risk for something that means a lot to her.

emaries

Reply by emaries June 11, 2010 12:47am PDTReport Abuse

you're right, it would be much better if she popped out 2 illegitimate children and collected welfare b/c Lord knows THAT is so much more acceptable nowadays!! People need to be less judgmental. It sounds like she is a very smart and mature girl for her age and she should be proud of herself.

a voice

Reply by a voice June 11, 2010 12:47am PDTReport Abuse

I wasn't brave enough to do what she did. I doubt she was playing with herself as you so eloquently put it but, by your defensive retort... you are still probably doing the same things.

emaries

Reply by emaries June 11, 2010 12:50am PDTReport Abuse

ces5210, well said!

ces5210

Reply by ces5210 June 11, 2010 12:53am PDTReport Abuse

lets get johnny vegas off this site. hes just a menace.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:53am PDTReport Abuse

@emaries - you call stupid stunts bravery? Would you say base jumping from a building is brave? how about f*cking without a condom? is that brave? huh??? idiots.....

get on a boat and do it.....please.....help us.

emaries

Reply by emaries June 11, 2010 12:56am PDTReport Abuse

johhny vegas I would HATE to have to point out your fallacy, but I will. I never said bravery once.....

emaries

Reply by emaries June 11, 2010 12:57am PDTReport Abuse

Im pretty sure johhny vegas is lying. Nobody can sound that stupid and be successful...unless he is a politician.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:05am PDTReport Abuse

@emaries - I think you're the politician....only a politician would be so stupid to let their family do something so stupid.

a voice

Reply by a voice June 11, 2010 01:11am PDTReport Abuse

I am going to report Johny Vegas, the site will be checked and a determination will be made

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:13am PDTReport Abuse

@amanda grace - I'm not exactly sure what you were saying there at the end, but you made some sense in part of your comment.....

critterrice

Reply by critterrice June 11, 2010 01:19am PDTReport Abuse

ce5210, just because you are a girl doesn't mean you can't be into chicks. Let's not get homophobic here.

fish bowl

Reply by fish bowl June 11, 2010 01:25am PDTReport Abuse

Too much money and not enough brains.

nevercomingback

Reply by nevercomingback June 11, 2010 01:29am PDTReport Abuse

Johnny Vegas or whatever your name is, your stupid is showing. Stop.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:31am PDTReport Abuse

@nevercomingback - thank you, ready to get on your sailboat? hmm? k.....:)

manilaman

Reply by manilaman June 11, 2010 01:58am PDTReport Abuse

Johnny Vegas, letting a 16-year old kid drive a car is more dangerous than letting another TRAINED 16-year old sailing around the world, yet parents let their 16 year olds drive cars everyday. How come you don't consider THAT a stunt, eh?

tony lee

Reply by tony lee June 11, 2010 01:59am PDTReport Abuse

hey johnny - you have too much time on your hands... maybe a solo sailing adventure around the world would soak up some of that boredom... just a thought, not a judgment. please consider.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:00am PDTReport Abuse

@tony lee - only if you come along....cool?

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 02:00am PDTReport Abuse

@tony

It is much safer to make judgments and achieve nothing from where johnny is right now, though.

kaykayscvb2

Reply by kaykayscvb2 June 11, 2010 02:03am PDTReport Abuse

Are you Vegas ready to go ? Most people worth mentioning in history got there because they took a chance whether it was life or death and I guarantee most of the people in there time told them they were stupid too but guess what we remember their names don't we!!!

ptracy

Reply by ptracy June 11, 2010 02:05am PDTReport Abuse

Nobody would be criticizing her if nothing went wrong, they'd be giving her props. So what if shit went wrong, she stepped up to the plate and took a risk. It's easy to talk about about how foolish she is when you're feeling threatened by a 16 year old accomplishing more than you'd ever have the guts to do even if you are an accomplished "politician". Be happy for her and take a risk yourself, Jesus.

kaykayscvb2

Reply by kaykayscvb2 June 11, 2010 02:06am PDTReport Abuse

Well said Ptracy!!! Go her either way !!! She did more than most her age, hell did more than most of us on here!!!

ajean

Reply by ajean June 11, 2010 02:08am PDTReport Abuse

I think the parents are to be commended. They are supporting their daughter's dreams and wishes. If no one else has noticed or read...another 16 yr. old did the same thing and FINISHED a few days before they turned 17. Yes, it is dangerous, possible I little stupid. I wouldn't do it...because I don't have the guts, will-power or drive to accomplish something like that. Just imagine what she will do with her life knowing she could do something so profound at just 16? I hope she gets all fixed up and continues. Not enough people out there LIVING their lives instead of letting their lives live them. I would rather let my daughter do something like this then have her get pregnant and drop out of high school which is what a lot of teenagers are doing these days. I say...GO HER!

james dowden

Reply by james dowden June 11, 2010 02:08am PDTReport Abuse

Well i think it is good that the rescue teams located her. Whether or not her decision to sail alone was a smart one, she still had the will to follow her dreams. I'm sure most of you at 16 were lazy kids who sat behind a TV or Computer screen all day and ate junk food or hung out with the wrong crowd. By the time I was 16, I had already been to multiple countries, and got to experience many fun and exciting things that most of y'all only see on TV. Some folks are more Proactive with their time and do the things they had dreamed of. Dangerous as her decision was, it's no dangerous as people having children at the age of 15, or kids who start drinking and smoking at 14, or even go into a life of crime
Also I don't care if you reply to this or not, i'm not gonna be back to read them like Johnny Vegass above who has nothing better to do than sit in front of his computer all day and flame everyone...

I've put in my two cents... take them or leave them... either way they're just pennies.

linhbaohuynh

Reply by linhbaohuynh June 11, 2010 02:09am PDTReport Abuse

What she did is not stupid. If she is really stupid, then she wouldnt have prepare for all the possible situation. If she has not prepare, she would have not been found alive. I travel all over my country since i was 9, alone, so what. We are not stupid. We just like to explore. At least, we don't have to rely on our parents or other adult to take care of us and pay for for our every single meal. It is okay for you JOHNNY VEGAS to have your mom change your diaper everyday, but not for us. We don't need to, we are mature enough to do things on our own. Thank you.

jordan keith miller

Reply by jordan keith miller June 11, 2010 02:10am PDTReport Abuse

Don't Feed the Troll......

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:10am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:16am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

bill martin

Reply by bill martin June 11, 2010 02:25am PDTReport Abuse

@johnny vegas:

Do you consider Christopher Columbus an idiot thriving for attention, or a brave explorer, pushing the limits not only of the mind, but of the emotional and physical?

As he stood there in front of King John II trying to obtain financing for his adventure westward, he too was called an idiot and a fool by those who didn't understand him.

History is littered with stories like Abby's, Christopher Columbus, and Amelia Earhart. What is NOT seen is the other 90% of people who either don't have the resources or the courage to set out where few dare with resources AND determination.

It is a well known fact that more than 75% of the oceans are unexplored. While the surface may look the same everywhere, it is the obstacles and difficulties experienced along the way that makes it memorable, not the destination.

fattymcnasty

Reply by fattymcnasty June 11, 2010 02:26am PDTReport Abuse

Some people avoid life to make it safely to death.

obamalied

Reply by obamalied June 11, 2010 02:30am PDTReport Abuse

I find it pathetic at all you lazy asses in here condemning this girl for living a life with more adventure than most of you will ever know. All you lazy pot smoking, world-of-warcraft playing, ipod, youtube, waste of life nimwits will not even live half the life she has lived at 17 until your dying breath in a nursing home.

rutecht

Reply by rutecht June 11, 2010 02:31am PDTReport Abuse

People talk about this girl being irresponsible and her parents being foolish. Well personally I think what she is doing is great and I hope she keeps trying until she makes her dream a reality.

The big picture here is that life has no certainties and anyone reading this post could die tomorrow whether they are 15 years old or 90 years old. Even if you live to be 90 and you never go on an adventure, play it safe and never stick your neck out, never have the courage or willpower to see a personal dream through. Ask yourself what you would have accomplished in your lifetime? You ate a bunch of food, slept a lot, consumed some air then died. Big freaking deal. This girl sets out to sail around the world and after a couple days I am sure she has more self satisfaction, personal confidence, purpose and sense of accomplishment than millions of people combined. Even if she dies tomorrow she will do so having lived life 1000x fuller than the majority of the people on this planet. I praise her parents for raising her to be full of character, have more bravery than the vast number of men I have met combined and ambition. This also goes for other children willing to take life by the horns long before their peers including the kid climbing everest and many others. They are an inspiration and a model I think millions of our youth should follow. To the rest of you I just have this to say, "get a life or get out of the way".

rubydoobiedo

Reply by rubydoobiedo June 11, 2010 02:32am PDTReport Abuse

BS!! I've thought this was absolutely rediculous from the moment I heard about it. As a parent, I had a hard time just letting my daughters go on a date, much less sending them out in a boat to sail the world alone. It's all cool to think what a great thing it is, now that she's supposedly "safe", but what if she'd drowned, or what if all those PIRATES out there decided she was a ripe plum to pick off the ocean, rape and sell into slavery??? They have taken over OIL TANKERS and held them hostage! One young girl, alone on the high seas in a 40 ft. boat??? Crazy, absolutely crazy.

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:35am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

jaysonv

Reply by jaysonv June 11, 2010 02:38am PDTReport Abuse

I could not agree more with this comment, You are absolutely right!

lashaeatl

Reply by lashaeatl June 11, 2010 02:48am PDTReport Abuse

People can say what ever but theres no way in hell I would let my child sail the world by their self and also what the hell welfare got to do with it you all sound very stupid she could have gotten hurt and yall commending this mess. And why are you all trying to gang up on Jonny Vegas? this Article has nothing to do with Sex, Smoking, Driving a car, Drugs, Fights, and any other topic other than about this girl sailing alone and was in danger matter of fact she still in danger because know one has rescued her yet! Some people just shouldn't be parents. You people just encourage none sense! Yeah its good she went out and did something she really wanted to do and it was an positive thought BUT she is only 16 years old PEOPLE COME ON. How can you let your child go out and put helself or himself into harms way. People just don't care anymore. Im done with this she shouldn't have been out there in the first place.

jinks

Reply by jinks June 11, 2010 02:49am PDTReport Abuse

i wonder what would people say if she had an accident and died? just a thought...

marko2037

Reply by marko2037 June 11, 2010 02:50am PDTReport Abuse

You are so pathetic. You make Christopher Columbus seem like a courageous hero. How did he push the limits of the mind? By attempting to circumnavigate the world and arrive in Asia based on theories that existed before him. Or how about physical limits? Did he not command several people who did all the physical work, and enslave others to do even more physical labor. He was a bloodthirsty, greedy murderer who did things for glory and to feed his own ego and fame. What he did was not the same as Abby or Amelia at all. Both of those women set out to achieve a goal of traveling the world independently. Columbus was given multiple ships, full crews and weapons which he used to kill and conquer other civilizations in an attempt to exploit other peoples land and resources.

milo olson

Reply by milo olson June 11, 2010 02:59am PDTReport Abuse

Reading the last two replies I just have to say, who are we to judge of what others do or let their children do? Sure things could have gone terribly wrong and it would have turned into a tragedy, but it didn't. Each person has one life to live and they must chose whether or not the risks out way their dreams and aspirations. I'd gladly give my portion of tax, if not more, dollars to that cause willingly! It does my heart well to see someone leading their dreams, facing the unknown, living life... I hope one day I can be like her! Not confined to the chains of others; living only for myself, finding my own path, enjoying life. Instead of wasting it here in front of the computer with the people in tight suits confined to their "perfect life" I want out and to live. I say Hurra! for such a brave and inspirational youth! And I hope I can follow in her foot steps! From the moment we're born the clock starts ticking every hour that rolls by is one we'll never get back... so live with no regrets. I'm glad she's okay.

votoms

Reply by votoms June 11, 2010 03:00am PDTReport Abuse

CES5210 "It's ignorant to judge the decisions of someone you've never met" - So with that being said, you never judged any of President Bush's decisions? Anyway, yes, sailing in those waters is brave, but this had nothing to do with bravery. This had to do with one spoiled kids ego. It also shows what is wrong with the world today, parents not doing any parenting and giving into all of their childrens whims. If I remember correctly, she did an interview before she ever went out on this voyage. I remember thinking to myself that her parents are idiiots. Am I judging, you bet.

milo olson

Reply by milo olson June 11, 2010 03:10am PDTReport Abuse

I can't understand you guys or rather... perhaps I don't want to. I've been raised in a home where if you want to do something and you are capable of doing so it's your own risk and believe me I've had my share of very close calls with death from my own stupidity, but I've enjoyed every waking minute of it! You guys are yelling at the parents saying they're idiots, WRONG (at least from my point of view) Life isn't about being SAFE its about enjoying it! I'd gladly die tomorrow if I could live today with out any restraints rather than living to be some 50 year old lonely guy sitting on the sofa, beer in hand, wondering what I did with my life. If you died tomorrow would you die with a smile on your face? I would and I'd wager she would to! She chose what she wanted to do, she did it. Isn't it enough that she's, for the time being, safe?

conarroest

Reply by conarroest June 11, 2010 03:18am PDTReport Abuse

everyone who compares this 16 yr old to columbus, magellan, etc are as assanine as the parents who let their daughter sail around the world by herself on a 40 ft boat --she wasnt sailing to discover what else is out there--- this was a vanity trip to make some money off of sponsors --the same money im sure they didnt give to help with the rescue mission (Although im sure we payed for it indirectly) ---you all say she is brave---she could have been brave and went to school and volunteered at a homeless shelter or something similar and given back to her community ---that would have been brave --her sailing around the world gave nothing back to society --it only inflated her parents and her own ego

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 11, 2010 03:49am PDTReport Abuse

This wasn't just something trying to be accomplished, because she could have accomplished this at anytime in her life. They just wanted her to beat a meaningless record that no one really cares about. It even states in the story that they were criticized for the timing of the trip because of the storm season (I am sure by people who know what they are talking about seeing as how she is now in danger) But they all decided to put her life in danger for a meaningless record. Which is very stupid on her part and the part of her parents (because it is their job to make these kind of very IMPORTANT decisions for her). I will be praying for this girl and hope that she is found safe. But even though she may be a trained sailor (which still doesn't mean she knew what she was doing because a "trained sailor" looks at the conditions of the water and takes that into account) this wasn't to accomplish sailing across the world it was for a dumb record. And now all these resources are having to be used for her not because she is just some young girl but because she didn't head warning about the sailing conditions to set a record (i.e. for her (or her parents) need for attention (glory)). And this is the real reason that her parents are "DUMB" because if she wasn't in danger and the news story was about how she was the youngest girl to do it, hardly no one would be commenting on her parents at all.

lashaeatl

Reply by lashaeatl June 11, 2010 03:59am PDTReport Abuse

I so agree with you @tararichelle

darktimes

Reply by darktimes June 11, 2010 04:15am PDTReport Abuse

??? SELF-PRESERVATION...

meiki evanne rhule

Reply by meiki evanne rhule June 11, 2010 04:44am PDTReport Abuse

Does sailing around the world automatically mean that your life wont be a screw up? I applaud her for making the effort but parents get locked up for a lot less than allowing their underage daughter sail around the world unaccompanied.

know_bs

Reply by know_bs June 11, 2010 06:03am PDTReport Abuse

I agree! she should have at least had a buddy/1st aide boat to document the trip
2 idea's for the next fools who let their 16yr girl do this alone~ Thank god she alive !

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 06:34am PDTReport Abuse

Lets make something clear there is a difference between supporting our children and neglecting them. It would have been very different had there been another team closeby in case of this or any other emergency that may have occurred.

Driving at sixteen and getting in an accident is bad, but help is in minutes away, not hours or days. Allowing your child to put her life in peril by being thousands of miles away from any help in a storm season ALONE is neglect.

THANK GOD SHE IS BACK. CPS will not feel as much pressure now and maybe this family will be able to go on normally.

PS attacking ethnic races is not going to help. Go back to yesterday's posts, I left a message for many of you, coolmomof3, abcya, and the rest that were into it!!!!!!!

kiera

Reply by kiera June 11, 2010 06:58am PDTReport Abuse

If you've read any of my previous posts you know that Abby is a friend of mine, that I am 17, and that many of us understand that Abby was more than expertly prepared for this voyage. She proved it by keeping her boat upright and herself safe after enduring the loss of the mast and major damage to the rigging in 50-knot winds on blue water seas. A non-expert sailor would not have fared as well. Abby developed primary, secondary, and tertiary contigency plans for her voyage, and perfectly executed the primary and secondary plans. The tertiary plan was not needed. Ah, if only the adult, educated experts at BP had devised a primary contingency plan that worked. Or a secondary one. Or even a tertiary one. Wouldn't that be nice. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we and our environment were not looking at millions of dollars and lifetimes of damage done by these "experts" who apparently took their own "stupid risks". My father is a helicopter pilot for the Coast Guard. A month doesn't go by that he doesn't rescue someone (86% of whom are adult males) in distress as a result of their choices. And most of them are not more than 300 miles off of the coast. My father does not do this for glory, or for money, or because he only wants to rescue people whom he deems "deserving" of rescue. He does his job because it is his personal goal. Abby's goal is personal. Your own goals are hopefully very personal. And if they are not intended to cause harm to others then I hope that you are blessed enough to achieve them. But if you feel bad for those who risk their lives to save others, you don't understand those people. And you should never try to become a policeman or a firefighter. You should never join the Army,Marines,Navy,Air Force, or Coast Guard. You should never volunteer with the Red Cross or Peace Corps. Because, if you do, I guarantee you will find yourself helping someone someday who has done something "stupid" in their lives. Risk taking does not devalue a life. Ignorance does.

andrewwallop

Reply by andrewwallop June 11, 2010 08:49am PDTReport Abuse

Hooray Kiera
Beautifully put. The Sunderlands are an incredibly brave family. Having children of my own ( 16 and 4), I can only imagine what they must have been going through not only these past few days, but really the entire time Abby has been at sea. It appears that Abby was as well prepared as is humanly possible, and I really believe her parents were right in allowing her to pursue her dreams. It can't have been easy for them, though. Too many people cling to their fears and in turn, hate those who, by daring to reach for the stars, remind them of their own smallness.

eileen myers heughins

Reply by eileen myers heughins June 11, 2010 09:03am PDTReport Abuse

I am very happy to hear she is alive and well. I was quite concerned about her. To all the naysayers, get a life. She apparently has one, and you are jealous of it. Most 16-year-olds are out there doing just as dangerous stuff (drinking, smoking pot, driving recklessly). She is a girl with great strength and what appears to be integrity. I salute her and her mission. I am sorry to hear that the mast broke, but am very happy she is well. I also salute her parents who trained her well, and trusted her to make this voyage. Clearly, they thought long and hard about it before they just let her go. It is much better than the parents out there who have no idea what their children are up to, but keep rose colored glasses on assuming their children are little angels.

aziza homnick

Reply by aziza homnick June 11, 2010 09:06am PDTReport Abuse

you call her a fool for trying to accomplish something she wanted to do...i call her brave for going after something she was so determined to face.

scott church

Reply by scott church June 11, 2010 09:08am PDTReport Abuse

Well said, Kiera. I have owned , sailed and raced many offshore sailboats and I can vouch for her professionalism, regardless of her gender or age. I think thats the real hang up, here, people want to think she is an ordinary sixteen year old girl when in fact she is a young professional woman. Can't we just let this young professional woman do what she loves to do and stop drinking all that Haterade.

tvplus

Reply by tvplus June 11, 2010 09:15am PDTReport Abuse

For God's sake whose life was Abby trying to safe by risking hers? Whose benefit would the success be other than those of the boat makers and her self-seeking parents and publishers? As a matter of facts Abby's parents should be tried for attempted murder; and Government role in this issue investigated.

ndakian

Reply by ndakian June 11, 2010 09:17am PDTReport Abuse

I am very glad she was found alive and well. She has been in my prayers. However, have any of you considered who's paying for this huge rescue effort? Or about the brave rescuers that are risking their necks to bring her home safely. This was not an accident....it could have been avoided. All of you spouting off about "living life to it's fullest" are free to do so. However, don't expect the rest of us to come and save your hides when you get into trouble. You take the risk, you can pay the consequences.

mandy 7

Reply by mandy 7 June 11, 2010 09:18am PDTReport Abuse

SOmeone said no one would say anything if she had made it? Um, yea, they would. I'm so glad she's alive but I hope they get to her before pirates and bad weather do. SMDH! People say don't criticize, lol. I'm human and I'm gonna criticize tha hell outta her parents. There, I said it! The parents are dumb for letting this happen in the first place. All the lames can suck on this comment that suppert this idiotic voyage also.: )

clintorious

Reply by clintorious June 11, 2010 09:20am PDTReport Abuse

@ Bill Martin she is not some explorer saving the world or traveling to new boundaries of the human experience she was simply trying to do something a dozen plus other people have done but at a younger age. The true explorers are people finding a cure for cancer, and disease. The people looking for a solution to world hunger and peace. The people finding a new fuel source to get us off of fossil fuels. those are the Christopher Columbus or Amelia Earheart of our era. This was just (forgive me please) showboating.

I do think it was pretty great to chase your dream, this personally is not my dream, I do not understand it. I think it is more for bragging rights then because she wanted to explore new boundaries of the human experience, and I question parents who put their children in a position where they feel that is necessary.

I am happy she ended up safe but I also question how much money went in to finding her and how much did that cost some taxpayer somewhere, because search and rescue missions are not free and someone could have been hurt or killed while trying to save this girl.

I am sure we will hear about this girl more in the future and good luck and i wish her the best in following other dreams safely. And hopefully she inspired some others to follow their dreams.

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 09:20am PDTReport Abuse

"Parents are to be commended"? "She wanted to do something and she did it!"? "Columbus"?

OMG! I really cant believe there are THAT many STUPID IGNORANT IRRESPONSIBLE people on one post! As far as we shouldnt comment on the decisions of someone else - when you put yourself in the public eye you are inviting such comments and deserve them.

This was foolish from the day she set sail and when it happened I thought to myself that this can only turn out bad. The fact that she is safe we are all glad of - but the end doesnt justify the means! It was still a stupid and irresponsible decision on the part of her parents.

Kiera is right - Ignorance does devalue life - and this was an ignorant decision. Hundrends of thousands of dollars having to be spent right now on rescue efforts that didnt need to be spent had just a little common sense gone into this decision.

The fact is the parents not only should NOT be commended but SHOULD be brought up on charges of child endangerment! Hell you cant drive across town without putting a seatbelt on your child! And it is ok to let your child sail across the world in shark infested, pirate infested and bad weather waters by herself??????? What kind of common sense is that.

Believe me I am sooooo glad she is safe - but that doesnt change the fact that her parents should be held liable for the cost of the rescue effort as well as for their child neglect.

As far as her having a life - Im glad she still does - she got lucky.

ericamc

Reply by ericamc June 11, 2010 09:28am PDTReport Abuse

That was very well-put, Kiera. I have no doubt that you and Abby are very mature, intelligent, and skilled young women. I am sure that Abby is well-equipped for a sail around the world - I just think that being by herself is risky, maybe too risky for a teenager. There is a certain fearlessness that comes with being a teenager, and I think it is irresponsible of the parents to let her do it. Until she is 18, she is under the guidance and rules of her parents, and if anything bad happens to her, it really is their fault. I would never be able to live with myself if I made a choice that resulted in the death of my child. She will have plenty of time to take calculated risks when she is on her own, and there won't be the parental guilt associated with it. I'm sure Abby is an amazing 16 year-old, but she is still a 16 year-old. I am a teacher, and her story has had my stomach in knots. I cried for joy when I found out that she was found alive. Let's hope that all will turn out well.

kbrown197477

Reply by kbrown197477 June 11, 2010 09:35am PDTReport Abuse

16 yrs old is JUST TOO YOUNG!! Hey Parents.....why not wait until she's an ADULT before you allow her to put her life on the line!! I'm GLAD she came out alive but, C'mon........Seriously??!!

I don't care how much exp. she has in a boat.......SHE'S STILL A MINOR PPL!! Did you forget about the MARESK that just got boarded a year ago?? Not to mention the "Rogue' Waves that can swallow her whole. Well, at least you didn't allow her to smoke cigs at the age of two.....or did you??

@johnny Vegas and @beeceesp.........you guys had me lmao......I competely aggree with you!!

jason murphey

Reply by jason murphey June 11, 2010 09:38am PDTReport Abuse

I love seeing supporting comments one here, compared to "She's a fool" or "she cost us thousands that we have to pay back" and so on. She's brave, she had a dream, and she went for it. She was well trained, and if her boat hadn't rolled, this wouldn't had happened. If the seas hadn't been so rough that night, none of this would have mattered, so don't blame the parents, or her, blame mother nature, and stop trying to put a young girl, with a dream, down.

meiki evanne rhule

Reply by meiki evanne rhule June 11, 2010 09:51am PDTReport Abuse

Why are people likening sailing around the world to driving a car? How did the issue of jealousy even come into play here. Quite frankly I'm glad I'm not her right now, Im in my bed. But on a less heartless note, alot of people are to myopic to look at both sides of the situation. I agree that this would have been a tremendous success had it gone as planned, but her parents are to be held liable. When most of you were young I'm quite sure u asked you parents simple questions like 'can i go to Abby's party? and they said no out of fear that you might be put in danger. Although she is a professional, the ocean isnt controlled, anything can happen, the water has 'free will' and can do what ever it pleases. If something had happened to her many of the people with 'hope an praises for the little lass' wouldnt be saying 'oh she died doing something she loved or wanted to do"..no they would be saying " What irresponsible parents!!

erik eriksen

Reply by erik eriksen June 11, 2010 09:52am PDTReport Abuse

I can't wait for next year, Octomom is going to have her 9 year old sail around the world. She says it's been his dream since he was born...

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 09:55am PDTReport Abuse

Jason -

Clearly you either have no children or are a child yourself. To support foolishness is foolish! The fact that she 'may' come out of this ok does not make it ok. It does not make her parents wise. Facts are facts - the end does not justify the means.

Bravery is not to be confused with stupidity. Dreams are just that - dreams and this is one she almost didnt wake up from. WE are talking about LIFE!!!! There is no dream a sixteen year old could have that is worth her LIFE.

And NOBODY can be trained so well as to handle the unknowns that can happen in the open sea by yourself. It would be stupid for an adult to attempt that but it is just plain irresponsible and stupid for her parents to allow a sixteen year old to attempt it!

meiki evanne rhule

Reply by meiki evanne rhule June 11, 2010 10:01am PDTReport Abuse

LOL...Come one people...its mother natures fault...DAMN YOU MOTHER NATURE

cheryl yatchmanoff

Reply by cheryl yatchmanoff June 11, 2010 10:24am PDTReport Abuse

when her ebirb went off there were alot of ppl on her saying how stupid she was and now u ppl are commending her for decision. how interesting. she has been training for this for years. if she was over 18 would there be any comments on here at all? or if she were a man would ppl be saying much at all? hey , ericamc since u are a teach, just think of it as a world class room. what are u teaching ur class? how to not be adventurous cause public opinion would condemn u for it. maybe some of u ppl should get off here and live outside ur box. i was pregnant when i was 16. didn't plan it but such is life sometimes. he is 35 now and i have never regretted it. once a person has made a decision, right or wrong they have a choice to deal with it or not. humans deal with it. i grew up in South Dakota and have lived in Alaska for 20+ yrs. what a difference in attitudes and mind sets up here. i have worked on fishing boats in the Bering Sea. was it wrong to go to sea and leave my son on his own? maybe to some,but i did and we are both stronger for it. like they say , if it doesn't kill u it well make u stronger. i normally don't comment on blogs but after reading all of these comments i had to. i agree with the ppl that say get off here and get a life. go ride a bike or something. i weigh 248, didn't plan that either, but bought a bike and off i went. not bad for 53 yrs old. a fat person riding a bike is not a pretty site.. i don't care...we ppl make decisions that is not publicly acceptable but it is our decision. i,ve seen ppl surfing up here.how cool. some of u should " step up " and quit sheltering urselves. i've seen things u ppl will never see like fresh air and an environment that hasn't been transplanted to make things look green. maybe some of u should come up here to visit. is it brave or foolish. possibly depending ur attitude. but u probably don't have the fortitude to do it. how small...

ericamc

Reply by ericamc June 11, 2010 10:26am PDTReport Abuse

Here's the bottom line - it is a courageous, adventurous and awesome endeavor, but it should be attempted by an adult.

kalishta

Reply by kalishta June 11, 2010 10:28am PDTReport Abuse

very well said kiera, very well said.

I hope that one day when my children are old enough I can say that I SUPPORTED their decissions in life, even if I may not agree with them. While they are young we are supposed to GUIDE them so that they can make the right choices for them when they are adults. We try to teach our children that they should stand up for what they believe no matter what others say. We try to teach them to be responsible and independent...well, i think that Abby's parents have done just that!!! So, WAY TO GO ABBY AND FAMILY!!!

I hope that some day my children can say the same thing about me.

ericamc

Reply by ericamc June 11, 2010 10:35am PDTReport Abuse

Cheryl, I'm glad you have no regrets. That's great, I don't either. And I am a teacher who cares about her students, enough to make sure that they are not in danger (as much as I can control, anyway). I have 3 children whom I am completely devoted to, and again, I make it my mission to keep them as safe as possible. There are many adventurous things that I do with my students and children to allow them to grow and enjoy the world. I am a biology teacher, and much of my lessons are outdoors. We also do trips to Costa Rica, Belize, etc. So, you need to see the whole picture. You can enjoy life without being too risky. I've been told that I am an adventurous, courageous person by many, and that I "take a big bite out of life". I agree with them. I'm not one who is "missing the boat", no pun intended. I run races, I grow my own garden, I travel the world. Not that I need to justify myself to you, I just want you to get the facts straight. For all of the children out there.

redzone

Reply by redzone June 11, 2010 10:43am PDTReport Abuse

This Johnny Vegas guy is a loser. The more attention you given him the more he gets off. This is probably one of those idiots that spends their day on blogs just talking sh**&. Just pointless.

lorabelle

Reply by lorabelle June 11, 2010 11:36am PDTReport Abuse

16 is 16 is 16!!! A 16 year old is a 16 year old and although it's wonderful that she has dreams and even better that her parents and friends support them , the fact of the matter is that a 16 year old has no business sailing, driving, flying, riding or walking around the world by herself. I love hearing that she is intelligent, brave, mature and outgoing young lady. Those are all positive qualities to have and to share with the world and hopefully she will do just that. But I will forever wonder what in the hell her parents were thinking! I would imagine that because this little lady is so intelligent and wise for her age, that as she continues to grow and mature into an adult she will someday ask herself the very same question... What were my parents thinking? When we're 16 years old we think we know everything and it's up to our parents to teach us how to be patient, to guide and direct us and to protect us...
It saddens me to no end that nobody stood up and said no to this child. Hello people! She'll be grown up before she knows it and can do what ever she pleases but until then parents, please hold onto your child for a little while longer and don't be in such a rush for her to make her way into this world alone.
I'm thrilled that she has been found and is doing well. I'll feel better when she is home safe and sound! I just hope that her parents will encourage her to slow down and enjoy being a teen for a couple more years. Unfortunately, I fear that probably won't be the case. If they didn't say no to sailing around world, then they'll probably be alright with anything she wants to do and what will top sailing around the world?
Scares me to even think about it...

bdz63s

Reply by bdz63s June 11, 2010 12:06pm PDTReport Abuse

When her parents agree to pay for the search and rescue then the rescue can begin. I'm tired of my tax dollars supporting people's idiotic ideas, if they don't want to pay she had better stretch first, it's a long swim.

sageman

Reply by sageman June 11, 2010 12:08pm PDTReport Abuse

Johnny Vegas is a man speaking of truth. I am with him. He is right, this family is nuts.

temporaneous

Reply by temporaneous June 11, 2010 12:25pm PDTReport Abuse

Sixteen is not too young to do what you are well qualified to do. I trained for my pilots license at 16 and received it when I was 17. Also, I was in the Army by 19. I think a lot of people on this forum are simply afraid of the particular activity we are discussing...sailing around the world. Cheers for everyone on this forum who understands that life is about more than eating and watching TV.
Also, let's remember that Jessica Watson made the same trip just fine!

idjute

Reply by idjute June 11, 2010 12:27pm PDTReport Abuse

Johnny has more experience than he has let on....

temporaneous

Reply by temporaneous June 11, 2010 12:33pm PDTReport Abuse

Good point about the tax dollars. In fact, while we're at it, let's change a few things. Only those who drive pay for roads. Only those with kids pay for schools. Only those who agree with our foreign military adventures pay for the military. Only those with older relatives pay for social security. Only those on medicare pay for medicare. Only those who have invented something pay for the patent department. Only those whose house burns down should pay for the fire engines and emergency personnel.

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 12:37pm PDTReport Abuse

Ridiculous, utterly ridiculous! The point is that this girl IS still a CHILD, under law considered a MINOR until the age of 18. We have laws for this reason! Is this okay that she did this....absolutely not and I would encourage those of you that agree with this to contact the district attorney's office in her area. When do we draw the line? Next time it will be a twelve year old that is soooo experienced! How experienced a person does it take to sail around the world alone? The word isn't experienced, it is insane. Apparently her brother has done this as well from other posts that I've read? And mom and dad, when was your first solo trip sailing around the world and what ages were you? And when did it become okay for children to do whatever they want to fulfill a dream. Even if her trip was a success, some other kid would come along and decide that they needed to break Abby's record. The parents made a poor decision, could they really have weighed the possible consequences of their decision? Were they really prepared to lose their daughter forever for the sake of her dreams being accomplished? I question these parents and their morals.

temporaneous

Reply by temporaneous June 11, 2010 12:39pm PDTReport Abuse

I just re-read Kiera's posting above. Right on. She's hit the nail on the head.

idjute

Reply by idjute June 11, 2010 12:45pm PDTReport Abuse

When did my pilots license at 15, I had a senior male pilot with me, when I served my two countries I had senior officers with me at all times. It was never how much danger can I put my child with 30 foot waves and cut throat pirates.

Thanks to the guides in my early start in life, because through practical experience I survived and can live to say so, when ever I want till the day I die of old age.

I am an iDjute (idiot) and am alive to prove it. What are your experiences (everyone) again?

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 01:16pm PDTReport Abuse

kittykatsmom... I question your logic. Yes she still is a "child" under law, made up laws. Someone made up the number 18 and said that is when you are responsible, old enough to make your own decisions... complete bullshit to say someone is an adult at 18 but not 17.. or 16. But I guess thats the fucking law. And when you said, "when did it become okay for children to do whatever they want to fulfill a dream?"... that's sad... really sad. I feel terrible for your children. Isn't life all about taking risks and living your dream? Not just going along with what everyone SAYS you're supposed to do. Oh yeah and what about Jennifer Watson.. the 16 that DID just sail around the world by herself? No one is saying shit about her. So fuck off.

idjute

Reply by idjute June 11, 2010 01:25pm PDTReport Abuse

Sageman good on you mate, I know of some of Johnny'e experiences as well and have never had the arrogance of him lying or writing any untruths.

His comment is by experiences only.

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 02:07pm PDTReport Abuse

Wow really classy zep4life. If you can't be adult don't join in adult conversation. Are you really that threatened by my post??? Maybe 18 is just a number, but it is the law....talk with your congressman if you don't like it. I didn't say that you should go along with what everyone says nor did I say you shouldn't take risks....But to what extent is that okay??? If my child put on a superman costume one day and thought he could fly and that was his dream, should I let him jump off the back deck and hope for the best? Parents are to help a child reach dreams and goals, but are also there to make sure they are safe and teach them right from wrong. I am assuming you aren't a parent.....maybe one day you will understand that. This girl should have waited until she was 18 same for her brother. Maybe you don't agree, but this is a public blog, if you don't like it, don't read it!

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 02:18pm PDTReport Abuse

Your analogy is absolutely ridiculous and makes no sense (comparing this to letting your child think he can be superman)... kinda funny that that's all you could come up with. And I still don't understand what two years would have done, I really don't. And just because I said "fuck" doesn't mean I'm not acting like an adult. And threatened? No not really.... I just feel really bad for you if that's they way you go about living your life... no adventure... nothing. Nothing to say about the other 16 year old who successfully did this?

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 02:24pm PDTReport Abuse

I am correcting myself. NO ONE should sail alone, especially underage children. As for Jessica Watson that is crazy also. Had I known about it then I would have gave my opinion. I don't know what the laws are in Australia, but I think seasoned sailors would agree that sailing alone is NO JOKE and would never be recommended or encouraged. Are these teens lives worth so little?

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 02:26pm PDTReport Abuse

Zep - YOU are the one that is ridiculous! The analogy was DEAD ON. Both actions have a high risk of causing permenant injury or even death. Both are for stupid ass reasons - glory, to say i did it, desire. Nothing of any value is accomplished by either action.

As far as the other kid that did it - let me repeat myself - the end does not justify the means. Both were stupid and so where their parents (if that is truly what you want to call them).

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 02:28pm PDTReport Abuse

Ok I'm not going to argue about this anymore...I respect your opinion, but I don't agree. Everyone has their own opinion and no one is changing their mind. No point in bitching about it to eachother. I respect your opinion, but I don't agree.

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 02:29pm PDTReport Abuse

and i typed the same sentence twice. ha

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 02:30pm PDTReport Abuse

wait so sailing around the world and letting your kid believe he can fly like superman is the same thing? Right... haha.

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 02:32pm PDTReport Abuse

Wait I'm sorry jondm63.. You actually believe nothing of any value is accomplished by sailing around the world by yourself? You actually are an idiot. Probably the only person on this forum that would say that. No more posts for me.

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 02:37pm PDTReport Abuse

Zep4life I have plenty of adventure in my life. From the moment I wake up until I go to sleep each night. Everyday is a new and fabulous adventure. I don't see how the superman comparison is different. I will spell it out for you since you didn't get it.....it would be equally as dangerous and careless in other words. Have you sailed around the world solo? Have you ever been on a boat in the ocean? Do you have any knowledge of the thousands of lives lost every day at sea? Some people risk their lives for an important cause and some are just thrill seekers that do it for personal reason. I think sailing around the world ALONE for a title is juvenile with no consideration for human life. Don't feel bad for me because unlike you I have had plenty of life experiences that have brought me to this conclusion. And you using profane language to explain the way you feel demonstrates that you are a classless and ignorant person. Best wishes!

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 02:45pm PDTReport Abuse

Zep - NOTHING is accomplish that is worth the risk - especially for a child that has not even lived her life yet. No doubt it would be thrilling and think of the bragging rights. But the same could be said of a 12 yr old that thinks they could live on their own - oh just think of what would be accomplished! They would learn life skills ect. Wish idea? I think not! In fact parents that allow it would go to jail - as this girls parents should.

And yes - you are sorry - a sorry sad individual that has no grasp of the real issue here. You probably arent much older than she is.

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 02:45pm PDTReport Abuse

Good ideal? (not Wish)

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 02:47pm PDTReport Abuse

besides the fact that I backpacked south america with hardly any money when I was 19 years old... you're right I've had no adventure in my life. But I know for a fact I would have been just as capable at 16 years old. I don't believe it's juvenile with no consideration for human life, I think it's the only way to truly live. I do apologize, however, for saying you have no adventure in your life... I don't even know you. Would you mind telling me how many people die at sea every year? I'd love to know... about 40,000 people die in car crashes every year in the US alone. Who knows how many in the world... maybe a million. Maybe you letting your children drive at 16 is juvenile.... oh wait! No its not because the LAW says so!!! sorry i cant stop arguing...

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 02:49pm PDTReport Abuse

ok im only arguing with kittykatsmom right now... jondm63 maybe if you made one valid point i might bother.

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 03:12pm PDTReport Abuse

And maybe you could tell us all what the ratio of people that drive cars is to the people that sail around the ocean?

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 03:14pm PDTReport Abuse

And btw- letting your sixteen year old drive around the world would be irresponsible too.

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 03:20pm PDTReport Abuse

Zep, your way is your way and mine is mine. Although as teens we think we know all...we don't and that is why our country came up with an age to say when we are allowed to go forth in the world alone as adults. If there weren't any rules then maybe this would be okay and also maybe slavery would be okay or maybe a handful of other things that our laws protect us against would be okay. I don't actually know the exact amount of people that die at sea every year, but I'm sure that the majority of them weren't from wreckless people that decided a title was worth risking their life for. Or anyone else's for that matter. How many husbands or wives left to go rescue Ms. Abby without knowing that they would be coming back to their families? Just so she could have a title? Why didn't they send a group of 16 year olds to rescue her?

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 03:24pm PDTReport Abuse

"Laurence Sunderland, who is a shopwright, said in the weeks before her departure: "I've told Abigail, 'You will see 60 knots of wind down there, probably on more than one occasion.' "

Laurence added: "I have no doubt in my mind that this boat is going to get totally knocked around down there.""

And he let her do it anyway.... the personification of idiocracy!

upriver_jill

Reply by upriver_jill June 11, 2010 04:24pm PDTReport Abuse

Some of the "responders--to comments",do not fathom being of "heartier stock",of "living outside a comfort zone".What is it you would say about those who rush toward danger,and choas--or flames and explosions or gunfire and landmines? GO HOME--WHOSE GONNA PAY FOR THIS?THINK ABOUT THAT --NEXT TIME YOU NEED A firefighter,paramedic,police officer,soldier........Furthermore,ABBY--had training,experience,and directional support.She didnt go out there one day "after doing her nails" and say--"hmmm,there isnt any good sales at the mall--I think I'll take up sailing".ABBY seized the wind(quite literally)and SHIT HAPPENED,the rescue efforts came out of an "emergency fund",yes they are spendy,but resources come out of different budgets than "everyday stuff".My children grew up in the mountains of Northern Calif.,another "extreme sports" area--My mindset is this--What about the Blind guy that scaled Everest --just cuz he couldnt see doesnt mean he should "sit on the couch quietly."Back in days past-- young boys barely 14-15 went to war,to fight for their country,to protect and to serve.AGE is a NUMBER,age doesnt always mean Maturity--or lack of it...Once again--GLAD ABBY is home safe,maybe she should become a "Motivational Speaker",with" young people at risk",and help guide them toward positive,strong choices and knowledge.

meiki evanne rhule

Reply by meiki evanne rhule June 11, 2010 04:44pm PDTReport Abuse

@ upriver jill she is still in the ocean floating around, she isnt home yet

ndakian

Reply by ndakian June 11, 2010 04:50pm PDTReport Abuse

Upriver jill.....

I would call the people you refer to as hero's. I call a young girl who takes on such an endeavor at this foolhearted. I call the parents of said girl just plain foolish.

Perhaps you should come down off that there mountain and get urself some edjumication!

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 04:57pm PDTReport Abuse

cant argue with anything you said there kittykat... well said.

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 06:10pm PDTReport Abuse

upriver Jill- every reference you made were concerning adults and their decisions. Abby is not an adult. She may have an adult mind set, but so does my 14yr old. And being of "heartier stock" what is that supposed to mean? Your kids are tougher if you send them out into the world at a young age to discover it by themselves? Or that some kids are tougher because their parents aren't really doing any parenting? Yes, young men of 14-15 went to war a long time ago? Hmmmm wonder why that doesn't take place today? Are you really serious?
And I don't think anyone thinks that she didn't have any experience going into this. Why not let her command a crew or teach her love of sailing to other youth. I don't care how much experience she had she was underage, she was alone, and she not only risked her life, but risked the lives of countless others. Things can happen and did. She's lucky that she's alive. All I can think is she did this to break a record??? Is her life worth so little? Who are these parents?

ndakian

Reply by ndakian June 11, 2010 06:13pm PDTReport Abuse

Kittykatsmom.....well said!

beaujangles

Reply by beaujangles June 11, 2010 08:14pm PDTReport Abuse

OK, this is pretty cut and dry to me.
She is 16.
You are the parents.
You are responsible for her well being until she is 18.
You let her float around the globe by herself with no one to make sure this child was safe and it took somebody else TWO days to find her after the emegency beacons were activated.
You are grossly negligent, plain and simple.

temporaneous

Reply by temporaneous June 12, 2010 02:18am PDTReport Abuse

Upriverjill...well said!

temporaneous

Reply by temporaneous June 12, 2010 02:53am PDTReport Abuse

At zep4life, rutecht, kiera, jasonmurphey and upriver jill. Right on!!! You all seem to understand that danger, or risk, is not absolute. It is directly related to the preparedness and ability of the person facing a given situation. Young gymnasts who train for the olympics do amazing things. They fly through the air, twist, turn, flip and usually land on their feet, in a maneuver that would break me into a hundred pieces. Are the parents of these gymnasts irresponsible and crazy for allowing them to pursue that activity? Should I try it, because I am "of age?"

Bottom line, Abby was qualified! Period! That is all there is to it. This could have happened to any sailor, young or old.

Just want to add my support to all who understand that life is to be LIVED!

temporaneous

Reply by temporaneous June 12, 2010 03:03am PDTReport Abuse

At kittykatsmom. I can see that you're well meaning and a respectful poster, so I do say this respectfully. Many of the points on which I disagree with you are opinion, so I will not address those. But, you are flat incorrect when you say "She's lucky that she's alive." She's not alive due to luck. She's alive due to skill, training, preparation, knowledge, ability, etc.

I am not a sailor. So, if it had been me in the situation, and I was still alive, THAT would be luck. Most likely, though, I would have been food for the fishes.

Just a point.

temporaneous

Reply by temporaneous June 12, 2010 03:09am PDTReport Abuse

At kittykatsmom. I can see that you are a well meaning and respectful poster. So, I say this respectfully. Much of which I disagree with you about is opinion, so I don't address those things. But you are flat wrong in one of your statements. When you say "She's lucky that she's alive." Actually, it is not due to luck at all, but to training, knowledge, preparation, skill and ability. I'm not a sailor, so if I was still alive after facing the same situation, THAT would be luck. More likely, I'd be food for the fishes.

Just a point.

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 12, 2010 07:22am PDTReport Abuse

temporaneous- I am certainly not questioning the fact that young Abby was not an experienced sailor. From all that I have heard she was quite experienced and well trained in this field however; I do believe that she was highly unexperienced at life. She has only been around for 16 years. I consider my son highly experienced at bass fishing at the age of 10. He has been doing it pretty much since he could utter his first word. But that does not mean he has the appropriate life skills to send him out into the world. And I completely disagree with you about luck having nothing to do with it. How can you say that? Whenever nature is involved there is always a certain amount of luck involved. Are you honestly saying that with all her training she could have prepared and felt the actually feelings that would happen in a real life scenario such as the one she finds herself in? Has she been in a simulator that repeatedly flipped her end over end. Or exposed her body to extreme cold elements for hours upon hours. We don't even know to what extent her injuries are? Maybe with a broken leg, arm, or contusion or any sort what her feelings would be then? What about the great Steve Irwin? And I say that with the utmost respect. He was highly experienced in his field of study with wildlife. Did he know that day he was in the ocean what was going to happen? Luck is most certainly apart of every outdoor adventurers journey. My point over all is that Abby should sail the world, but why alone? Why not put the safety measures in place? And why now? She is 16...this is all about breaking a record and I think that someone who would put themself or their family in a life or death situation to break a record incredibly self serving and irresponsible.

dougn

Posted by dougn June 11, 2010 12:25am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Fantastic news!

wowyouredumb

Reply by wowyouredumb June 11, 2010 01:00am PDTReport Abuse

word!

kaykayscvb2

Reply by kaykayscvb2 June 11, 2010 02:05am PDTReport Abuse

Supper happy for this young woman!!!

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 06:36am PDTReport Abuse

Absolutely. I do hope however, that the next time someone gets the idea to allow their child to chase their dream, they take the proper percautions.

THANK GOD YOU ARE SAFE!!!

kbrown197477

Reply by kbrown197477 June 11, 2010 09:34am PDTReport Abuse

16 yrs old is JUST TOO YOUNG!! Hey Parents.....why not wait until she's an ADULT before you allow her to put her life on the line!! I'm GLAD she came out alive but, C'mon........Seriously??!!

I don't care how much exp. she has in a boat.......SHE'S STILL A MINOR PPL!! Did you forget about the MARESK that just got boarded a year ago?? Not to mention the "Rogue' Waves that can swallow her whole. Well, at least you didn't allow her to smoke cigs at the age of two.....or did you??

@johnny Vegas and @beeceesp.........you guys had me lmao......I competely aggree with you!!

lily

Reply by lily June 11, 2010 10:28am PDTReport Abuse

um, she's 16, not 4, I'm pretty sure that she had some idea of what she was getting herself into, and just an FYI, rogue waves are incredibly rare, and it's even rarer to encounter one. It could happen, sure, but it's a very low possibility.

tolkien1201

Reply by tolkien1201 June 11, 2010 11:07am PDTReport Abuse

To Johnny Vegas. It is hard not to have respect for such a person as Abby. Unfortunatley, you are the fool who wouldn't have the courage, or skill for that matter, to make it even a mile out into the open ocean and you're probally well into you thirties. Dont be such a hateful and jealous fool, it will get you nowhere in life.

jcmee00

Reply by jcmee00 June 11, 2010 11:13am PDTReport Abuse

2 WORDS- CHILD ENDANGERMENT

tolkien1201

Reply by tolkien1201 June 11, 2010 11:18am PDTReport Abuse

Im sorry to everybody else on this web chat. JOHNNY VEGAS- GO JUMP OFF OF A BRIDGE!!! You will be doing the world a huge favor, how could anybody be as ignorant as you, I think that is an imposibillity. For someone to be more ignorant than you is an impossibility.

messican

Reply by messican June 11, 2010 11:32am PDTReport Abuse

tolkien1201, nobody deserves to die for their opinions, no matter how ugly, or completely sick they are.

as for jcmee00, read up on child endangerment laws, be properly informed before you start throwing words you don't even really know the meaning of around.

tolkien1201

Reply by tolkien1201 June 11, 2010 12:09pm PDTReport Abuse

Messican, I didnt say he needed to die, I dont wish death upon anybody. He just needs to be taught some common sense and respect. If you agree with him then you do as well. "Go jump off a bridge" is just a saying. That little girl has more charisma and courage in her pinky toe than Johnny Vegas has in his whole body.Anybody who can understand the skill and courage that an adventure like that would take, wouldn't mark such childish remarks like the one's Vegashas made. He is obviously jealous that he will never in his whole sad, pathetic life, do anything remotely as remarkable as what this girl Abby has done.

sageman

Reply by sageman June 11, 2010 12:12pm PDTReport Abuse

Tolkien,

Please respect others opinions, i am reporting you as abuser. Johnny Vegas is correct.

messican

Reply by messican June 11, 2010 12:15pm PDTReport Abuse

" go jump off a bridge" is not 'just a saying'. it's a clear remark about how you don't value his life - and if you can so easily dismiss a human life like so, i have deep concerns for you.

and no, i don't agree with him, not one bit.

kafka

Reply by kafka June 11, 2010 12:34pm PDTReport Abuse

Why ask what is the point of it all? Do daring people have to check with weak-gutted, small-ranged minds like most of you here each time one goes after an adventure of her own? We go by & go after what motivates & drives & gives meaning to our lives. Period. Be it golf or baseball (what's the point of batting ball & all that meaningless running around, yes ??? - or poker tournaments-- & god forbid, sports with elements of danger-- high-slope pro snow skiing, etc. How can you judge her parents irresponsible when you haven't even checked how much they have prepared with experience & equipment & every authority concerned BEFORE embarking on the voyage. Yes, even the possible cost-- should there be any-- of rescue efforts outside of the agency's standard yearly rescue activities in the area. Everyone that mattered in the industry gave the go-signal. Did you guys even bother to read her blog? Her parents, the experts, the world were "there"with her every step of the way.
Lindbergh, Earhart, Halliburton-- among the trailblazers who've inspired human potential and achievement for succceeding generations. The latter two lost at sea-- but they KNEW the risk-- & if you have but an ounce of recognition what fulfillment of individual purpose means, nothing, certainly not the small, whining, empty voices in their midst, is going to stop them from going to sea or air, from exploring the potential of human accomplishment.
Abby, the first time I read about you, you were about to round the Cape Horn, a most dangerous Scylla & Charybdis route of the sea world-- you effectively got me out of my couch potato life & general doldrum & launch me into a personal "voyage" of my own. Heck, if a 16-yr-old, has guts enough to confront waves & total dark alone for months at sea, I thought I could muster as well the courage to confront my own. You were an inspiration. I don't care what age you are-- you have exhibited far more maturity and bravery & daring than these "play-it-safe-i-don't-want-to-rescue-you-w/-my-taxdollars" "greek" choruses.
To those saying she was too young-- talk about the pioneering human spirit throughout history-- in sports or otherwise-- who pushed the envelope for the rest of us. To 17-yr. old Zac Sunderland (Abby's own brother) & 16-yr old Australian Jessica Watson-- congratulations for inspiring us with your own successful solo voyage-- you deserve your records. You, as with Abby Sunderland, showed us all that despite so much fearfulness & hysteria in the world, our human spirit, really, can be as expansive & daring & beautiful as yours..

tolkien1201

Reply by tolkien1201 June 11, 2010 12:38pm PDTReport Abuse

You keep assuming that I have no value for human life. I'm, sorry that you've never heard that saying, which it is so, and would appreciate if you would quit making assumptions that I dont value life. Clearly I've upset you and I apologize for doing so, but don't be so eager to judge me for a silly little saying.

Oh,and sageman, I implore you, please do report me....

messican

Reply by messican June 11, 2010 12:47pm PDTReport Abuse

i have heard the saying, i've heard it many times. perhaps the way i've heard it being used are much more real - every time i've heard it, i've heard it used with a tone that suggests that they would not mind if a person killed themselves. that it would not bother them.

if you value human life, than do the world a grand favor and cease using that 'saying'. because that 'saying' represents a lack of value.

and no, you haven't upset me. (: i'm just doing my best to explain my point.
and not once have i judged you - i don't remember me saying that you were this, or you were that. i don't know you; so how could i possibly even judge you?

amanda grace

Reply by amanda grace June 11, 2010 12:53pm PDTReport Abuse

I reported him to because hes a douche bag who sits in his mothers basment playing lord of the rings wishing death on anyone cooler than him with an actual opinion.

rivermom

Posted by rivermom June 11, 2010 12:26am PDTReply | Report Abuse

thrilled to hear the news this dear girl is alive!! i hope they get to her soon. who are these parents to let their 16 year old girl sail ALONE in the middle of the indian ocean!!! skilled or not this is insane! they should be made to pay for the search efforts!! aren't there laws against child endangerment?!

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:32am PDTReport Abuse

I hope they prosecute her parents for child endangerment.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:34am PDTReport Abuse

@melkor - you must be her Father....because you sure do act like an idiot.

ronald mckenzie

Reply by ronald mckenzie June 11, 2010 12:36am PDTReport Abuse

Do some research about her and her family and I think you'll be less judgmental. Besides, being in a car on the interstate is likely more dangerous.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:38am PDTReport Abuse

@ronald - .....car on the interstate or sailing alone on the open sea around the world.....??? Are you serious??? You're making that comparison and saying that it's wiser to sail around the world by yourself!!!?? Dude, you need to get help.

melkor

Reply by melkor June 11, 2010 12:43am PDTReport Abuse

haha @ ronald mckenzie.
dude you must drive backwards or blindfolded or something

myownmortality

Reply by myownmortality June 11, 2010 12:46am PDTReport Abuse

I agree with Ronald. Same concept. You let a 16 year old go out with some car keys and HOW many of them never return for whatever reason? Sure, she didn't go 30 minutes down the road.. but it's really no different. Life is a risk. Living in fear is a severe handicap.

fly soloe

Reply by fly soloe June 11, 2010 12:53am PDTReport Abuse

Think about it, less than 30-40 years ago, "children" 14 years old were going into the coal mines and other dangerous places to work, and nobody thought twice about it, it has nothing to do with age, it has to do with maturity level. Think about how this country was founded, some of our soldiers were nothing but children. I understand children need to enjoy their childhood while they are able, but all this political correctness has turned our society into a bunch of fat lazy people. When we were growing up you did chores and didn't even think twice about getting paid for it, you did them because you had too. So what she is only 16, good for her for having the will power and daring to try something that she really wanted to do.

rivermom

Reply by rivermom June 11, 2010 01:02am PDTReport Abuse

well fly soloe, Thank God we now have LAWS TO PROTECT CHILDREN FROM GOING INTO COAL MINES and dying en masse! being active and sailing at 16 has nothing to do with sailing ALONE in the middle of winter storms in the middle of the indian ocean!! at TAX PAYER EXPENSE!

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:07am PDTReport Abuse

@rivermom - Amen!

@fly soloe - why don't you let your kids go work in a coal mine? That would be great....k? thanks!

fish bowl

Reply by fish bowl June 11, 2010 01:31am PDTReport Abuse

What is the comparison with going into a coal mine. Do you think sending children into coal mines is acceptable. I don't and I don't think letting little girls try to sail around the world is a red hot idea either. I spent a lot of years in the Navy sailing around this world and can tell you without a doubt that a child in a boat at sea is totally irresponsible.
What this all boils down to here are parents and a child who have too much money and not enough brains.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:36am PDTReport Abuse

@fish bowl - yep, common sense.....seems like we're in a Sea of Morons here though....LOL

suski

Reply by suski June 11, 2010 01:42am PDTReport Abuse

Totally irresponsible of her and her family!!! Huge expenses just for her little fun!

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:43am PDTReport Abuse

Yep. Imprison the parents. You all have it. Nothing will balance out a child's life like putting her parents in jail. Good call.

Why don't you suggest sinking her dog in a boat to teach her a lesson, too?

Morons.

suski

Reply by suski June 11, 2010 01:49am PDTReport Abuse

Who said anything about imprisoning the parents? :-)) And that dog-thing... :-))
(This was my first comment ever on this site but this is fun. :-) )

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:50am PDTReport Abuse

@thegoldenboy - Her jailed parents is better for the child then what they just allowed her to do......I'm glad you agree that her parents are Morons.

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:53am PDTReport Abuse

Yep. Nothing fixes a survived traumatic experience like having parents punished for something you did. I'm sure it all makes sense in your head.

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:56am PDTReport Abuse

Let's break it down...

So something you choose to do (Yes she has a choice at 16) costs money and possibly lives in a rescue effort, and builds into a huge deal.

The way to make it all better for the 16 year old girl, is to punish her parents, for which, in turn, she will feel inevitably guilty.

See the logic? No?

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:02am PDTReport Abuse

@thegoldenboy - unfortunately, what's missing from your logic is that her parents ARE responsible for her until she turns 18......so, yes they should be punished. She doesn't know WTF she's doing....oh, and they were profiting from this adventure too.....bravery my a$$, it was a stunt to make some cash!

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 02:08am PDTReport Abuse

I never said bravery.

Clearly you care more about "justice" than the girl herself. I'm not surprised.

katrina paxton

Reply by katrina paxton June 11, 2010 02:09am PDTReport Abuse

I think some are losing the idea. I am increadibly happy that she was found alive. Some say that they are foolish and should have never attempted it. I am in the Army, i have been wounded in battle, my husband is in the Army as well and has been shot along with suffering Tramatic Brain Injury, yet are we any less "ridiculous" than this girl? I still remember my father telling me i was foolish and headstrong and did everything he could to try to stop me from joining, but there was that voice in my head that said you HAVE do to this. It was a massive test in character for her, i hate that she didnt get to complete the sail, but now she has her answer to the nagging question in her stomach, that at this time in her life she just cant make it around the world yet. I sure hope she tries again though, you only go around on this world once, personal accomplishments are what get driven people through. This girl is driven, she will let nothing stop her, she is what makes this country great, driven head strong people that attemmpt to try foolish and crazy things, its what made this country. I hope she doesnt read any of JohnnyVegas comments because it sounds to me like he hasnt lived a day in his life, and criticizes everyone that does.

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:10am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:11am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

justathought

Reply by justathought June 11, 2010 02:12am PDTReport Abuse

well said, rivermom!

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:16am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:41am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:41am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:41am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:41am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:41am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:41am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:41am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 02:46am PDTReport Abuse

@beeceesp: you fail at posting...

sambvka

Reply by sambvka June 11, 2010 02:53am PDTReport Abuse

Typical American thinking. If parents raise their kids in a different style or different beliefs than what others deem as "safe" , The first instant reaction is, lets prosecute the parents as soon as possible. The term "Child Endangerment" is used way to often by people that have no idea what they are talking about and have never stepped out of their "safety zone" It is foolish for a threatening comment like this to have ever been written. I am very proud of this young lady! I wish she and other youth out there like her the very best. It is minds and explorers like her that our future depends on. They should not be criticized for their endeavors but encouraged! Allow them to work outside the box.They are our future. The ones that play it safe have a purpose too. They are the drones that do the menial tasks or have a "normal" job when they grow up. @Rivermom have no fear,your children will no doubt play it as safe as possible when you are looking. Hopefully they will have the sense to live after they are of age and away from you. Or they can just follow in your boring footsteps. As for Mr. Vegas. You certainly have stirred up debate with your boorish comments! I am appalled at the innuendos and disgusting behavior towards this girl. Well thats what you were set out to do anyway. PIG

myview

Reply by myview June 11, 2010 02:54am PDTReport Abuse

@beeceesp: I totally agree with you. This is abuse of precious resources just like everything else that is mentioned regarding teenage pregnancy, drugs etc, no better no less.

myview

Reply by myview June 11, 2010 02:54am PDTReport Abuse

@beeceesp: I totally agree with you. This is abuse of precious resources just like everything else that is mentioned regarding teenage pregnancy, drugs etc, no better no less.

deannabartels

Reply by deannabartels June 11, 2010 03:05am PDTReport Abuse

I think people need to be a little less judgmental all the way around. Someone made a good point. We let our children get behind the wheels of cars and when an accident occurs, rescue workers are dispatched. That's a lot of money spent on a lot of teenagers that really aren't mature enough. However, I don't think that people need to be attacking johnny vegas for disagreeing. Or saying that he needs to be kicked off this site. I believe he is a little judgmental, but aren't most people? If it's something you don't understand or disagree with, most people want others punished. So much hate. Why do we need to have people punished all the time for thinking differently. Johnny wants the parents prosecuted, and others on this site want Johnny banned. People need to stop being so judgmental and hateful all the way around.

I am so very glad she was found. And those who pointed out that there are worse things she could be doing as a teenager are right. She could be doing drugs. Or out sleeping with a lot of guys to fill a need for love and support that her parents never gave. We all need to be less judgmental and more caring and supportive of one another. I don't mean we need to support nasty comments, but we don't need to start hitting below the belt in retaliation.

fransflores

Reply by fransflores June 11, 2010 03:07am PDTReport Abuse

This girl is found alive and we should be all thankful for it. Why are you people talking about money responsible parenting and publicity here? Is this what the world has come to? Why do you care if other countries spend money to rescue her? This is a life we are talking about, wake up people!

milo olson

Reply by milo olson June 11, 2010 03:15am PDTReport Abuse

I concur with fransflores 100% you guys are just arguing at this point and straying away from the fact that what is done is done. What we say wont change anything from this point on. Sure she might have been naive but I couldn't live with my self if i stopped her... Each side has equal points but what is done is done, just let us be thankful shes alive and well for the time being.

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 03:44am PDTReport Abuse

fransflores and milo olson, you two idiots have demonstrated you can neither read, nor distinguish between somebody "being located" by a plane flying overhead or having been found and pronounced safe and sound. These ill thought out opinions of yours display and infuriating level of ignorance. You have utterly and completely missed the point. This 16year old CHILD in bobbing in the Indian Ocean with her parents blessing. Ring a bell? The same Indian Ocean that currently teems with Somali Pirates. Do either one of you "open-minded" gentlemen have teenaged daughters? Would you allow them to be put in this position? I probably should not ask...

peopleareignorant21

Reply by peopleareignorant21 June 11, 2010 03:49am PDTReport Abuse

absolutely agree

peopleareignorant21

Reply by peopleareignorant21 June 11, 2010 03:49am PDTReport Abuse

absolutely agree

peopleareignorant21

Reply by peopleareignorant21 June 11, 2010 03:50am PDTReport Abuse

absolutely agree

peopleareignorant21

Reply by peopleareignorant21 June 11, 2010 03:50am PDTReport Abuse

absolutely agree

thomas lichtag

Reply by thomas lichtag June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

In a world where most of our teenagers are either playing video games or smoking pot, you don't hear many stories like this. I'm glad to see that traditional sailing, a tool which dates all the way back to the 5th millennium and has been essential in the development of civilization, is still in use today. I applaud the girl's courage to go out there and explore the world in ways many of today's youth cannot even imagine. Also very glad to here she is ok.

thomas lichtag

Reply by thomas lichtag June 11, 2010 04:24am PDTReport Abuse

In a world where most of our teenagers are either playing video games or smoking pot, you don't hear many stories like this. I'm glad to see that traditional sailing, a tool which dates all the way back to the 5th millennium and has been essential in the development of civilization, is still in use today. I applaud the girl's courage to go out there and explore the world in ways many of today's youth cannot even imagine. Also very glad to here she is ok.

tararichelle

Reply by tararichelle June 11, 2010 04:42am PDTReport Abuse

HER PARENTS ARE STUPID, NOT BECAUSE SHE IS YOUNG BUT BECAUSE THEY LET HER GO DURING STORM SEASON TO BEAT A RECORD!!!!!!!
This wasn't just something trying to be accomplished, because she could have accomplished this at anytime in her life. They just wanted her to beat a meaningless record that no one really cares about. It even states in the story that they were criticized for the timing of the trip because of the storm season (I am sure by people who know what they are talking about seeing as how she is now in danger) But they all decided to put her life in danger for a meaningless record. Which is very stupid on her part and the part of her parents (because it is their job to make these kind of very IMPORTANT decisions for her). I will be praying for this girl and hope that she is found safe. But even though she may be a trained sailor (which still doesn't mean she knew what she was doing because a "trained sailor" looks at the conditions of the water and takes that into account) this wasn't to accomplish sailing across the world it was for a dumb record. And now all these resources are having to be used for her not because she is just some young girl but because she didn't head warning about the sailing conditions to set a record (i.e. for her (or her parents) need for attention (glory)). And this is the real reason that her parents are "DUMB" because if she wasn't in danger and the news story was about how she was the youngest girl to do it, hardly no one would be commenting on her parents at all.

yoboba

Reply by yoboba June 11, 2010 04:50am PDTReport Abuse

how i wish i could talk to you on gs1987@yahoo.com
I HAVE DISPROVED NEWTON'S THIRD LAW OF MOTION.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 06:49am PDTReport Abuse

Ok...

Ffirst there are laws in place to keep our children SAFE. The thing that were allowed 100 years ago or even 30 have been changed for a reason.

Second please stop comparing this to driving. Yes driving is dangerous, but help is not hours or DAYS away. There is a very BIG difference.

Third CPS had incredible pressure on them to get ready to step in had something happened. Thankfully nothing did and she is safe. This may give them the ok to leave them alone.

And finally there are MANY MANY things our kids can do so they are not indoors sitting on their *sses as you said. Things that may even be dangerous up to a point (like sports) but with medical attention second or minutes away. Sorry but teaching children extremes is not a good thing.

And please stop the pothead theory already. Since when does not risking your life mean you are a pothead?

It sucks that something bad has to happen for measures to be taken. This was ludacris from the start. There should have been another team following this girl.

kbrown197477

Reply by kbrown197477 June 11, 2010 08:53am PDTReport Abuse

16 yrs old is JUST TOO YOUNG!! Hey Parents.....why not wait until she's an ADULT before you allow her to put her life on the line!! I'm GLAD she came out alive but, C'mon........Seriously??!!

I don't care how much exp. she has in a boat.......SHE'S STILL A MINOR PPL!! Did you forget about the MARESK that just got boarded a year ago?? Not to mention the "Rogue' Waves that can swallow her whole. Well, at least you didn't allow her to smoke cigs at the age of two.....or did you??

@johnny Vegas and @beeceesp.........you guys had me lmao......I competely aggree with you!!

kbrown197477

Reply by kbrown197477 June 11, 2010 08:54am PDTReport Abuse

16 yrs old is JUST TOO YOUNG!! Hey Parents.....why not wait until she's an ADULT before you allow her to put her life on the line!! I'm GLAD she came out alive but, C'mon........Seriously??!!

I don't care how much exp. she has in a boat.......SHE'S STILL A MINOR PPL!! Did you forget about the MARESK that just got boarded a year ago?? Not to mention the "Rogue' Waves that can swallow her whole. Well, at least you didn't allow her to smoke cigs at the age of two.....or did you??

@johnny Vegas and @beeceesp.........you guys had me lmao......I competely aggree with you!!

aziza homnick

Reply by aziza homnick June 11, 2010 09:11am PDTReport Abuse

would you all be complaining if this was a guy trying to attempt sailing? i think not...so stop being discriminating because that is how it seems to me and stop being judgmental...

eileen myers heughins

Reply by eileen myers heughins June 11, 2010 09:34am PDTReport Abuse

OMG are you guys serious? Does 2 years really make that much difference? How many of you people did stupid things at 18, I know I sure as hell did. I would absolutely let my 16-year-old daughter follow her dreams, if that is what she chose. Maybe the timing wasn't perfect, but she was following a dream. She is a very experienced sailor, and I see no wrong in this situation. There are countless adults that try to sail, and end up having to get rescued, but when one very mature teenager does it, all of a sudden they are irresponsible?

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 09:46am PDTReport Abuse

I dont give a rip if it is a guy or a girl! This is the SECOND time her parents have shown lack of parenting skills since they let their son do it before - both are reprehensible! Beeceesp - you said it man!!!!

And thomas - Although I dont like the idea of kids 'sitting around playing video games and smoking pot' - neither of them are as dangerous as what her stupid ass parents allowed her to do. You dont stand any significant risk of DYING from playin video games!

aziza homnick

Reply by aziza homnick June 11, 2010 09:54am PDTReport Abuse

noo...put you become lazy when playing video games and some children actually BELIEVE they are part of video games...

I"m 21....i have been doing stuff since i was 16...jumping off cliffs into water, rock climbing, etc...so she does sailing...my parents allowed me to do this without supervision...does that make them stupid for allowing me?..no it don't. they made me make sure i was capable of doing it all before hand. thats what they did here...made sure their daughter was able to handle it on her own. so back off. she's not your kid

meiki evanne rhule

Reply by meiki evanne rhule June 11, 2010 10:05am PDTReport Abuse

Wow...not stupid but irresposnsible....

aziza homnick

Reply by aziza homnick June 11, 2010 10:10am PDTReport Abuse

if her parents have faith in her and trust her...who are we to judge?

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 10:22am PDTReport Abuse

Oh well yes - lazy is FAR FAR worse than DEAD! Stupid is as stupid does!

And your right - she is not my kid. If she WERE my kid we wouldnt all be here discussing this. Taxpayers wouldnt be footing the bill for my irresponsibility.

aziza homnick

Reply by aziza homnick June 11, 2010 10:31am PDTReport Abuse

i doubt it honestly...if you have a kid, i expect that you'd do whatever it took for your child to achieve his/her dream...

don't criticize her for having the balls to do something most people would never do. she knew the risks, her parents knew the risks, people who allowed gave them permits knew the risks...what they did wasn't against the law

kalishta

Reply by kalishta June 11, 2010 11:10am PDTReport Abuse

ok, jondm63, there is a certain risk that COULD lead to death while playing a video game, read the warning labels on the games, here i will post it for you...

Photosensitive seizures: A very small percentage of people may experience a seizure when exposed to certain visual images, including flashing lights or patterns that may appear in video games. Even people who have no history of seizures or epilepsy may have an undiagnosed condition that can cause these "photosensitive epileptic seizures" while watching video games.

These seizures may have a variety of symptoms, including lightheadedness, altered vision, eye or face twitching, jerking or shaking of arms or legs, disorientation, confusion, or momentary loss of awareness. Seizures may also cause loss of consciousness or convulsions that can lead to injury from falling down or striking nearby objects. Immediately stop playing and consult a doctor if you experience any of these symptoms.

Parents should watch for or ask their children about the above symptoms- children and teenagers are more likely than adults to experience these seizures. The risk of photosensitive epileptic seizures may be reduced by taking the following precautions: Sit farther from the screen; use a smaller screen; play in a well-lit room; do not play when you are drowsy or fatigued. If you or any of your relatives have a history of seizures or epilepsy, consult a doctor BEFORE palying.

Just so ALL of you know, there is a risk in EVERYTHING that we as humans do, yes that includes showering or even sleeping, but everyone here that is being negative is so focused on blaming the parents rather than realizing that as parents we should ENCOURAGE OUR KIDS TO FOLLOW THEIR DREAMS. Now, I will admit that while I would not AGREE with the decission to let my 16 yr old sail the ocean alone I would however let them know that i don't agree but if they want to i WOULD NOT stop them!!! Maybe that is what her parents did! Did anyone ask them???

kalishta

Reply by kalishta June 11, 2010 11:10am PDTReport Abuse

ok, jondm63, there is a certain risk that COULD lead to death while playing a video game, read the warning labels on the games, here i will post it for you...

Photosensitive seizures: A very small percentage of people may experience a seizure when exposed to certain visual images, including flashing lights or patterns that may appear in video games. Even people who have no history of seizures or epilepsy may have an undiagnosed condition that can cause these "photosensitive epileptic seizures" while watching video games.

These seizures may have a variety of symptoms, including lightheadedness, altered vision, eye or face twitching, jerking or shaking of arms or legs, disorientation, confusion, or momentary loss of awareness. Seizures may also cause loss of consciousness or convulsions that can lead to injury from falling down or striking nearby objects. Immediately stop playing and consult a doctor if you experience any of these symptoms.

Parents should watch for or ask their children about the above symptoms- children and teenagers are more likely than adults to experience these seizures. The risk of photosensitive epileptic seizures may be reduced by taking the following precautions: Sit farther from the screen; use a smaller screen; play in a well-lit room; do not play when you are drowsy or fatigued. If you or any of your relatives have a history of seizures or epilepsy, consult a doctor BEFORE palying.

Just so ALL of you know, there is a risk in EVERYTHING that we as humans do, yes that includes showering or even sleeping, but everyone here that is being negative is so focused on blaming the parents rather than realizing that as parents we should ENCOURAGE OUR KIDS TO FOLLOW THEIR DREAMS. Now, I will admit that while I would not AGREE with the decission to let my 16 yr old sail the ocean alone I would however let them know that i don't agree but if they want to i WOULD NOT stop them!!! Maybe that is what her parents did! Did anyone ask them???

messican

Reply by messican June 11, 2010 11:36am PDTReport Abuse

this is absolutely hilarious, to see you all commenting and calling her parents stupid, irresponsible. but you know what else i see in your completely negative posts? a lack of spirit, a lack of adventure - true, this could not compare to the grandeur of columbus, or magellan, and true, this was done not only in the hopes to accomplish a personal dream, but the set a new record. and when i think about that, i don't instantly feel the need to bash her down, nor set my narrowminded values on her parents - why would i do that? why would i force my negativity, my lack of hope for her dreams, my utter lack of faith in her possibility? she is 16, and true, she is young - but i've met 16 year olds who have done far more dangerous things than this. i have met 16 year old who face death every single day - a gun in their hand, gang violence strapped to their very life; most will not see their eighteenth birthday - most are already dead. you criticize her, you attack her parents, you call them foolish and say that they have no common sense, that they must be absolute idiots to send their equally naive daughter out on such an obviously dangerous trip.

you all have failed to remember the faith parents must put into their growing children, the faith they must have in order to realize that their child will eventually go off on their own - and they will succeed. you have all failed to take into consideration the amount of pain it must have taken for her parents to say yes to this - they let her do this, because as supportive, caring parents, they wanted her to reach her goal, her dream. because as true parents, they BELIEVED in their daughter.

yet you call them stupid, for choosing to do so. for choosing to have such strong confidence in their daughter's ability.

i feel sorry for this generation, of lost hopes, and lackluster faith. i feel absolutely sorry for those who take a look at this, and have only thoughts of negativity. your lives could be so much fuller, and richer.

sageman

Reply by sageman June 11, 2010 12:16pm PDTReport Abuse

Johnny Vegas is the man. He is so right! Hail, the king!

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 01:34pm PDTReport Abuse

i couldnt agree with you more messican

zep4life

Reply by zep4life June 11, 2010 01:34pm PDTReport Abuse

i couldnt agree with you more messican

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 01:51pm PDTReport Abuse

I would just like to know who else besides the parents okay'd this trip??? Surely there are laws/rules that have been broken? Honestly what in the world is going on over there in California??? How and why would a 16 year old be allowed to sail around the world by herself to break a record??? I don't care that the 17 year old brother did it and he made it. These kids are under age and have been obviously raised by their parents to be adults at a young age. Is that good? And what are the ages of the other 4 children? If there is a younger child, will they be compelled to break their siblings records?

Absolutely absurd. I don't care what kind of an adventurist you are as long as your of age. These parents are liable for their daughters actions and any inconviences or monetary damages incurred. So should the rest of this communities officials that apparently gave the okay for this trip.

I don't care how much preparing she did.....she is a MINOR!!!!!! I hope people plan to email the district attorney's office of Thousand Oaks, California (Ventura County) and let them know how you feel about Abby's risky venture.

da.criminal@ventura.org

jeff jaffe

Reply by jeff jaffe June 11, 2010 01:53pm PDTReport Abuse

Well, I must admit I have mixed feelings about all of this. Although I most certainly do not feel the same way about things as johnny vegas does, I do feel that 16 is a bit to young to let go out on an adventure like this. We would not let a 16 year old driver around the world if it were possible. There are some decision in life that are better made with life experience and some of those decisions might have to be made at sea. I am 42 years old now and when I was 18 I joined the Navy and spent 5 great years there at sea. The sea is hardly a place for an adult alone, not to mention a child. Then there is the problem she might have faced while passing Africa. Pirates. Yes that is a VERY real possibility and is she had encountered those or any number of things, it could have turned out to be a very bad situation. Now that all said, I commend her for her bravery and enthusiasm in taking on such a venture. She is bound for reat things in lfe and she should be saluted just for the attempt.

jondm63

Reply by jondm63 June 11, 2010 02:21pm PDTReport Abuse

You go kittykatsmom! Right ON!

As for Kalishta - you my dear are an IDIOT if you are going to compare the dangers of playing video games with sailing around the world by your self in a boat. You clearly have no grasp of reality and are just here to argue. If in fact you would not stop your underage child from doing something that is clearly life threatening - then you dear have no business being a parent because you obvioulsy have your priorities wrong. "Lets see... should I let my child do something that has very good odds to kill them so that I am supportive? OORRRR should I be a PARENT and make the tough decesion to say NO because that is what a PARENT sometimes needs to do in the interest of their childs welfare?"

That is what is wrong with this world - Parents dont know how to say NO - they cater to the BS thought that you need to not do anything that might inhibit your childs creativesness and ambition.

See Dr. Spock on that one. He once wrote a book that admonished parents not to spank their children. That doing so would stunt their growth. He later recanted that advice and admitted that his counsel had been responsible for a generation of child delinquints! (Dr. Spock was a noted child physicologist (no not the character that played in Star Trek))

I truly feel sorry for your children is that is how you really feel.

sambvka

Reply by sambvka June 11, 2010 08:04pm PDTReport Abuse

@kittykatsmom Do you plan on contacting the District Attorney's office across the country? Whining about the parents every time a young adult might be privileged enough to do something extraordinary? We as responsible parents plan on allowing our daughter to fly solo when she turns 16. Is your next step contacting the FAA and ask them to change their rules as well? God forbid other peoples children might be more responsible,adventurous, and adept to doing things, that you or your children don't have the fortitude to do. Whats after that? No driving. Maybe then it will be too risky, in your eyes, to walk across the street , ride a bus, or swim in the ocean. The world is full of dangerous things. We encounter many of them everyday. What-ifs are a part of life. I do hope that rather than sitting down worrying about how others live and how you can disrupt their life. Get out of the house and live! P.S. Skydiving is a lot of fun!!

sambvka

Reply by sambvka June 11, 2010 08:04pm PDTReport Abuse

@kittykatsmom Do you plan on contacting the District Attorney's office across the country? Whining about the parents every time a young adult might be privileged enough to do something extraordinary? We as responsible parents plan on allowing our daughter to fly solo when she turns 16. Is your next step contacting the FAA and ask them to change their rules as well? God forbid other peoples children might be more responsible,adventurous, and adept to doing things, that you or your children don't have the fortitude to do. Whats after that? No driving. Maybe then it will be too risky, in your eyes, to walk across the street , ride a bus, or swim in the ocean. The world is full of dangerous things. We encounter many of them everyday. What-ifs are a part of life. I do hope that rather than sitting down worrying about how others live and how you can disrupt their life. Get out of the house and live! P.S. Skydiving is a lot of fun!!

kittykatsmom

Reply by kittykatsmom June 11, 2010 10:15pm PDTReport Abuse

sambvka- do you understand how ridiculous you sound? When did putting our children in extremely dangerous situations become okay? Privileged or not, just because I value my children's safety and believe that waiting until they have more life experiences before they are put into situations that they may or may not be able to handle does not give you any platform for your arguement. You sound silly with your comparisons. A girl of 16 decides with her parents encouragement that to fulfill her dream she must sail around the world ALONE to break a record and this is her number one priority? Who's mixed up and who's making sense? The world is full of dangerous things, your right about that, and hopefully it won't take one of them to knock you back into reality. Best wishes on your endeavors!

milo olson

Reply by milo olson June 12, 2010 03:00am PDTReport Abuse

So for through this whole chain of comments I've only seen 2 things. People who are glad that she is alive, but still not yet out of danger. People who are just arguing, flaming, name calling, criticizing, and fighting about money from BOTH view points. Most of the "Safe people" let's call 'em who are against it and the "Rash people" who are for it. We both have very narrow vision, if we truly open minded we wouldn't be posting comments back and forth making arguments over things that aren't even related to our life directly. "Safe people" We value your opinions but you aren't every ones parent/guardian, its their life not yours. To the "Rash people" if you are so all for new exiting things enjoying what little life we have, WHY ARE YOU HERE!? Get out and go do something extraordinary instead of being all talk. When is it that the ruling population became so... unable to accept peoples view points and move on. oh and to all the people calling others "IDIOTS" We frankly don't care. We probably are idiots but we LIKE being idiots. Living in our own way.

bj stroup

Posted by bj stroup June 11, 2010 12:26am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Thank God that she was found well and alive. She was smart to activate her beacons so that they would be looking for her, she is obviously a very adept sailor.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:31am PDTReport Abuse

Smart? I say stupid....never should have done this to begin with. Funny how you're saying she's smart and adept.....foolish is what she is.

bj stroup

Reply by bj stroup June 11, 2010 01:11am PDTReport Abuse

LOL...While you are sitting on your couch playing the playstation or xbox someone is out actually doing something with their young lives, and all you can do is call them foolish and stupid. Do yourself a favor...put down the chips, drop the sandwich and the beer, and actually try to do something that is as brave as this young woman did, then maybe you will understand that what she did is in fact smart, and not something a beginner would think to do, which also makes her adept at it. I'm actually glad you did, however, take the time to either grab the dictionary, or wikipedia the meaning of the words so you didn't sound completely inept at making a statement, or attempted rebuttal to my post. As far as your earlier posts stating how her parents should be arrested, I actually commend them for having the intestinal fortitude to allow her to actually do something she was good at and loves. That took a lot for her parents to allow her to go on that trip, and they did go through all the trouble of getting the proper permits for her to do it as well. Also, she is an old enough person at the age of 16 that in most states she could be legally emancipated, making her a legal adult, so I see no problem in her making an adult voyage such as this. Before you start just randomly shooting off your mouth about how stupid people are next time, try some actual research into legal things, and don't detract from other people actually doing something worth being looked up to. You may now resume your couch potato duties, thank you for your time, and don't forget to tip your waitress.

joemango56

Reply by joemango56 June 11, 2010 01:12am PDTReport Abuse

you say she is stupid for doing that and I say bj stroup is stupid and foolish for believing in something that does not exist

littletravelsunshine

Reply by littletravelsunshine June 11, 2010 01:13am PDTReport Abuse

you really shouldnt be talking like that. I am sure you wouldnt say that around sailors. I am a 19 year old sailor, and for her going as far as she has. she is far better then me and most others and she has my guts the you kid. so grow and pair and shut up.

littletravelsunshine

Reply by littletravelsunshine June 11, 2010 01:15am PDTReport Abuse

more guts*

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:23am PDTReport Abuse

@bj stroup - please get on a boat and sail around the world....please be brave and show us how cool that is......that would be awesome and society will be better off for it! :)

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 01:37am PDTReport Abuse

johnny vegas: you've responded to like five of the people who disagree with you by saying they should "get on a sailboat and sail around the world" like it's an insult. People here are debating whether or not a 16 year old should've been allowed to sail alone...since when did sailing itself become a bad thing? I'm laughing my ass off the way you keep saying this to people, as if you're saying "go shoot yourself"

bj stroup

Reply by bj stroup June 11, 2010 01:39am PDTReport Abuse

@ johnny vegas...I'm not a sailor, nor do I pretend to be...I would happily see you off if you were to do such a thing though, and I would even pray for your safe return so that you had a story to tell your children. I have raced cars, run off-road with some of the best, driven cross country in a truck, and seen more things in my life because I wanted to live than most men twice my age. I have had my adventures, and will have more, but I don't do it for fame or glory, I do it for the sake of doing it. If I could sail though, I would gladly take you up on that dare, just so I would be able to look at my grandchildren and tell them about the time I did.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:45am PDTReport Abuse

@thisisfun - I never said sailing was a bad thing....but a 16 yr old girl sailing alone? are you kidding me? That's really bad, and irresponsible! So, my comments to those people who think it's brave & cool & admirable is.....go do it yourself, then we'll all be better off for it......and yeah if you think I'm saying "go shoot yourself".......you put 1 and 1 together.

bj stroup

Reply by bj stroup June 11, 2010 01:46am PDTReport Abuse

@ johnny vegas...I, unfortunately, am not a sailor, so that would be a fools errand for me...However, if you were to get on a boat in set off around the world I would gladly see you off, and I would also pray for your safe return so that you would have a great story to tell your children about it. I have, however, raced cars, off-roaded with the best of them, driven cross country in a truck, and seen many things that men twice my age have not. If I were a sailor I would, gladly, take you up on that challenge so I would have a story to tell my grandchildren about the time I did do something no one though was safe. Alas, I am past the age that would get my name in the papers, so it would only end up as a local "color" article and you would not know of it. I can say, though, that I have lived life to the fullest extent for the sake of living. I did not do the things I did for recognition of this society, as I have never really fit into this society, but I did them because they were there to be done.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:47am PDTReport Abuse

@bj stroup - awesome.....glad to hear you've done a lot of adrenaline adventurous things.....good for you....now, WTF does that have to do with a 16 yr old girl sailing around the world by herself? That's just plain stupid.....and if you don't think so.....then go do it yourself Evel Knievel.

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 01:54am PDTReport Abuse

johnny vegas: now I'm laughing even harder. plenty of people go sailing, and do other adventurous things all the time. it's not a death wish, its exciting. I guess you have no excitement in your life... and yes, sailing around the world is a lot more admirable than "drinking and fucking people" or whatever you said.... sounds like a loser to me.

anne hall

Reply by anne hall June 11, 2010 01:57am PDTReport Abuse

johnny vegas, for your sake and the others on the site, stop making an ASS of yourself. An educated opinion is worth contemplation, yet your comments are absolutely insipid.

Moreover, thank goodness Abby is safe and well! Afterall, that's what this thread is about.

bj stroup

Reply by bj stroup June 11, 2010 01:58am PDTReport Abuse

@johnny vegas...And yet again you miss the point...Evel Knievel is a dare devil, and as such takes risks that are unable to be prepared for or calculated due to the immense amount of variable data, I am not in the same line of work as Evel, nor would I want to be...I'm curious, though, what your hang up on her age is all about? It would seem that you have no idea what a 16 year old is truly capable of, and you refuse to accept it when you are faced with it. I have not seen, nor heard, anything about the 16 year old girl who did complete this just a few months back, nor have you mentioned the 17 year old boy who did the same thing...It would seem to me that this would have gone unnoticed by yourself had her voyage gone off without a hitch, and you would have not had an audience. Again I say that if I were a sailor I would gladly take your dare. I am neither a sailor, nor a dare devil, so I will not do so. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to have a conversation with someone less mind numbing than your incessant argument of "go sail a boat".

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:59am PDTReport Abuse

@johnny vegas

I guess if we all took our ball and went home we would be safe...and also ever LEARN anything.

Magellan, Columbus, Erikson...

Yep. We would be an overpopulated, undereducated group of cowards...

Actually that isn't too far off...

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:05am PDTReport Abuse

Why don't we just offer a "Sail Around The World by Yourself" class at all of our High Schools in the US?? Idiots.....

Obviously, we can agree to disagree.....send your kids on sailboats alone on a worldwide adventure....but please don't make me, a taxpayer, pay for your follies.

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:11am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

mi_officer

Reply by mi_officer June 11, 2010 02:12am PDTReport Abuse

johnny vegas, you are a douche. You've obviously never heard of the concept of "risk vs. reward". If we all lived in your world no one would ever dare to achieve something great. Fortunately, not everyone is willing to cower at home. You, sir, are yellow, and you're lashing out in envy because this 16 year old girl has more nuts than you do. You say people who are willing to take risks should get on a boat and remove themselves from the gene pool, but I thank god that ineffectual cowards like yourself probably aren't able to manage the act of reproduction in the first place. Go hide under your bed you yellow slob.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:16am PDTReport Abuse

@mi_officer - If I'm a douche, you're a pu$$y...and I'm here to clean you out. I'm not yellow, just logical.....she should NEVER have been allowed to do that....and if you're so brave and calling me a coward, let's see you do it!! Thought so.....pu$$y.....easy to call me a coward when you've never done anything like that before. ha!

optomisty

Reply by optomisty June 11, 2010 02:21am PDTReport Abuse

is this the "only what Johnny Vegas thinks matters site? If everyone thought like "Johnny Vegas" Where would this world be? If everyone thought the same as you Johnny Vegas what an ignorant country this would be! "Smart? I say stupid....never should have done this to begin with. Funny how you're saying she's smart and adept.....foolish is what she is." I say who really cares what Johnny Vegas thinks!!!!! He's probably in his 30's ,living with his momma, and walks around the block all day long cause he's too scared to cross the street. the only living he does is being "Johnny Vegas" on the net in the safety of his padded room!!
I commend this courageous girl. She has more guts than you will ever have "Johnny Vegas".
Do you like your hugging jacket Johnny Vegas?

mi_officer

Reply by mi_officer June 11, 2010 02:22am PDTReport Abuse

I've backpacked all the way across Asia by myself. I've joined and served in the military. I've never tried to sail around the world by myself, but I can tell from your comments that you're not logical... you're just a dude who can't stand to see other people achieve where you so obviously don't have the guts to do jack.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:27am PDTReport Abuse

~~Golf Clap~~ @mi_officer - Good for you Rambo......it still doesn't justify letting a 16 yr old girl sail around the world by herself. Glad to see how you extend your Chuck Norris bravery over to justifying an idiotic decision by her parents.

Smart....real smart. Put down other people because they didn't "accomplish" what you did....and dodge the real issue.

mi_officer

Reply by mi_officer June 11, 2010 02:33am PDTReport Abuse

No, here's the real issue. You're not concerned with the particulars of her voyage. Yeah, I've heard that she chose a bad time to set out and that is frankly why she isn't still on her way right now. As for her parents, they made a tough call to let her follow her passions and take a shot at something big. While you are on here acting like you're the only sane person on the planet by childishly lashing out and pushing eugenics on anyone who dares to support those who are willing to risk even their lives for a chance to do something big. And you really think you're smart? Seriously, didn't your mom tell you to turn the lights out a few hours ago?

bj stroup

Reply by bj stroup June 11, 2010 02:34am PDTReport Abuse

@ mi_officer...I want to say thank you for your service to our country, I have lost many friends and family while they were defending our liberties, and you are all heros in my eyes.

mi_officer

Reply by mi_officer June 11, 2010 02:39am PDTReport Abuse

@bj stroup, thank you bj, we gladly fight to defend your liberties. Even johnny vegas'.

kae

Reply by kae June 11, 2010 02:58am PDTReport Abuse

I personally think it illogical for anyone of any age or experience to sail anywhere alone, just due to the fact that God only knows what could happen (rough seas due to a storm causing unsteady feet, a slip and fall with a blow to the head). How does your experience or age help you if you are unconscious and bleeding profusely from the head? Growing up you always hear about the buddy system just in case something happens to one there is someone else to help or go get help.

I am glad that she is safe and pray that she remains so until she is rescued no matter how illogical it might have been.

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 03:15am PDTReport Abuse

Is this discussion really happening? Are our military veterans who have fought to protect our country now attacking "johnny vegas" for asserting there is something fundamentally wrong with insane parents who wish to become famous by allowing a CHILD (she is 16) to take a sailing trip around the world by herself? Surely nothing could go wrong, right? Especially in The Indian Ocean where she could have ended up as a prom date for a Somali Pirate - or Pirates. And now Mr. and Mrs. concerned parent get there 15 minutes... It is lost on me how a trained Military Officer fails to understand the undeniable logic of "johnny vegas" . How is lost on you "mi_officer", sir How about framing it in a perspective I'm assuming you know a great deal about. What if our intrepid teen age girl had asked Mom and Dad if she could become embedded as a war correspondent with a Marine unit in Afghanistan? Seem far-fetched? Think about it....

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 03:21am PDTReport Abuse

bj stroup, you sir are obviously educated, but somehow are missing the point...

mi_officer

Reply by mi_officer June 11, 2010 03:55am PDTReport Abuse

Well thank you, bee, for raising that analogy. That would obviously be quite a different story though... not only would it be impossible by regulation, it would be far more dangerous. But for your information, the youngest you are allowed to enlist is 17, and there are women as young as 19 who are currently serving alongside our troops in the field. And yes, some of them are in combat, and yes, some of them have died in combat. So thank you.

I just did a little research on these parents to see if they are really of the moral character that you assume they are. As it turns out, they already had their 15 minutes when Abby's older brother circumnavigated the globe solo at the age of 17 - he was 16 when he started. And, as coincidence would have it, the reason that Abby had to leave at a time that would put her in the Indian Ocean during the winter, is because she was losing her window to beat the current record holder. That person is Jessica Watson of Australia, who was 16 years 362 days old when she successfully sailed the globe solo, non-stop, and unassisted. The point that you, and "johnny vegas", are missing, is that sometimes people do things for reasons other than fame, status or wealth. Sometimes people do things for honor, pride and the chance to say that they rose against the odds and found the strength within themselves to meet the challenge. That is something that I find personally admirable, and that spirit is what you would find in the Marines or any military branch.

jeepgirl44nj

Reply by jeepgirl44nj June 11, 2010 04:42am PDTReport Abuse

mi_officer.....Thank you for your courage to stand up to the low lifes of the world in order to keep us safe and free. What you have done is just as dangerous as what this young girl WANTED to do and I applaud both of you and anyone else out there that is willing to take a chance at the most dangerous decisions in life. Thank you for being the only one on here to be logical and intelligent about the topic.
God Bless you

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 04:43am PDTReport Abuse

"Sometimes people do things for honor, pride and the chance to say that they rose against the odds and found the strength within themselves to meet the challenge". Your point is not lost on me sir. I concur wholeheartedly. Your logic in employing it is however. With all due respect, sir, the point I am making is these are children we are talking about. There is no denying the fact that she is a 16 year old girl and that her brain processes information like a sixteen year old girl. An 18 year old female who has been trained to be a Marine is an adult. There is also no debating that the Indian Ocean is currently an extremely dangerous place. It recently took Navy Seal snipers to extricate a grown American merchant Captain from Somali Pirates. And, as I'm sure you are aware, Americans are highly prized more than ever by the Somali's because of this. But I digress. I am making the same point over and over and I don't care to "win" this debate. And I was aware it would not be possible for her to be embedded - it was simply an analogy in the extreme to point out the absurdity of this situation. I didn't mean to slight the achievements of Audie Murphy and his like.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 06:57am PDTReport Abuse

There are MANY MANY things our kids can do so they are not indoors sitting on their *sses as you said. Things that may even be dangerous up to a point (like certain sports) but with medical attention second or minutes away. Sorry but teaching children extremes is not a good thing.

And please stop the pothead/ beer drinking etc. theory already. Since when does not risking your life mean you are a pothead or a drunk????

BTW I get a rush everytime I am in a courtroom with a client or in the ER doing my externship for RN program, so there are many ways to do so. Before you ask I have my Paralegal Degree and my Medical Assisting Degree and am finishing school to become an RN. That's how that makes sense! LOL

arianeangel

Reply by arianeangel June 11, 2010 08:25am PDTReport Abuse

Yep perfect medical attention at your service within seconds...just to stabilize...Trauma center is 20 minute flight away... going to be an RN huh...So in serious, life-threating situations, you ought to know that seconds and skills count. BLS is no replacement for ALS which is no replacement to expert trauma care. You must live in a big city with lots of revenue that is well equipped with EMS and lots of top hospitals...

kbrown197477

Reply by kbrown197477 June 11, 2010 08:55am PDTReport Abuse

16 yrs old is JUST TOO YOUNG!! Hey Parents.....why not wait until she's an ADULT before you allow her to put her life on the line!! I'm GLAD she came out alive but, C'mon........Seriously??!!

I don't care how much exp. she has in a boat.......SHE'S STILL A MINOR PPL!! Did you forget about the MARESK that just got boarded a year ago?? Not to mention the "Rogue' Waves that can swallow her whole. Well, at least you didn't allow her to smoke cigs at the age of two.....or did you??

@johnny Vegas and @beeceesp.........you guys had me lmao......I competely aggree with you!!

stanc

Reply by stanc June 11, 2010 09:30am PDTReport Abuse

johnny vegas,she has more guts and smarts in her pinky than you will ever have!

kalishta

Reply by kalishta June 11, 2010 11:33am PDTReport Abuse

Horay for optomisty and all others who think that johnny vegas and friends are being pathetic and closed minded!!!

Yes, she is 16, yes, her parents are still liable for her safety and well being, and yes it was dangerous but as of right now she is alive and ppl know where she is and are currently trying to get to her to bring her back to where she is safe. So this attempt did not go so very well, I hope that she will still have the COURAGE to try again and hopefully succeed!!!

I have said it before and I will probably say it again, WE AS PARENTS SHOULD ENCOURAGE OUR CHILDREN TO FOLLOW THEIR DREAMS EVEN IF WE DON'T AGREE WITH THEM!!! While I would not be happy about the dangers that come with letting my 16 yr old sail around the world alone I also would not stop them if that was THEIR DREAM.

Maybe the reason all of you are being so negative and hateful towards her and her parents just didn't have the loving support from your own. hmmm??? Maybe her parents informed her that they did not like the idea of her doing such a thing but let her do it anyway because that was her dream. Did anyone ask them???

meiki evanne rhule

Reply by meiki evanne rhule June 11, 2010 04:59pm PDTReport Abuse

I wish Kalishta was my mom when i was growing up....MAN I could have had fun....here is a question i asked my mom after watching PS I LOVE YOU.....mom i really realy want to go to ireland, i have even looked at air fair and stuff. Can i go plz? BEFORE THE TALK OF ME BEING IMMATURE STARTS....i graduated high school @ fifteen

dave hood

Posted by dave hood June 11, 2010 12:26am PDTReply | Report Abuse

THAT'S SO AWESOME...SO HAPPY TO HEAR IT.....WOO HOOOOOO...:)

wowyouredumb

Reply by wowyouredumb June 11, 2010 01:01am PDTReport Abuse

yay!

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 02:42am PDTReport Abuse

"Hey Mom and Dad, can I go sail around the world by myself when I turn sixteen?" "Of course honey, what kind of parents would we be to say no to sending a a child to sail in pirate infested, storm ravaged oceans all by herself. You go and have a nice time" "Gee, thanks Mom, you and Dad are the coolest. But I have a question: what happens if something goes wrong and my life is in peril?" "Well honey, if that happens, just set of your distress beacons and rescue teams from the nearest countries will send ships and aircraft at a cost of hundreds of thousands of their citizens tax dollars to locate you..." "Oh, Mom, I didn't realize being rescued costs a lot of money, will you and Dad be asked to pay that money back?" "Of course not, dear, you'll be called a hero and an incredibly brave little girl, and your father and I will get to stand in front of our beautiful home and be interviewed by news crews - just like Lindsay Lohan's famous parents."

wnb24

Reply by wnb24 June 11, 2010 03:51am PDTReport Abuse

I bet dats exactly how it went u a fool 4 dis 1!! lmao

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 04:07am PDTReport Abuse

lots of foolz in dis drama - join in, you seem qualified LMMFAO

arianeangel

Reply by arianeangel June 11, 2010 04:38am PDTReport Abuse

Yup, just like grabbin the boat keys and I'll be back by 11. You moron, she's been training for longer than it probably took you to follow Lindsay - useless addict - Lohans career. Her family and specifically her brother are all sailors. She has grown up eating, sleeping, breathing the sea. Since you don't know her motive, I would like to give you an alternative, because basically, this is like an olympian winning a gold medal. Yes, she wants the gold medal and she has trained her whole life to get it. Grit, guts and determination. All to prove, most likely just to herself, that she really could do it! She is trying to be elite. And remember, here, she doesn't even get a gold medal. There are not nearly enough women like her in the world. I mean, shit, parents of Gymnasts don't get a bad rap for letting there babies train literally from the age of 3, going through extreme injuries, pain, losses, and other instabilities. And often training to the point that they are permanently injured and will never compete again. Nearly all gymnasts that compete in the olympics, especially females, are not adults yet.

umar idris

Reply by umar idris June 11, 2010 05:33am PDTReport Abuse

Beeceesp, good description. Like it.

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 05:40am PDTReport Abuse

arianeangel Let me guess... you are a permanently injured gymnast. This isn't about her motives or her personal glory or how long she's been training or if her Great Uncle was Admiral Bull Halsey. It's that she (like you) is a child. And all the sailing experts here and in Europe and Australia say she had absolutely no business being in the Indian Ocean at this time of year because of impossibly heavy seas - record or no record - as the probability for a catastrophic accident was nearly certain - and guess what? It happened. So, all of the training and wonderful parenting skills that brought this 16 year girl very close to losing her life (and inspired you to invoke the name of Shaun Johnson) don't really deserve your incredibly cerebral analogy. A more fitting analogy would be a gymnast who ignored a critical piece of advice - and far from winning the coveted medal almost killed herself. So forgive me for pointing this out, but you're not qualified to accuse others of being a moron and to do so is probably a bad idea. Now go lay down by your dish.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:03am PDTReport Abuse

Gymnasts have emergency medical help milliseconds away. Please realize this girl was thousands of miles away from anyone. Had she gone overboard and been hurt, even her suit wouldn't have kept her from swallowing water in a storm or getting braindamaged becuse the pressure building in her head from a hit was not relieved on time..... sorry but the circumstances are very different. Children should be able to follow their dreams but precautions need to be taken.......

arianeangel

Reply by arianeangel June 11, 2010 07:53am PDTReport Abuse

And thank God she is still alive. You can have help right next to you, that doesn't mean that you won't get paralyzed or die. There is also risk involved in such things. @beeceesp thank you for being so curt and assuming that 1) I am a child, 2) a permanently injured gymnast, 3) I was referring to a gymnast that lived her dream sucessfully without any serious debilitating injury, 4) that Abby and her parents were so incredibly misinformed about the risks of taking a boat around the world and it is similar to taking a 15 minute joyride in the car. Especially since her brother already had done it, and 5) That I am some kind of dog. Crude and tasteless. I supported my daughter's dream from the time she was 5 years old. She loved to dance. She always danced, but then she found tumbling. She was addicted from day one. She trained constantly. It was all training, school, training, eat, sleep. I loved her determination and her poise and strength. She was so motivated and beautiful. When she was fifteen, she made a bad release on the uneven bars and broke her neck. She is now a paraplegic with permanent brain damage. She can't walk, or talk, or hug me. And I miss her so much, how she was, but I wouldn't change a damn thing. I'm just thankful I still have her. She is my one true love. And by the way, Paramedics were right there...

kbrown197477

Reply by kbrown197477 June 11, 2010 08:55am PDTReport Abuse

16 yrs old is JUST TOO YOUNG!! Hey Parents.....why not wait until she's an ADULT before you allow her to put her life on the line!! I'm GLAD she came out alive but, C'mon........Seriously??!!

I don't care how much exp. she has in a boat.......SHE'S STILL A MINOR PPL!! Did you forget about the MARESK that just got boarded a year ago?? Not to mention the "Rogue' Waves that can swallow her whole. Well, at least you didn't allow her to smoke cigs at the age of two.....or did you??

@johnny Vegas and @beeceesp.........you guys had me lmao......I competely aggree with you!!

mondo

Reply by mondo June 11, 2010 12:05pm PDTReport Abuse

For all those with negative comments about Abby, have you ever sailed? Ever? Have you ever challenged yourself to something well outside your comfort zone and suceeded? If you have (guessing not) you would know what drives her.

sageman

Reply by sageman June 11, 2010 12:20pm PDTReport Abuse

I would activate the beacon as soon as I see the 1st wave, maybe before they untie my boat from dock. Not wait until in the mid of ocean. She is so stupid that this is like sell her retirement 401K at the bottom of market in 2009. I have always stay in bond, made more money that way, the safe way. That is why I have time to blog on line, retiring at age of 35. Safety 1st! Remeber that.

alempshka

Posted by alempshka June 11, 2010 12:26am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Yay! Good to know that she braved the storm and is okay. Bet her parents are relieved.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:04am PDTReport Abuse

I hope they never go through any scare like this again. How much can a parent take?!?!?!?!?

sageman

Reply by sageman June 11, 2010 12:22pm PDTReport Abuse

The parents appearantly can take a lot, just wait for waves of reporters and TV interviews.

acquamarina

Posted by acquamarina June 11, 2010 12:27am PDTReply | Report Abuse

FANTASTIC! What a relief!
We could all use some good news, Abby is found... not lost forever like Amelia.
The world needs its fearless, smart girls, and to do things like this before motherhood is best.
Oh happy day!

ronald mckenzie

Reply by ronald mckenzie June 11, 2010 12:31am PDTReport Abuse

I agree. In fact this whole world needs some of what this girl has.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:41am PDTReport Abuse

I say the idiots of the world should follow this girl....then maybe we can rid ourselves of the fools and strengthen the gene pool.

a voice

Reply by a voice June 11, 2010 12:43am PDTReport Abuse

Ronald re read Vegas's earlier remarks, I think you misunderstood what this person was saying

acquamarina

Reply by acquamarina June 11, 2010 12:46am PDTReport Abuse

Yes, thanks Ronald! I remember when the space shuttle Challenger blew up, and I thought about those poor kids left behind. I am sure Christa was not the only parent on board, but the thought of her motherless kids just seemed so tragic. Women just do not get the chance or encouragement to do these kinds of things, and I think once they become a mom they really should not take these risks. So when we loose a girl, it feels especially tragic. Not that boys are expendable, but I always notice that there is something about parents letting a girl do this that makes everyone cringe or get angry. BTW, Abby's brother made this same round the world sailing trip last year.

annonimitie

Reply by annonimitie June 11, 2010 01:35am PDTReport Abuse

best way to strengthen the gene pool would be a bullet in your head johnny vegas, that alone would be plenty

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:37am PDTReport Abuse

@annonimitie - Awesome.....so brave of you! Will you pull the trigger? We could sail out on the sea together and you can do it.....cool? Murderer.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:06am PDTReport Abuse

I love how @annonmitie sends me a threatening private message to blow my brains out.....but doesn't comment on here....what a whackjob!

annonimitie

Reply by annonimitie June 11, 2010 02:10am PDTReport Abuse

not murder, house cleaning, ridding the "gene pool" of the leaky cess pool, and i would gladly pull the trigger, and put your sorry dumbass on display.

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:11am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

annonimitie

Reply by annonimitie June 11, 2010 02:14am PDTReport Abuse

it wasn't done in private, it was right here, same place, what was private was me asking where you are, do you want to say that here?? or you going to continue to be the little coward you are?

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:19am PDTReport Abuse

@annonimitie - Wow....sounds like a murder threat to me.....I'm glad they track IP's......tell the Officer hello in the morning for me, ok? I'll send you cards in prison along with Abby's parents.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 02:23am PDTReport Abuse

This annonimitie guy is dangerous....He's seriously threatening me. What a psycho! I'm getting out of here....

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 02:24am PDTReport Abuse

hahaha yeah johnny vegas, I can just see you calling the cops over this, and throwing a tantrum when they tell you to get over it. You really think annonimitie will go to jail for saying something funny and true? I bet you're one of those people who calls 911 when your chicken mcnugget meal is wrong or someone parks in front of your driveway

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 02:31am PDTReport Abuse

yes omg he/she is *seriously threatening* you! you better run or someone will jump out of your computer with a gun!! better put on your foil helmet so we can't find you!

jaysonv

Reply by jaysonv June 11, 2010 02:42am PDTReport Abuse

hahhahahah OMG, you guys are really letting poor johnny Vegas have it good!...lol

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 02:49am PDTReport Abuse

we barely have time to make fun of him before he posts ten more times. I guess some people like looking stupid? I dunno..just trying to help :P

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:07am PDTReport Abuse

I feel bad for this Johnny. I think he has made some valid points...he just needs to breathe a little.

J- Can't force people to think as you do!!!!

acmariner99

Reply by acmariner99 June 11, 2010 10:48am PDTReport Abuse

Being a child means acting like a child. A child this young woman is NOT. So what if she is not 18. She has handled this situation with more strength, dignity, and maturity than the vast majority of people posting on this board. When her boat had mechanical problems, instead of thinking about the record, she put into port to make repairs. She avoided any area on those seas that could be infested by Somali pirates -- which was thousands of miles away from her route. She kept her boat afloat and upright in rough seas which says a lot about her skills. She had contingency after contingency built into her plan and she followed them to the letter. She was in constant contact with the outside world, including her parents, supporters, and emergency services. How is this the act of an immature sheltered child? What if she had made it with no problems? Would you haters still be saying this? We waste our tax money on rescuing drunk ass party punks not 5 miles out of harbor also -- are they a waste of money also hmmmmm? . She wanted to pursue her dreams and make something of herself. She has more guts, more brains, more skill, and more ambition than many of the people who have posted here. And how dare you tell a family how to raise their children. If you want to baby your kids until they are as (put explicit here) as you, then by all means. To those parents teaching their kids to follow their dreams, I applaud you.

I would be honored, HONORED to shake this young woman's hand

sageman

Reply by sageman June 11, 2010 12:28pm PDTReport Abuse

American dream = jobless, borrowing loads of debt, not working, sailing all day along, publicity stunt, lots of TV interview, being famous

hbrigitte

Reply by hbrigitte June 11, 2010 01:28pm PDTReport Abuse

johnnyvegas or what ever.... you need to get off the meth. get your lazy ass up clean up that nasty trailor you r living in and get a real job you jerk.

hbrigitte

Reply by hbrigitte June 11, 2010 01:28pm PDTReport Abuse

johnnyvegas or what ever.... you need to get off the meth. get your lazy ass up clean up that nasty trailor you r living in and get a real job you jerk.

the_prophet

Posted by the_prophet June 11, 2010 12:27am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Lets just hope that the rescue ship gets to her without any complications.

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 02:09am PDTReport Abuse

THAT is the best sentiment on this board.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:08am PDTReport Abuse

I agree!!!

hbrigitte

Reply by hbrigitte June 11, 2010 01:11pm PDTReport Abuse

IN MY LAST BLOG I SAID PRAYER CHANGES THINGS AND IT DID.GOD BE WITH YOU SUNDERLAND FAMILY I AM SO HAPPY YOUR BABY IS SAFE..SHE IS A BRAVE YOUNG LADY YOU SHOULD BE VERY PROUD OF HER.....GOD BLESS...

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 12, 2010 07:58pm PDTReport Abuse

this isn't a blog. stop screaming.

ucmyman

Posted by ucmyman June 11, 2010 12:28am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Thanks to God for this relief news now.

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 01:42am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!

milo olson

Reply by milo olson June 11, 2010 03:20am PDTReport Abuse

Each has their own belief sansom. Must you honestly post about your views and not just agree that its a relief to hear good news form what could have been a very tragic ending?

rhodescabbin

Posted by rhodescabbin June 11, 2010 12:28am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Fantastic that she is alive!!! I hope a lesson is learned here as the outcome could have been horribly tragic...

wilshire8

Reply by wilshire8 June 11, 2010 12:48am PDTReport Abuse

Parents need to pay 100% for rescue efforts. They can take it from the website merchindise page they created for Abby16.com

rachel lucas

Reply by rachel lucas June 11, 2010 03:04am PDTReport Abuse

Ok i have an issue about the parents paying for the rescue efforts. Just because she is 16 and needed to be rescued all of a sudden money is an issue, but if a cruise ship is in distress or another smaller craft and they need rescuing or even fishing ships no one even mentions anything about someone paying for it. We just hold our breath and pray that everyone comes home alive. I think if we all stop worshiping the all mighty dollar our lives would be much better for it and I say way to go Abby in accomplishing or trying to, your dream. And as for money i am poor but i try to live to the best of my ability. And as for sailing any where if i did have the income and the knowledge you bet i would be the first one in line even at 16 i love the water and boats, i just had a different path i had to take.

kathrynfloyd

Reply by kathrynfloyd June 11, 2010 03:53am PDTReport Abuse

It is absolutely foolish and irresponsible for a CHILD (she is just 16, so don't call that impulse her parents let her follow "bravery") to attempt to sail the world alone. And cut the legal statements, because it doesn't matter if she could legally be an adult if she wanted to. Inside, she is a child, and the human brain doesn't even finish maturing until it's in its 20s. People are angry about the costs of HER rescue because they, the taxpayers, are paying for her mistake. This isn't about everyone "worshiping the mighty dollar". Yes, we do all want her to come home alive and well. But you can't just push aside all of the unnecessary costs being made. You sound like a teenager yourself, as they tend to not have the logic to understand simple concepts and financial issues.

kathrynfloyd

Reply by kathrynfloyd June 11, 2010 03:53am PDTReport Abuse

It is absolutely foolish and irresponsible for a CHILD (she is just 16, so don't call that impulse her parents let her follow "bravery") to attempt to sail the world alone. And cut the legal statements, because it doesn't matter if she could legally be an adult if she wanted to. Inside, she is a child, and the human brain doesn't even finish maturing until it's in its 20s. People are angry about the costs of HER rescue because they, the taxpayers, are paying for her mistake. This isn't about everyone "worshiping the mighty dollar". Yes, we do all want her to come home alive and well. But you can't just push aside all of the unnecessary costs being made. You sound like a teenager yourself, as they tend to not have the logic to understand simple concepts and financial issues.

kathrynfloyd

Reply by kathrynfloyd June 11, 2010 03:53am PDTReport Abuse

It is absolutely foolish and irresponsible for a CHILD (she is just 16, so don't call that impulse her parents let her follow "bravery") to attempt to sail the world alone. And cut the legal statements, because it doesn't matter if she could legally be an adult if she wanted to. Inside, she is a child, and the human brain doesn't even finish maturing until it's in its 20s. People are angry about the costs of HER rescue because they, the taxpayers, are paying for her mistake. This isn't about everyone "worshiping the mighty dollar". Yes, we do all want her to come home alive and well. But you can't just push aside all of the unnecessary costs being made. You sound like a teenager yourself, as they tend to not have the logic to understand simple concepts and financial issues.

parting

Reply by parting June 11, 2010 04:21am PDTReport Abuse

Parents are arrested and have their children taken from them for letting their children stay home alone; yet, we celebrate a child who travels around the world by ocean. A trip that will take several months. Why aren't her parents being arrested? Could it be that they are rich.

It is also being reported that the US participated in her rescue. Yes, we are spending tax money to rescue a child on the ocean who knowingly took a risk. Money that could be spent on the resources in the gulf or something else considering we are in a recession. How selfish that family is?

parting

Reply by parting June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

Parents are arrested and have their children taken from them for letting their children stay home alone; yet, we celebrate a child who travels around the world by ocean. A trip that will take several months. Why aren't her parents being arrested? Could it be that they are rich.

It is also being reported that the US participated in her rescue. Yes, we are spending tax money to rescue a child on the ocean who knowingly took a risk. Money that could be spent on the resources in the gulf or something else considering we are in a recession. How selfish that family is?

parting

Reply by parting June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

Parents are arrested and have their children taken from them for letting their children stay home alone; yet, we celebrate a child who travels around the world by ocean. A trip that will take several months. Why aren't her parents being arrested? Could it be that they are rich.

It is also being reported that the US participated in her rescue. Yes, we are spending tax money to rescue a child on the ocean who knowingly took a risk. Money that could be spent on the resources in the gulf or something else considering we are in a recession. How selfish that family is?

parting

Reply by parting June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

Parents are arrested and have their children taken from them for letting their children stay home alone; yet, we celebrate a child who travels around the world by ocean. A trip that will take several months. Why aren't her parents being arrested? Could it be that they are rich.

It is also being reported that the US participated in her rescue. Yes, we are spending tax money to rescue a child on the ocean who knowingly took a risk. Money that could be spent on the resources in the gulf or something else considering we are in a recession. How selfish that family is?

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:10am PDTReport Abuse

OMG parting- could not have said it better!!!

johnny vegas

Posted by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 12:29am PDTReply | Report Abuse

What?? This is beyond stupid....what idiot parent would allow this to happen? They should be arrested for child endangerment! Seriously, this makes me ashamed to be a human being. Just plain dumb.

a voice

Reply by a voice June 11, 2010 12:41am PDTReport Abuse

Why in the world would this make you ashamed of being a human being...uh..what about the horrible atrocities that are occurring all over the world. You focus your being ashamed of being human for this?

cruzctrl

Reply by cruzctrl June 11, 2010 12:43am PDTReport Abuse

Sounds like you still live at home!

oofirestaroo

Reply by oofirestaroo June 11, 2010 12:53am PDTReport Abuse

If someone living out their dream and gaining life experiences that take tenacity makes you embarrassed to be a human being, I wonder what sort of life you have or what kind of human being you must be. Any parent who is willing to take the time to teach a child what is necessary to follow their dreams is worth more than any parent that harbors their child and shoves books and "money makes you happy" crap down their throats. Good for her and her parents who were so loving and willing to let their children have a say in the dreams they pursued in life. Not many of us can say that we would have the guts to pursue anything that may be risky and take away from the precious realms of what society believes is correct.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:24am PDTReport Abuse

So the website they setup to make money off this little adventure is admirable? So funny....

doitright

Reply by doitright June 11, 2010 01:34am PDTReport Abuse

and now she'll go home and write a book. woohoo. more money for the slick parents.

jenniewest

Reply by jenniewest June 11, 2010 01:35am PDTReport Abuse

Her itinerary was criticized from the very beginning by experts. Putting her in the Indian Ocean in the winter time was irresponisble. Her brother did not do that and none of the other young sailors did either. Those seas are rough enough. This is not about letting her go and not letting her go. Her brother even stopped and flew home for Christmas. The experts said she left too late in the season to make it through,they tried to stop it. Obviously they were right! This was in pursuit of a record to say you were the youngest and that is why they did not wait the couple months to improve her chances of doing this safely. You all need to get a clue. Her handlers and her parents should be held responsible. This could have ended far worse. Now other people are going to risk their lives in that ocean to try to save her. I remember a USCG helicopter going down trying to save a sailboat during the Perfect Storm. The Sailboat captain insisted on pressing on after all of the warnings. The Coast Guard saved the sailboat crew but afterwards the helicopter went down and the pilot died.
Do not pretend that this was not an extremely selfish thing to do.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:39am PDTReport Abuse

@jenniewest - great points! Too bad the other myopic people on here can't see it!

justathought

Reply by justathought June 11, 2010 02:07am PDTReport Abuse

jenniewest, good points! I was going to mention that interview with that expert sailor who criticized her course and planning/timing... While I'm all for young people living out their dreams, and it DOES seem like she is quite a mature, talented and capable young person, kids under 18 (heck, many people under 24) don't have the wisdom or vision to see the big picture that making those millions at 16 (Lindsy Lohan? Brittany Spears? A slew of professional athlete/criminals?) or breaking that record isn't as important as staying alive, learning, growing, maturing and the sum of all he or she can and will contribute to the world with the proper guidance.

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:11am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:13am PDTReport Abuse

Johnny you are so right in so many ways!!!

knowitall

Reply by knowitall June 11, 2010 12:39pm PDTReport Abuse

@beeceesp exactly what I was thinking! Regardless of how anyone feels about Abby or her family's motives, bravery, "professionalism"...the fact of the matter is. Other people end up having to pay for (and risk their own lives for) her to be rescued and that is selfish no matter how you slice it.

a voice

Posted by a voice June 11, 2010 12:29am PDTReply | Report Abuse

I knew she was alive! Thank God, thank what ever higher power was out there. She has such a strong spirit for 16 jesus, how many of us as adults would have the good sense to handle what she went thru with the grace that she did

kohdez

Reply by kohdez June 11, 2010 01:02am PDTReport Abuse

... Lucky she is. brave she is. strong as well. good sense...? maybe not so much. I praise her for trying, but either she was dumb to actually think she could do it by her self or her parents are dumb enough to actually let her do this. If it took experienced sailors, with decades of experience, years and years to achieve this, why, in anyones right mind, would you let a 16 yr old female, defenceless, unexperienced, and probably naive, go on a trip around the world, by herslf!!!? perhaps she can try after a few more years of experience.
Then again, "the sky is the limit"

joemango56

Reply by joemango56 June 11, 2010 01:03am PDTReport Abuse

If she was alive and well in her boat then why thank "god"? Why "God"? The same god that makes thousands of babies a year come out with such detrimental birth defects,some that I cant even bear to look at they are so horrible and yet you thank him,I will tell you this if he does exist then i am first in line to put a bullet in his brain and believe me I WILL find a way

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:35am PDTReport Abuse

All this religious ridiculousness. Does everything have to be attributed to something? What is, must be what is. Someone ask the Holloway family about the "great grace and wonder" of God.

That is what I thought. Prayer saves one innocent 16 year old girl and not another? PLEASE.

danu425

Reply by danu425 June 11, 2010 01:40am PDTReport Abuse

Romans 1:20
For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse.

It is truly up to you joemango56 if you choose to believe in God or not. But let me tell you one thing, you will not have any excuse for not wanting to believe in Jesus Christ. Everyday you wake up in the morning is yet another day the Lord gives you the opporunity to believe in him. God will not force you to believe in him, it all comes down to faith. You argue the classic question, "Why do bad things happen to good people?"

A better question would be "Why does God allow good things to happen to bad people?" Romans 5:8 declares, "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Despite the evil, wicked, sinful nature of the people of this world, God still loves us. He loved us enough to die to take the penalty for our sins (Romans 6:23). If we receive Jesus Christ as Savior (John 3:16; Romans 10:9), we will be forgiven and promised an eternal home in heaven (Romans 8:1). What we deserve is hell. What we are given is eternal life in heaven if we come to Christ in faith.

Yes, sometimes bad things happen to people who seem undeserving of them. But God allows things to happen for His reasons, whether or not we understand them. Above all, however, we must remember that God is good, just, loving, and merciful. Often things happen to us that we simply cannot understand. However, instead of doubting God's goodness, our reaction should be to trust Him. "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6).

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 01:43am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:46am PDTReport Abuse

"Yes, sometimes bad things happen to people who seem undeserving of them. But God allows things to happen for His reasons, whether or not we understand them."


Hitler said some similar things, didn't he?

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:47am PDTReport Abuse

Above all, however, we must remember that God is good, just, loving, and merciful.

Think the Holloway family agrees? Abby worth saving, Natalie.... not so much.

Praise God.

pwill3ds

Reply by pwill3ds June 11, 2010 01:49am PDTReport Abuse

Actually, what kept her alive, considering she never suffered any significant trauma in the first place, was her typically functioning body. HINT: That's what keeping you alive right now as well. ^_^ I'll "pray" for you though just in case. Maybe I can talk god in to not unleashing a terrible calamity upon you and your family. I hope I don't fuck up his plans for the universe and all in the process.

kixi

Reply by kixi June 11, 2010 02:00am PDTReport Abuse

I THINK EVERYONE IN THIS CONVO NEED TO READ THE BOOK "THE SHACK" MAYBE THEN YOU WILL SEE WHAT IS, AND WHAT ISNT. WE PRAY TO PUT POSITIVE ENERGY INTO THE UNIVERSE THAT WE ARE ALL SO CONNECTED IN. WHEN WE PRAY, ITS COMMUNICATING AND INERACTING WITHIN OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. GOD HAS THE POWER TO CHANGE, YET IF HE USED THAT POWER IT WOULDNT BE LOVING JUDGMENT FREE. IT WOULD INTERFERE WITH OUR FREE WILL, WITH OUR MORTALITY THAT JESUS GAVE US WHEN HE DIED ON THE CROSS. WE ARE ALL LOVED EQUALLY, UNCONDITIONALLY AND IF GOD CHOSE TO SAVE ONE OVER ANOTHER IT WOULD BE SINNING AGAINST OUR FREE WILL. THAT SAME FREE WILL AND JUSTIFICATION OF ASSUMING RIGHT FROM WRONG. IF GOD CHOSE ONE LIFE OVER ANOTHERS, IT WOULD BE LIKE CHOOSING TO SAVE ONE OF YOUR OWN CHILDREN FROM DYING AND LETTING THE OTHER LIVE. THERE IS A BIGGER PLAN AND ONCE WE AS A UNIVERSE COME TOGETHER AS ONE AND STOP JUDGING AND FEELING SO DAMN JUSTIFIED ALL THE TIME THAT PLAN WILL UNFOLD. UNTL THEN, GOD HAS TO SUFFER IN PAIN AS WE DO SEEING HIS CHILDREN DESTROY WHAT WAS ONCE SO BEAUTIFUL. THIS MOTHER EARTH AND ITS CHILDREN. SO PRAY ALL YOU WANT! THE ANSWERS COME WITHIN YOUR SELF. AND PRAY ALL YOU WANT BECAUSE OUR UNIVERSE NEEDS THAT POSITIVE CHARGE.

AND "GOD" IS NON DENOMINATIONAL..... THE POWER OF PRAYER IS THE ONLY THING THESE FKD UP RELIGIONS AND CULTS HAVE IN COMMON.... BUT THERE IS ONLY ONE HIGHER POWER NO MATTER WHAT RELIGION YOU FOLLOW.

BUT EXACTLY... SO EASY TO GET OFF POINT. THE POWER OF PRAYER HELPED THAT LITTLE GIRL KEEP THE COURAGE TO NOT GIVE UP. IT SENT ALL THE ANGELS TO HER SIDE TO WATCH OVER HER AND HOLD HER WHEN HER PARENTS COULDNT. SO DONT "THANK GOD' THANK LIFE. THANK LOVE. THANK THE UNIVERSE. AND HER PARENTS SHOULD BE THANKFUL FOR EVERYONE WHO SENT THEIR GUARDIAN ANGLES TO WATCH OVER THEIR LITTLE GIRL. I KNOW THEY ARE.

anthony johnson

Reply by anthony johnson June 11, 2010 02:03am PDTReport Abuse

Thank god kixi used all caps or I might've wasted 5 min reading all of her post.

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 02:04am PDTReport Abuse

I THINK EVERYONE'S POINTS ARE MADE BETTER IN CAPS!!!!

Wait...maybe not.

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:12am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

justathought

Reply by justathought June 11, 2010 02:16am PDTReport Abuse

Yeah, Kixi, I agree that we are all connected and people need to look inside themselves to unleash our collaborative potential... but did you really need to use all caps??

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 02:21am PDTReport Abuse

nothing makes me scroll past quicker than all caps...except scripture.

@kodez: so you said "16 yr old female, defenceless, unexperienced" I'm pretty sure she was experienced...I doubt she was defenseless (no c's in that word btw), she had a boat full of equipment and more than one way to call for help, and she obviously knew what to do in an emergency. Finally, what the hell does her being female have to do with it?

beeceesp

Reply by beeceesp June 11, 2010 04:00am PDTReport Abuse

thisfun - I'm sure all of her "experience" and her boat-load of equipment would have come in handy when lonely Somali Pirates (who are currently plying their trade in the Indian Ocean) came calling looking for a "prom date". You and all the others who are defending the absolutely insane parents for allowing a 16 year old CHILD - to do this stunt - are not thinking clearly! Run the facts through your mind once again and see if you really find the actions of her parents responsible. It is appalling. How are her parents any different than the irresponsible, fame whoring parents of Lindsay Lohan?

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:15am PDTReport Abuse

Caps is screaming and not very well tolerated mylove.......you may want to get your point across more calmly!!! LOL

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 12, 2010 07:56pm PDTReport Abuse

All 16 year olds are different, some are so immature they probably shouldn't go to college in 2 years. Some are ready to do things that some 40 year olds can't handle. I'm sure her parents know her best and were able to decide if she was old enough to handle it. 16 isn't always a child.

mcallen moses

Posted by mcallen moses June 11, 2010 12:29am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Good luck gal.Its good to be brave and obviously we take those kind of challenges worthy thinking of. Few girls or even boys could contemplate doing the same.

Gilbert Moses (Botswana)

louis muller

Reply by louis muller June 11, 2010 04:30am PDTReport Abuse

another Emelia Erhardt in younger edition........any 10 year old pilot or sailor in the wings???

ray lee freeman

Posted by ray lee freeman June 11, 2010 12:29am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Thank God she's safe....that's all that really matters.Boats can be repaired,but lives are precious

wilshire8

Reply by wilshire8 June 11, 2010 12:50am PDTReport Abuse

Very happy to hear of her safety. Parents need to pay 100% for rescue efforts. They can take it from the website merchindise page they created for Abby16.com

joemango56

Reply by joemango56 June 11, 2010 01:05am PDTReport Abuse

yes I will thank that magical entity in the sky

joejgeorge

Reply by joejgeorge June 11, 2010 01:06am PDTReport Abuse

We saved a guy once when I was in the Navy. He was bleeding to death cause he was bitten by a Barracuda. We were 400 miles away and probably cost 6 or 7 hundred thousand to get him. Nobody billed him. Your an ass. I hope when the fire dept saves your ass, you flip the entire bill. Eat shit wilshire8

wilshire8

Reply by wilshire8 June 11, 2010 01:28am PDTReport Abuse

Joegeorge I hear what you say and thank God for the wotk you did and the Navy still does, but the family approved this trip against the wishes of almost every experianced sailor in the know regarding her departure date because of the weather that would happen this time of year in the Indian Ocean. They sent her off this time of year knowing of the dangers becuase if they waited too long she WOULD NOT be the youngest to make the trip. I would fully expect all resources to be used to save her, but this clearly was about geting there 15 minutes of fame. I doubt that the guy you saved also had a website up to raise money for his swim.

doitright

Reply by doitright June 11, 2010 01:28am PDTReport Abuse

agree with wilshire8! waste of resources. she can other things to make a difference in this world. her parents seem money hungry sending their kid to the sharks while the manage the website. world record? stupid. go fish and try to feed the world instead, abby. and joejgeorge, you eat shit! obviously, navy made you bitter. if the guy jumped in a barracuda infested water even if he was warned, yes, he should be billed. but you nor i don't know what happened to him and whether he was billed or not...so that's not even a good analogy.

johnny vegas

Reply by johnny vegas June 11, 2010 01:33am PDTReport Abuse

I agree with @wilshire8 & @doitright.....bill the parents 100%......teach the other foolish parents who are looking for a quick buck a lesson.

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 01:45am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made and she lived through it so good for her!!

neverforget

Reply by neverforget June 11, 2010 03:42am PDTReport Abuse

johnny vegas if you ever have kids you can choose how you want to raise them. i just hope you love them unconditionally for who they are, treat them with respect and teach them how to respect others, let them dream and hope/help their dreams become a reality, dont hold them back just because it isnt your dream, and let them live because those are just a few things that good parents do. make sure you tell them you love them everyday cuz you never know when your gonna lose them, or when they lose you. i dont really care what her parents intentions were but lets just be thankful that she is alright.

wnb24

Reply by wnb24 June 11, 2010 03:54am PDTReport Abuse

I dnt c y everybody on johnny vegas case it was stupid ass thing 2 do.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:20am PDTReport Abuse

Allowing your child to endanger their life without having an emergency medical team standing by is neglect..... you want to allow them to do something this risky, be prepared for the worst by having the necessary precautions in place. This is the difference between support and neglect.......

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:20am PDTReport Abuse

Allowing your child to endanger their life without having an emergency medical team standing by is neglect..... you want to allow them to do something this risky, be prepared for the worst by having the necessary precautions in place. This is the difference between support and neglect.......

kalishta

Reply by kalishta June 11, 2010 12:03pm PDTReport Abuse

so, lysetteasen, let me ask you this...

Should we all send a medical team with our 16 yr olds when they get behind the wheel of a car? Is letting a 16yr old drive a car filled with his/her friends lauging and talking while the radio is blasting also neglect? If it is then why hasn't this country uped the age requirement to 18 or 21 for ALL states?

The reason we as parents continue to let our children get behind the wheel of a car at such a young age is because we trust them to be safe and know what to do in an emergency. Have any of you ever thought about that???

Maybe the reason Abby's parents let her try to sail the world alone is because THEY TRUST HER!!! Maybe, her parents informed her that they were not keen on the idea but let her do it anyway because they were ENCOURAGING her to FOLLOW HER DREAM!!! Did anyone ask them???

gracereformed

Posted by gracereformed June 11, 2010 12:30am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Thank You Lord! You directed those pilots to find her. You are an awesome God. Praise You Jesus...King of Kings and Lord of Lords...Your mercy never fails...it is new every morning...Great is Your faithfulness....

Thank You for giving this daughter back to her parents alive and well....Thank You God!!!

We overflow with joy for her survival and her family's relief....Thank You and Praise You for Your unbelievable mercy and grace....

winniclark

Reply by winniclark June 11, 2010 12:43am PDTReport Abuse

AMEN!!!

gathoni jayne

Reply by gathoni jayne June 11, 2010 01:38am PDTReport Abuse

Thank you Lord!

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 01:45am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made and she lived through it so good for her!!

micahdiano

Reply by micahdiano June 11, 2010 01:54am PDTReport Abuse

Amen!!!
Glory to God!! she is safe..
Praise Lord!

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 02:13am PDTReport Abuse

Thanks God for being really random about the people who die and who is hurt and who gets saved. Each time a drunk driver lives and a child in the other car dies, it is all in the plan...right?

Good things attributed to God's mercy and bad things are in his plan, right?

That is the BS way to explain it, right?

jordan1122

Reply by jordan1122 June 11, 2010 02:16am PDTReport Abuse

Let's praise God for saving this girl and continue ignoring the fact that He is unable or unwilling to save the 2,000,000 kids each year that die from diarrhea. Praise the Lord, who saved Abby Sunderland and gave us the ability to be willfully ignorant and irrational!! Hallelujah!!!!

justathought

Reply by justathought June 11, 2010 02:33am PDTReport Abuse

And thank you God for protecting those people who were on that oil rig and bringing them back to their families safe... King of Kings you are so merciful that you helped direct those engineers to stop the flow of dangerous oil from the earth in just 3 days and saved our beautiful seas and all of your innocent creatures in them... we overflow with joy as you kept safe the great-granddaughter of Nelson Mandela, one of your greatest workers towards peace in this world, instead of letting the driver of her car get drunk and crash into a barricade. There are so many wonderful things that are evidence of your mercy, your glory and your grace... if we just focus on the positive things in this world, and thank you for them, we will not have to deal with any of the negative... until it is knocking at our door.

jleulate

Reply by jleulate June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

I never realized how many rude people there were until I read this post with the comments that followed. The truth is the that each of you that rudely commented after the prayerful post was made are the ones that need to be prayed for.

Lord, I pray for myself and all of those you have posted on this article about the young girl who tried to sail around the world that we may glorify Your Name. Thank You, Lord, for the opportunity to post this. We are all judgmental in some way. I pray that you forgive us all. I pray that this girl keeps striving for her goal!!! Keeps her focus!! I pray she always has her family support. I pray that each and every person who reads this no matter how mad they get has a Blessed Day and a stops being so angry at a young girl and her family for their own personal issues.

Amen

jleulate

Reply by jleulate June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

I never realized how many rude people there were until I read this post with the comments that followed. The truth is the that each of you that rudely commented after the prayerful post was made are the ones that need to be prayed for.

Lord, I pray for myself and all of those you have posted on this article about the young girl who tried to sail around the world that we may glorify Your Name. Thank You, Lord, for the opportunity to post this. We are all judgmental in some way. I pray that you forgive us all. I pray that this girl keeps striving for her goal!!! Keeps her focus!! I pray she always has her family support. I pray that each and every person who reads this no matter how mad they get has a Blessed Day and a stops being so angry at a young girl and her family for their own personal issues.

Amen

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 09:46am PDTReport Abuse

"I never realized how many rude people there were until I read this post with the comments that followed. "

Judge not! Lest ye be judged, jleulate. I guess you never read that one?

jleulate

Reply by jleulate June 11, 2010 10:04am PDTReport Abuse

Yes, I have read that one!!!

If you didn't read my post correctly, let me redirect you to my post. I included myself in the prayer as one of the rude people!!! Look above and read it again. I don't like judging people. What I have said and what I did go against each other. I understand that. But why does everone keep bashing this girl and her family. They have done nothing wrong to any of us. It just makes no sense. She is a girl living her dreams. That is a great great thing! I wish I could live mine.

marlonblogz

Posted by marlonblogz June 11, 2010 12:30am PDTReply | Report Abuse

thank god this little lady is safe......anyway she learned something from it but i think she will pursued to trip again next time maybe she's going to use a bigger boat lol

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:12am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

mac1dre81

Reply by mac1dre81 June 11, 2010 02:54am PDTReport Abuse

Sorry little buddy but god only exists for people that are scared to live life and the consequences that come from it. That might describe you but it does not describe Abby.

jrdsage

Reply by jrdsage June 11, 2010 04:16am PDTReport Abuse

Are you people kidding me!! You're going to criticize someone that put the word god in what they say. You don't even know if they are religious or not. Now a days most people don't put much thought to what they say, it just comes out, with either Thank God!, or Like hell!, or swear words.
Ok so the girls safe... We all know it now... Moving on.

mac1dre81

Reply by mac1dre81 June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

God's the man.

mac1dre81

Reply by mac1dre81 June 11, 2010 04:23am PDTReport Abuse

God's the man.

mac1dre81

Reply by mac1dre81 June 11, 2010 04:24am PDTReport Abuse

God's the man.

depassori

Posted by depassori June 11, 2010 12:32am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Wonderful news! Praise God! Now, please stop letting babies travel the seas alone! That is insane! There needs to be some law that prohibits this. So dangerous!

wilshire8

Reply by wilshire8 June 11, 2010 01:34am PDTReport Abuse

Amen

gathoni jayne

Reply by gathoni jayne June 11, 2010 01:41am PDTReport Abuse

A lesson for everyone? and God has given humanity another chance to redeem itself from all folly,and in his undeserved grace,we have Abby back....we praise Him and Adore Him more!

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 01:48am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made and she lived through it so good for her!!

thegoldenboy

Reply by thegoldenboy June 11, 2010 01:51am PDTReport Abuse

Yep, God "gave back" Abby. He took Natalie though. Yep. That's how it works...

Praise and adore...

sansom jeremiah

Reply by sansom jeremiah June 11, 2010 02:12am PDTReport Abuse

Ok, shut up and listen.....GOD, in no way has any power or say in what we do... because he gave us the choice to choose are own paths that we take. he just hopes we make the right choices!!
and that's the choice she made,... and she lived through it.. so good for her!!

charles ritchey

Reply by charles ritchey June 11, 2010 02:20am PDTReport Abuse

This is the Land of the FREE and Home of the BRAVE, it wasn't too long ago when it was common that 16 yr olds were married and giving birth and now WE are absurdly judging the ability of this talented young lady to follow her dreams and ambitions. I tell you that it is an absolute Shame for some to try and crucify the family for allowing THIER daughter the RIGHTS of OUR CONSTITUTION.

federalist

Reply by federalist June 11, 2010 04:27am PDTReport Abuse

As a parent, it is your duty to decide which "dreams" or grandiose fantasies of adventure your sixteen year old should be doing. It is called responsible parenting. A sixteen year old brain is NOT fully developed and the adult should be assisting with these big decisions about life and death stunts. That way when they are an adult, they will be alive to do more! It was a poor choice to allow the sixteen year old to venture into the wilds to endanger her life and now the lives of those looking for her. As a society, we ALL pay for this adventure in one form or another and NOBODY benefits from her "heroic" death.

erodriguez7734

Reply by erodriguez7734 June 11, 2010 04:29am PDTReport Abuse

You must be a family member. This family should be held responsible to pay for their child's rescue, being that they allowed this brave and talented young lady to follow her dream. It isn't the tax payers dream, so tell me why should they pay.

erodriguez7734

Reply by erodriguez7734 June 11, 2010 04:29am PDTReport Abuse

You must be a family member. This family should be held responsible to pay for their child's rescue, being that they allowed this brave and talented young lady to follow her dream. It isn't the tax payers dream, so tell me why should they pay.

erodriguez7734

Reply by erodriguez7734 June 11, 2010 04:30am PDTReport Abuse

You must be a family member. This family should be held responsible to pay for their child's rescue, being that they allowed this brave and talented young lady to follow her dream. It isn't the tax payers dream, so tell me why should they pay.

lysetteasen

Reply by lysetteasen June 11, 2010 07:21am PDTReport Abuse

Amen

dawn herrmann

Reply by dawn herrmann June 11, 2010 11:09am PDTReport Abuse

I applaud these parents for supporting her dream!!! WOW! Amazing young women. If no one was ever allowed to take a chance in this world we might not be where we are. I have no problem with supporting the rescue mission.....No one asked me if I wanted to spend tax dollars on a war we will never win! All I can say is "YOU GO GIRL!!".

rivermom

Posted by rivermom June 11, 2010 12:32am PDTReply | Report Abuse

on second thought... i think these parents are stage parents who want to live vicariously through their daughter's glory and ride the coat tails of her fame! this is their priority before their concern for her safety! prayers are great but isn't it "tempting" God by pushing your 16 year old daughter out into the middle of the ocean, ALONE!! nuts!!

orionduzt

Reply by orionduzt June 11, 2010 12:53am PDTReport Abuse

this was Abby's dream! she wanted to do this her parents just allowed her to. she would have done it with parents consent or not.. she is a courageous and determined gal. Her parents didnt push her into doing it.. it may be nuts to go out at 16 and sail around the world alone .. but that again was her dream. why smash a young girls hopes and dreams? She should be a role model for kids to push and strive towards their dreams and goals that they have in their life instead of babying them. It makes them stronger adults. Abby has more courage in her baby finger than i have at my age. i know its dangerous and slightly on the insane side to think about a kid doing this... but then again if we didnt have ppl like her on earth to keep hopes and dreams alive who strive to be the best and reach for the stars ... than where would we be? i can tell ya what there wouldnt be an iphone or personal computers..if when steve jobs was 16 he didnt pretty much strive towards his dreams and start inventing the personal computer.. which was also considered to be insane at that time.. :)

rivermom

Reply by rivermom June 11, 2010 01:06am PDTReport Abuse

No Orinduzt, she WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO DO THIS WITHOUT HER PARENTS UNDER CALIF. LAWS.

thisisfun

Reply by thisisfun June 11, 2010 02:11am PDTReport Abuse

She isn't from California...I'm pretty sure she isn't even from the U.S. The point is that she wanted to do it, no one "pushed" her.

rivermom

Reply by rivermom June 11, 2010 02:16am PDTReport Abuse

thisisfun, She lives less than 5 miles from me in thousan oaks. WHICH BTW: IS IN CALIFORNIA.

justathought

Reply by justathought June 11, 2010 02:36am PDTReport Abuse

goes to show you that some people don't actually READ or RESEARCH before they comment or want to give their sagacious opinion on the topic... = p

squevva

Reply by squevva June 11, 2010 09:49am PDTReport Abuse

Does it matter where she is from? She is ONLY 16 and is many societies (including ours) she is considered a child. That is why the adults who brought her into this world are suppose to act like adult parents and guide and teach her to be responsible to herself, her family and her world. They are suppose to keep her out of harms way until she is of the age of adulthood at which time she can make her own decisions and accept the consequences for them. In the meantime, the parents of this world had better start stepping up to the plate and start being parents and not their childs "friend". Learn to say no to the child when it is appropriate and not give in because it is easier. I am 70 yrs old and have seen the problems of young people accelerating each generation because parents are relinquishing their parental duties and allowing the child to do as they please from the time they are able to express displeasure with something they don't want to do. They pout and throw tantrums and parents give in for whatever reason. The child grows up without boundaries, discipline or responsibility. How are they suppose to learn unless the parents teach them these life lessons?

ndakian

Reply by ndakian June 11, 2010 01:08pm PDTReport Abuse

kiera

If you read your own post you clearly state that she did something "stupid". We have military, firefighters, policemen and women, Red Cross, etc. to help preserve and save lives. When catastrophic situations happen like Katrina, the flooding going on right now, sink holes, earthquakes, etc. Of course I feel that she is "worth saving", she's a human being afterall. However, someday when she grows up she may realize that this was a very self-serving endeavor she attempted.

alekos papios

Posted by alekos papios June 11, 2010 12:34am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Well done you can all rest now, your daughter has taught all of us a great lesson of courage and determination her trip will always be remembered! I slept two hours last night but knew she will be safe... Abby all the best to your family when you return home ..we will always respect the courage and determination of the young in this world you are our hope and promise..take care
John Z and Family from Greece

federalist

Reply by federalist June 11, 2010 04:26am PDTReport Abuse

As a parent, it is your duty to decide which "dreams" or grandiose fantasies of adventure your sixteen year old should be doing. It is called responsible parenting. A sixteen year old brain is NOT fully developed and the adult should be assisting with these big decisions about life and death stunts. That way when they are an adult, they will be alive to do more! It was a poor choice to allow the sixteen year old to venture into the wilds to endanger her life and now the lives of those looking for her. As a society, we ALL pay for this adventure in one form or another and NOBODY benefits from her "heroic" death.

arianeangel

Reply by arianeangel June 11, 2010 04:48am PDTReport Abuse

Are you talking about just Abby or her brother who successfully circumnavigated the globe @ 16? A 25 year old man's brain is not fully developed either. Better that she take this risk and have her passion for the sea than be a coke whore, get knocked up, and die of preeclampsia @ 16, which is all her parents fault because her parents didn't pay attention to her as kid.

tfo

Reply by tfo June 11, 2010 03:36pm PDTReport Abuse

alekos you are deragned. Get a life man.

flamekaat

Posted by flamekaat June 11, 2010 12:34am PDTReply | Report Abuse

Good Luck Kid! We know you will try again and make it this time!

natasha smith

Reply by natasha smith June 11, 2010 02:14am PDTReport Abuse

I think it was pretty stupid of her parents to let her do that. Just my opinion.

carm

Reply by carm June 11, 2010 03:09am PDTReport Abuse

I agree with Natasha. This attempt was insane at best.

peopleareignorant21

Reply by peopleareignorant21 June 11, 2010 03:56am PDTReport Abuse

she hasnt been found yet morons... shes seriously more likely to be found by pirates than a few crews sent out by france and the u.s.... think about it, there are probably men looking for her right now and for what reasons? yeah thats something I'd want for anyone, Think people shes really not safe yet at all

anthony jd

Reply by anthony jd June 11, 2010 04:14am PDTReport Abuse

Let us set aside all this nonsense, Thank God they located Abby. I give this young lady courage for even trying such a task. Prayers do indeed work. Best Wishes Abby in your future endeavors you will do fine in whatever you do ! AJD

arianeangel

Reply by arianeangel June 11, 2010 04:20am PDTReport Abuse

Hey Mr. people are ignorant - especially yourself! She has been found and spoken to and is okay. And pirates have no reason to be floating around in remote areas i.e. Non shipping area no where near a port! No ships=no loot=no payout. Pretty sure they did come sailing at full speed just to rape one chick when they get to do it plenty at home. Oh yeah, and they're no where even freakin close to there! - Just informing the ignorant!

federalist

Reply by federalist June 11, 2010 04:37am PDTReport Abuse

arianeangel - The sixteen year old child is not currently in pirate waters obviously, she is stranded in a stormy sea with a broken boat with no viable communication! But, she did sail through pirate waters getting there. And maybe you are not aware of the human trafficking problem in the world because you live in a safe place called America. Why is it that the responsible people on this comment area care more for this child than her own parents?!

federalist

Reply by federalist June 11, 2010 04:38am PDTReport Abuse

arianeangel - The sixteen year old child is not currently in pirate waters obviously, she is stranded in a stormy sea with a broken boat with no viable communication! But, she did sail through pirate waters getting there. And maybe you are not aware of the human trafficking problem in the world because you live in a safe place called America. Why is it that the responsible people on this comment area care more for this child than her own parents?!

arianeangel

Reply by arianeangel June 11, 2010 05:05am PDTReport Abuse

@ federalist - I was responding to peoplerignorant21's post stating that she would likely be caught by pirates before imminent rescue. I am most certainly aware of human trafficking as well as ransom schemes set up by pirates who abduct ships crews. I am also aware that someone like her would be a very valuable assest to them, however, her and her family were aware of this prior to her sendoff and most likely kept her as far out of harms way as they could. There are many dangers in this world. On the sea, in the car, in your shower. I would much rather die trying to accomplish my dream than die in a car accident that wasn't my fault - just a matter of wrong place, wrong time. People are assuming that she has no communication with her family since she left and that her navigation hasn't changed from her sendoff in January. Yes, January. Trust me, she is being kept very aware of conditions, political, meterological, and otherwise. She's not out there blind. People get the impression that she just took a boat and left. This took years of planning. Assistance crews were informed long before she left, that is how they know where she is. Her beacon information was passed on before she left and they likely have been aware of every single movement she's made since day one. These things are intricatly planned to help reduce the chance of an accident. Unfortunately she didn't succeed this time, but my guess is she won't stop trying until she does. Who knows, maybe will all those guts and her kick ass grit, she'll join the marines or navy and protect us. We could use protection from a woman like her. Better than her falling in love with some sleaze bag, poppin out 6 kids and going on welfare, which you can also do at age 16.

michaelbushatz

Reply by michaelbushatz June 11, 2010 06:05am PDTReport Abuse

lol great post!

ebony jack

Reply by ebony jack June 11, 2010 06:27am PDTReport Abuse

This is not the truth, the truth is hiding somewhere we do not know if this story it self is a real fact, because in life nothing goes for nothing, however maybe the truth will not be good to hear so they decided to keep this story this way. she and are agents knows better what she is doing all alone in the sea , a 16 years old.

arianeangel

Reply by arianeangel June 11, 2010 07:37am PDTReport Abuse

Why don't ya go read her blog then...

luisorellana

Reply by luisorellana June 11, 2010 09:43am PDTReport Abuse

Thanks God that not all the teenagers in the world are trying to sail around the world. Many of them are just trying to survive with less than a dollar a day and when I think about the huge amount of resources, money, time and personnal that are invested in the rescue tryin to solve a problem that is a voluntary act.

shawn taylor

Reply by shawn taylor June 11, 2010 09:56am PDTReport Abuse

Ya know, at first I thought why would parents let their youngster do this. I guess I am over that. I think it should have been better planned as far as the season she tried to do this in...it is one of the roughest times of year to be attempting this. At least she isn't high on crack, running the streets with a gang, or stealing cars, or contributing to the skyrocketing teen pregnancy rate in this country. She is brave, intelligent, resourceful, and gave it one hell of a go for someone so young. Kudos Abby and I am glad you are safe!

sjlafs

Reply by sjlafs June 11, 2010 10:05am PDTReport Abuse

This isnt about stupidity or bravery. Its about calculated risks. Its about having a dream and the ambition to work for it.

Its easy sit back and join the mainstream...This girl took a chance at living out her dream. God Bless her!

I'm happy that she is alive, happy to have followed her story over the past few months.. and happy to see the sense of adventure and accomplishments still lives in the spirit of our youth.

Rather than feeding negativity and judgement on her decision to take this chance, or criticizing her parents for supporting their daughters dream, be happy the child is alive. Be happy that she will re-unite with her parents..that she will have an experience in life that most of us will never have. No - not being near death. Rather, having the experience of pushing yourself to the limits for something you really felt passionate about.

May we never lose our sense of adventure, or passion for accomplishment, and the courage to take calculated risks .. :)

"Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go."
T. S. Eliot

cheryl yatchmanoff

Reply by cheryl yatchmanoff June 11, 2010 10:32am PDTReport Abuse

when her ebirb went off there were alot of ppl on her saying how stupid she was and now u ppl are commending her for decision. how interesting. she has been training for this for years. if she was over 18 would there be any comments on here at all? or if she were a man would ppl be saying much at all? hey , ericamc since u are a teach, just think of it as a world class room. what are u teaching ur class? how to not be adventurous cause public opinion would condemn u for it. maybe some of u ppl should get off here and live outside ur box. i was pregnant when i was 16. didn't plan it but such is life sometimes. he is 35 now and i have never regretted it. once a person has made a decision, right or wrong they have a choice to deal with it or not. humans deal with it. i grew up in South Dakota and have lived in Alaska for 20+ yrs. what a difference in attitudes and mind sets up here. i have worked on fishing boats in the Bering Sea. was it wrong to go to sea and leave my son on his own? maybe to some,but i did and we are both stronger for it. like they say , if it doesn't kill u it well make u stronger. i normally don't comment on blogs but after reading all of these comments i had to. i agree with the ppl that say get off here and get a life. go ride a bike or something. i weigh 248, didn't plan that either, but bought a bike and off i went. not bad for 53 yrs old. a fat person riding a bike is not a pretty site.. i don't care...we ppl make decisions that is not publicly acceptable but it is our decision. i,ve seen ppl surfing up here.how cool. some of u should " step up " and quit sheltering urselves. i've seen things u ppl will never see like fresh air and an environment that hasn't been transplanted to make things look green. maybe some of u should come up here to visit. is it brave or foolish. possibly depending ur attitude. but u probably don't have the fortitude to do it. how small...

monte

Reply by monte June 11, 2010 10:57am PDTReport Abuse

I can't believe you people have nothing better to do than fight argue and curse over the Internet about something that has no bearing on your life. That 16 yr old CHILD that was attempting to become the youngest person to have sailed around the world alone should have been stopped by her parents. She is a minor and you people really need to get a life!!!

casper51

Reply by casper51 June 11, 2010 11:23am PDTReport Abuse

Why would you make a comment, right after you said you couldn't believe these people have nothing better to do than comment on something that has no bearing on there lives? That is strange! If you took time to read some of these you may figure out why people are upset and that this does have a bearing on some of our lives. At least it does for me, I am a taxpayer and am tired of seeing taxpayers money being spent on rescues done on those that want to "challenge the world", let them pay for the rescue. Better yet, you have nothing better to do, YOU pay for the damn rescue!HA!

renewable ray

Reply by renewable ray June 11, 2010 11:40am PDTReport Abuse

I'll admit, I question people's judgement sometimes on adventures like this. But where would we be if we did not have brave people among us to move us forward as a society.

Just glad to hear she is OK.

Ray @ New World Solar
http://newworldsolarpower.com

renewable ray

Reply by renewable ray June 11, 2010 11:40am PDTReport Abuse

I'll admit, I question people's judgement sometimes on adventures like this. But where would we be if we did not have brave people among us to move us forward as a society.

Just glad to hear she is OK.

Ray @ New World Solar
http://newworldsolarpower.com

goolie

Reply by goolie June 11, 2010 12:23pm PDTReport Abuse

@johnny vegas: There have been MANY other teens who have performed the EXACT same trek as this young lady attempted. It's not a stunt. It's a hobby and a something she enjoys doing.

Not that I would have let my daughter do this alone, but if her parents felt secure enough and confident in Abby's confidence that she could do it, then why do they have to be stupid.

Stop being so judgmental. Weren't you ever taught "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything." Grow up man!!

serendepity

Reply by serendepity June 11, 2010 12:25pm PDTReport Abuse

People are saying that she should be commended because she is not out doing drugs, or having sex. There are other things she can do to occupy her time and benefit another person. She can volunteer at a hospital, soup kitchen, or nursing home. She can tutor. She can even teach kids about sailing. I do not agree with letting a 16yr old travel across the ocean. The expense that will incur to rescue her will be enormous. She and her family will be on every talk show and she will be called brave and a hero. In reality it was irresponsible for her parent's to let her go. I guess they were willing to risk their daughter's life for 15 minutes of fame. Shame on them.

dyob

Reply by dyob June 11, 2010 12:28pm PDTReport Abuse

How is her sailing around that country moving us forward as a society? I mean really how dumb of a comment is that! Yes I feel better and happier about the society I live in because a 16 year old try to become famous and didn't succeed. It is to bad she didn't sail around the world because if she had maybe she would have solved world hunger or fixed our struggling economy. That is something Obama can spend money on. Have every 16 year old sail around the world by themselves and then everything that he has to deal with as president will just magically disappear. Her parents should be ashamed of what they did because they almost lost their daughter and is a record worth losing your child? NOPE DIDN"T THINK SO!!

dyob

Reply by dyob June 11, 2010 12:28pm PDTReport Abuse

How is her sailing around that country moving us forward as a society? I mean really how dumb of a comment is that! Yes I feel better and happier about the society I live in because a 16 year old try to become famous and didn't succeed. It is to bad she didn't sail around the world because if she had maybe she would have solved world hunger or fixed our struggling economy. That is something Obama can spend money on. Have every 16 year old sail around the world by themselves and then everything that he has to deal with as president will just magically disappear. Her parents should be ashamed of what they did because they almost lost their daughter and is a record worth losing your child? NOPE DIDN"T THINK SO!!

dyob

Reply by dyob June 11, 2010 12:28pm PDTReport Abuse

How is her sailing around that country moving us forward as a society? I mean really how dumb of a comment is that! Yes I feel better and happier about the society I live in because a 16 year old try to become famous and didn't succeed. It is to bad she didn't sail around the world because if she had maybe she would have solved world hunger or fixed our struggling economy. That is something Obama can spend money on. Have every 16 year old sail around the world by themselves and then everything that he has to deal with as president will just magically disappear. Her parents should be ashamed of what they did because they almost lost their daughter and is a record worth losing your child? NOPE DIDN"T THINK SO!!

peever

Reply by peever June 11, 2010 12:32pm PDTReport Abuse

Boy, listening to all of you has been interesting, to say the least. I have to take issue with one particular nitwit up above who is comparing this girl to Christopher Columbus. You are way off base even mentioning this story in the same breath as Christopher Columbus. Did he go by himself? Or did he take an entire expedition? You are a pea -brained moron. The 2 events are in no way related, other than THEY WERE SAILING! Dope. Go back to trying to be intelligent to all of your frisbee golf buddies.

peever

Reply by peever June 11, 2010 12:32pm PDTReport Abuse

Boy, listening to all of you has been interesting, to say the least. I have to take issue with one particular nitwit up above who is comparing this girl to Christopher Columbus. You are way off base even mentioning this story in the same breath as Christopher Columbus. Did he go by himself? Or did he take an entire expedition? You are a pea -brained moron. The 2 events are in no way related, other than THEY WERE SAILING! Dope. Go back to trying to be intelligent to all of your frisbee golf buddies.

flamekaat

Reply by flamekaat June 11, 2010 12:34pm PDTReport Abuse

I believe in this girl more then some of you people do. Her parents would not let some vacant vapid air head sail off on their own. No one is that irresponsible, not in the big ole glaring public eye like this is. Worry about her...nah man I am worried about all the poor creatures in the midst of the gulf oil spill and all the people still out of work while companies are importing foreign students so that our jobs may be taken away from us by them because honestly why would you not hire someone you have to pay half as much? There are bigger things to worry about then someone who can care for herself well enough to be trusted by her parents to take off on a trip like this. When some people's kids are to busy getting knocked up or drinking and driving and killing themselves she is out there proving that not all of our youth are useless wastes of oxygen. That and to all the people screaming about pirates and slavery um, bigger profits to be made by other sales. and rescue ships on the way that could easily pursue, and a storm in the way of getting to her makes it more diff then the money would be worth. Check for the boogey man inyour closet ya worry warts. bad things could happen but if taht was all this girl worried about she would never leave her room again. Nor would any of us. Yes people can be part of those bad things, but I think she is going to be fine. Her parents might not though. They are throwing back and forth the idea that letting her do this was child neglect...yeah buying your kid a boat that with better weather was sea worthy for around the world navigation...SOOOOO neglectful! For Shame! *rolls eyes* Ok enough from me cause you all have much more to say. I have given her to god and he will care for her and that is all.

shannon rindahl

Reply by shannon rindahl June 11, 2010 01:32pm PDTReport Abuse

i COMPLETELY agree with natasha...when i first heard about this girl going to do this trip, i could not believe her parents would even consider to let her go. some of the best, most trained sailors could get into deadly situations that they wouldn't be able to control, and to let your 16-year-old daughter go on her own and face those risks is either an example of stupid parenting.

tb68

Reply by tb68 June 11, 2010 03:51pm PDTReport Abuse

My first thought is "QUITE FRANKLY IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IF THESE PEOPLE DECIDED TO MAKE THIS TRIP AROUND THE WORLD." If you had such a problem with it your time to complain and protest was before she left. I am sure there are decisions that you make with your kids that others can surely find a way to judge and ridicule you. People in glass houses should not throw stones.

Just a thought how many nay sayers on here have a child with a facebook or myspace page..the opportunity for a child molester to find your child is easier than something happening to her at sea. Put that into perspective.....

Raise your kids I will raise mine.....

If you really won't to throw a fit about tax dollars go to to your local food store and find the person that is using food stamps and driving a Cadillac!!

tb68

Reply by tb68 June 11, 2010 03:51pm PDTReport Abuse

My first thought is "QUITE FRANKLY IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IF THESE PEOPLE DECIDED TO MAKE THIS TRIP AROUND THE WORLD." If you had such a problem with it your time to complain and protest was before she left. I am sure there are decisions that you make with your kids that others can surely find a way to judge and ridicule you. People in glass houses should not throw stones.

Just a thought how many nay sayers on here have a child with a facebook or myspace page..the opportunity for a child molester to find your child is easier than something happening to her at sea. Put that into perspective.....

Raise your kids I will raise mine.....

If you really won't to throw a fit about tax dollars go to to your local food store and find the person that is using food stamps and driving a Cadillac!!

divagypsy

Reply by divagypsy June 12, 2010 10:37am PDTReport Abuse

The problem with young people today, they have view of thyself as being so important that they need the world to know about it... Just like all those on the internet making fools of themselves in hopes of being famous. Look at me, I am so important. And now all the rescue efforts from around world are spending money to rescue someone who put herself in this position just to set a record. I think there are better things she have been doing, like humanitarian rescue to the poor around the world. SHAME ON YOU....I will never support any movie or book so that you can make off of this... NO WAY....

chinedu

Reply by chinedu September 15, 2010 03:57am PDTReport Abuse

i wish all this action heroes in movies were action heroes in real life
Imagine someone like "Terminator" the California governor fighting terrorist in real life
that is a better use of his muscles
and not living a fantasy world

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